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Shanelle, 33

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About Me

I'm a busy but laid-back woman who loves her job, her family, and her friends. I'm a little bit of an optimist & try to always see the good in people (even though it's hard sometimes...lol) I DO have strong morals & try to stay away from drama as much as possible..... I'm more of a peacemaker than a drama-queen. I hope to find my soulmate, get married, and have children of my own someday, but I'm not in a big rush. Like most people, I've been hurt in the past and have been through hard times, but I've learned to enjoy the great things that I DO have *** pining for the things that I DONT have. I'd love to meet someone who shares that same mentality.As for my hobbies and interests, I have alot, so I'll just give you my top 5 lists: Activities: Dancing, ZUMBA classes, working in my yard, church activities, watching movies Food: Mexican & Italian are my favorites, but LOVE a great burger! Sports: Baseball & Hockey (to watch***volleyball & tennis (love to play) Music: Everything! I'm a dance teacher... I'm a music lover in general:) Vacation spots: anywhere with a nice beach!; AustraliaIf you'd like to know more.... let me know! I really don't have a great idea for a first date, but being able to talk to each other without hollering over a crowd is a must:) Quiet, casual dinner usually works.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dori

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I work full time & even tho I do not have any children of my own, I do raise my niece. I have had her for 6 years. So i am a single parent.I am a Non Smoker & I will not date a smoker or someone who does any type of drug.I do not care about fashion, designers, or expensive things. I do not wear tons of make up, fake anything, or products in my hair. Why I consider myself Geeky***I'm a big anime fan & love going to anime conventions. I have a bucket full of costumes & wigs for it. Also I'm a huge science geek! Love medical shows, history & anything educational. I am not interested in your car or what you have. I am looking for a great personality. Im a curvy woman. I am not a size 0 & never will be. I do love working out & have lost about 100lbs completely on my own.. Even when I reach my goal.. I will still not be a size 0. I am Not At All, What So Ever attracted to a "Thug" I like an attractive, active man who likes working out. Someone who knows how to have fun, be silly and laugh. I kinda liks geeky guys. i like a man who isn't always at the club or bar. A honest guy who works hard and has ambition in life. Who is respectful, intelligent, down to earth, genuine, easy going, and knows how to treat a good woman. I also appreciate a true gentleman.

  • Leda

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Time to update this thing! Apparently I wasn't clear enough. I don't want a "hook-up" or a "private friend." If you're married, attached, or emotionally unavailable....PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME!!!!!! I'm not interested! Also, if you just want to play games, move along. I am an adult and don't have the time for it. Sorry for all the negativity but I've gotten the most ridiculous messages. I work full time and go to school full time so, as you can imagine...my time is precious. Another important thing to know about me is how important my faith is in my life. God has brought me through so much and has never given up on me. I know I'm not a perfect Christian but that's what keeps me trying. As far as my personality, I am very outgoing, friendly, VERY sarcastic, passionate, opinionated yet open-minded. It sounds weird but I can be a bit shy when I am attracted to someone. I do like to go out and have fun but can enjoy a relaxing night in as well. I enjoy a wide variety of things and can find enjoyment in almost any activity. I have recently begun gained a workout partner and am thoroughly enjoying our 5 am workouts! I don't have the body I want but I'm doing what I need to do to get there. As a side note...I LOVE animals. I have a small dog and a couple of horses and some cows.I have the MOST amazing family anyone could ask for! I love all of them soooo much! And my friends.....well they're amazing too! I have never been married nor do I have any children. (Rare...I know) As far as what I'm looking for....I want to meet people and if there is a mutual attraction, we can hang out and get to know each other and see where it goes. I go in with no expectations and hope for the same from you. I'm not looking to jump into a heavy-duty serious relationship but I don't want a simple friend with benefits either. So....if you still wanna talk after reading this....hit me up. Ciao! Surprise me! I really enjoy almost anything.

  • Lurline

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Honestly not any good at this. Have talked to some interesting people, Live in a small town and looking forward to getting to know people that don't live here! lol. Raising my 3 wonderful kids that are the world! They keep me pretty busy with football, basketball, homework, etc. :) I'm pretty independent and don't have to have a relationship, but wouldn't mind finding a special person to spend some time with. If it doesn't happen...fine. If it does...great!I live in the middle of nowhere and love it! I like it here in the sticks with the wild life *** people. I wouldn't want to trade this country life for the city! I love spending time with my kids. I enjoy playing softball and watching my kids play sports. I do like to go out and chill with my friends some! I absolutely hate drama! My main goal in life is to raise my children...happy and healthy. Children teach us what unconditional love is all about. I have no tolerance for someone that isn't good with kids...NONE! They are my world! ***Not a morning person.*Love to be held.*I hate long fingernails on guys, feet (some things were NOTmade for flip flops people!!! Ugh), ungroomed long nasty facial hair, and dirty nails.*Love poetry, dean koontz, kids.*I joke a lot. Natural smartazz but don't mean anything mean by it...most of the time.I LOVE music! I listen to about everything, but mostly country.If you're looking for a fling, FWB, someone to talk perverted with, or someone to tell about your "guy"....I'm NOT the one you want to talk to.Most of us start down love's road idealistic and hopeful, only to be crushed by the cruel and insensitive sides of life.In the renewed/successful quest for romantic happiness, it is crucial that we free ourselves of resentments from past disappointments. The excruciating sting of rejection strikes at the very heart of our Soul. Bitterness is a toxic companion that will consume you from the inside out.When things don't turn out as we had expected, disappointment is the result. Expectations are the mother of all disappointments. Disappointment means we had expectations, and, if you think about it, aren't preconceived expectations manipulative?Dare to be different! It's easy to fall into routines - sleep and eat at the same time, wear the same style, and do your work the same way every day. Before you know it, you're in a rut. The only way to pull out of it is to decide to break free. Expand your horizons.If you haven't learned the difference between 'you're' and 'your', 'their' and 'they're'.... or your idea of the word , 'enjoy' is spelled 'injoy'. Please first use word to spell check your work!!!It's none of your business what my annual income is. I work! I've always worked! I will always work! I not only expect but demand the same for you. I am raising 3 wonderful kids and refuse to raise a man!!!If you want to reproduce.....sorry. I've had all the kids biologically that I will ever have. If you have kids, that's great. I love kids!!! I just am not giving birth to any more.Human nature is a decaying mass with a thin beautiful veil. People get mad when the veil is ripped off to reveal the decomposition beneath. Its easier to live with rose colored glasses that's for sure. Some have more experience than others, but there are others who'd rather live in a fantasy. I just want to live with someone that's HONEST! It's bad enough if you can't be honest in the real world, but the virtual world??? It's not like someone can reach through your screen and bite you!When we breath we die, when we sleep we dream. When we blink we miss it. When we think of it, it never happens. When we dream of it, our nightmares come to life. When we remember, we forget why. When we understand, we take it for granted.I'm an adult and expect you to be. I'm not into games or lies! If that's all you want to do....don't waste your time or mine!When you have found the right person, true love is not only possible, but inevitable. It is easy to become jaded, based on past romantic relationships that did not work out as planned. But, people should not give up on the hope of finding true love. Like many things that are easier to find when you're not looking, unexpectedly, you may meet the right person for you. Love is a connection between two people, and you know when it is there. To make it last, you must add respect, honesty, and trust. These things, mixed together, make up true love....Please don't be offended if I have to see it to believe it or question something or ask you to clarify.I'm not perfect by any stretch and I don't expect you to be either. Anything else you wanna know.....ask away! :) Not out to eat lol....don't like eating in front of people. Call me weird...I call me different. :) Somewhere relaxing to be able to talk.

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