Ami, 26
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I WILL NOT RESPOND TO A MESSAGE OF "HEY" OR "HOW ARE YOU" READ MY PROFILEWhere to start... I am a hopeless romantic, I would love to be swept off my feet. I am a very loving compassionate person, I wear my heart on my sleeve, but once you hurt it, it will take a lot to get it back. I am family and friend orientated, I love to surround myself with positive people. I am an independent woman, I live with my son and take care of us both, I am not looking for anyone to take care of me or my son. I love the outdoors but have a hard time getting out now with my son (explanation to come in next paragraph). Currently I am a stay at home mother on maternity leave and plan on staying home with my son till ***.Now for a bit of background, because everyone has a bit of baggage......I do not believe in the pointless two week relationships! I believe in getting to know someone by dating before you have the titles of boyfriend/girlfriend. I am a very faithful person, I have been cheated on in the past and would never want to make anyone feel what I felt.I have a son, he is 9 months old actual age but he was born close to 4 months early weighing 1lb. He is my everything. I am home with him almost every day, but he does go to his fathers one day a week and soon will be having over night stays. as it should be I will always put my son first, he has a fragile immune system and is on oxygen at this point, so I try very hard to keep him away from crowds and at all costs will keep him away from anyone who is sick.My sons father left me when I was 18 weeks pregnant and it was very hard on me, so it has made me put a bigger wall up, it will take a bit to break through but I can guarantee I will be worth it!With all of that said I will now explain what I am looking for.My son is my number one priority, nothing will change that, I am not looking for a father for him, as he has one who is involved in his life, currently he spends one day a week with his dad and will soon start every other weekend (my son is still on oxygen so it is hard for him to be away from home).I am looking for a man that is not afraid to show you are with someone, Im not asking for you to make out with me in a check out line but someone who is not afraid to hold hands and show some PDA.I love to cuddle, I want someone who will hold me through the scary parts of a movie or cuddle in bed with me on a cold winter day.I want someone who is not afraid to speak there mind, if there is a problem, tell me and we will fix it. I will do the same.I want someone with confidence in themselves.I would like to have someone who has a good job and is self sufficient, im not looking to take care of anyone, I already have that.I want someone who is spontaneous and romantic, someone who can surprise me with a romantic night, something creative.Now what I am not looking for...As I stated I am not looking for anyone to be a father to my son, it is my job to be the parent, you can be a friend!I am not looking to take care of anyone, you need to be able to take care of yourselfI am NOT looking for a fling, I am 26 years old and have had one relationship... that should tell you that I am not like a lot of people out there, im not looking for someone to fill a void, im looking for someone who fits in with my already full life. I have done the party scene already, Yes I would still like to go out and have a few drinks on occasion and do some dancing, but not every weekend.Now I will be honest about myself as I am not looking for someone who is all about looks, I agree that is important but not the most important.Since having my son I was on a medication to help provide breast milk and it in turn made me gain around 30 lbs. I have just recently stopped the medication and am working on losing the weight and getting back into shape. But I am currently 175lbs, I do have a spare tire, I do not like the way I look but im not ashamed either because I did it for my son.So if you have read all of this and are by some miracle still interested please send me a message, but again I will be honest.. don't send me a message saying "hey how are you" or "whats up"... I will not respond, if you are truly interested send me a message about how you think we are a good match, tell me about yourself and show me that you actually took the time to read my profile, not just look at my pictures. Something fun, to get to know one another, lets go play mini put, go bowling or go on a hike, I find when you are more comfortable and in a fun environment you tend to open up more and expose more of your true self, do the fun thing first then lets go have dinner or a drink.
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