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Shanti, 27
United States, Georgia, Blackshear

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About Me

I want the guy who is by best friend, looks forward to seeing me, and is proud of me. I want the type of relationship where you see or hear of something fun and you think of how fun it’d be to experience it together. I’m not looking for something temporary, nor am I looking to rush things. I want to know the guy I am with is the right one for me. It’s getting harder and harder to believe that love like this is out there somewhere, but I’m holding out hope that it’s possible and can be found. Here’s a little about me. I’m 26, college educated, and have one child. Might be looking for a companion for Rock Fest this summer, so let me know if that's your thing! I have a desire to travel, and am looking forward to crossing some locations - as well as some other things - off my bucket list. I would love to find the person to share some of the experiences with. If it gives you a little insight about how or who I am, I'm the type that would rather have a more moderate house and have things like four wheelers, boats, and maybe a cabin or something someday. A place to escape to and relax once in awhile would be so ideal! Or maybe even some land to hunt on. I own a gun and a bow - both have been used very little, but wouldn't mind using them a bit more. Also, I am working on getting more active again, wanting to get better at cooking. Bonus points if you like to cook, would want to learn to cook together, or go to the gym/are active. Maybe we can do some of these things together! I’m the type that would move mountains for those I love – and they’re always on my mind. I want to find someone who appreciates and preferably reciprocates. I tend to be a little shy at first, so don't be afraid to send me a message. I'm not generally one to make the "first move." I prefer men that are outgoing - it can bring out the extrovertedness in me. Save yourself the time and NOT send me a message if you say on your profile that you are DTF, show pictures of yourself with your shirt off, sending messages to 20 girls tonight in hopes something sticks, etc. We're likely not looking for the same thing. Don't bother if you're still married, separated, or just broke up with your girlfriend in the last month or two. No matter how ready you think you are, you're not. Also, yes.......so if you're thrown by that and a distance thing if you're in MN, you shouldn't be. I always laugh because MN residents tend to act like WI is on the other side of the world, when it's just over the border :) I'm in MN just as much as I'm in WI. Whatever we would decide on. It kind of depends on the two people's common interests. No sense in making one suffer through something they don't like, right? That's for later in a relationship (kidding, kidding).Something low key where we can get to know one another would be nice. If you're from the cities, maybe show me your favorite hangout? So much to explore!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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