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Ben, 40

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About Me

Those close to me would describe me as a caring, loyal friend. I have had the same close friends in my life for over 20 years, and am very fortunate to have them in my life. I am a genuine, honest person who is not afraid to speak my mind - I expect the same in return, as I have no respect for people who placate. I am a single father with a beautiful 5 year old daughter. She is with me every weekend, and is the number one priority in my life. I hope to find someone who will enjoy sharing this amazing ride with me! I am a very active person, working out six days a week and spending a lot of my free time during the warmer months outside. I enjoy going up to Lake Tahoe and taking in its beauty. I would like to find someone who enjoys being active and spending time outdoors.The things I am looking for in a partner are honesty and kindness. I am a very optimistic person, and tend to run the other direction when drama is always present. I am attracted to a women who is independently strong but chooses to share a common middle ground with her partner.If you have made it this far, then perhaps there might be the possibility of chemistry between us. As a great quote describes, "It's not about what happened in the past, or what you think might happen in the future. It's about the ride. There is no point in going through the rigors of life, if you are not going to enjoy the ride. And you know what... when you least expect it something great might come along. Something better then you even planned for."Talk to you soon~ There are plenty of great adventures to be had on a first date. Without getting into too many details, I will say that the company is far more important than the setting!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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