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Phil, 40
United States, Florida, Estero

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Jun 2026 02:02:47

About Me

Originally from Socal, I came up here for a change of pace and a new job. I've been here over three years now so I guess that makes me official. I'm pretty sure I'm staying here anyway.I'm looking for someone not easily defined like myself. Someone with varied interests and atypical lifestyles. Well rounded with a sense of style, yet doesn't take themselves too seriously. Mature and responsible yet slightly impulsive and funny. Say what you mean/mean what you say. I don't speak in code. I recently "celebrated" my 40th birthday and with that a strong movement to quitting drinking, or at least to cut down most of it. I work from home most days and let myself get carried away one too many times. So, anyone looking to do the same would be nice. I'm looking for someone cute, smart, fit, and funny, with a semblance of obligations and responsibilities to school/work and others outside of relationships. If anything it helps to make things more interesting to have things to talk about if we don't spend every waking moment together. I like my space as much as anyone would. I don't cheat and if I'm alone I'm usually at home on the computer, watching movies and/or playing video games or something. Btw, I just mean in the beginning. Naturally I would expect us to spend more and more time together as time progressed, eventually living together with marriage and children being ideal. But DINK is awesome too. Buying a big house together near some water would be a dream.I'm done with casual dating, but that doesn't mean a first date has to feel as serious and calculated as a job interview. I like it when I can talk to someone uncompetitively with interesting topics and dialogue just sharing stories and information. Like it came out of a podcast or something. That was a dorky analogy but it's nice to talk to someone like that. If you couldn't tell I can get very wordy, but only with the right people. So I'll end it here so you don't get sick of me.Please restore my hope that online dating can be successful. Also, I feel this needs to be said because it has happened too often... If you're the type of person that has ever messaged someone to set up a date, confirms the day before, and then cancels the day of, please don't message me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Traveling German Spanish Horror Mystery Shooting Sports
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