Total users: 62,821,968 Online users: 225,862
Alystair, 40
United States, Florida, Estero

Offline, last seen Sat, 16 May 2026 17:48:30

About Me

Im looking for a women who knows what she wants.I want a partner someone who brings as much to the table as i do.I know that you have to work hard to have a succeful relastionship,but it should not be forced.It should just be right and with two people who share common goals and likes attractions. No games i dont want to waste time with dishonest people.With me what you see is what you get.Dont try to change me.I will not try to change you.If we are right for one another love is great,if not maybe we can be friends but lets be honest about it.I have a 8 year old daughter and she is my priority in life!Im not looking for someone to clean and cook for me i can do that myself.My child comes first so if you are insecure about that it wont work between us.Im patient,kind,loving but dont want to move into something very fast.I have to be causious.I enjoy life and im always looking forward to see what is planned next for me.Im not desprate or in a hurry i like to get to know someone.Please if you are not Confident in who you are dont try to present someone you are not,life is to short. A nice dinner.. Some where we can talk and get to know one another better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Irish Mexican Horror Music
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Poncho from Estero | Man | 45 years old | Aquarius
    Poncho

    Offline

    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 27-47

    Hi! My name is Poncho. I am never married catholic hispanic man with kids from Estero, Florida, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Jerseyboyrob from Estero | Man | 49 years old | Virgo
    Jerseyboyrob

    Offline

    Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-40

    Passionate, caring, committed are just a few of the adjectives that describe me. I'm an outgoing person with many interests. I aspire to be content, happy & fulfilled with or without money, material success or the approval of others. I'm very fun loving and very caring guy. I also laid back and easygoing.

    Chat
  • Azareel from Estero | Man | 40 years old | Cancer
    Azareel

    Offline

    Man. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 37-47

    I can be shy, and awkward, if I do not know someone, especially if it is romantic. Normally I am quite loud, and outspoken, but in reality, I have a gentle, and soft heart. I tend to be more sensitive, and empathetic due to my many interesting lifetimes of experiences. I do not regret any of it especially the negative, for it would not make me the man I am today without them, or as empathetic. :)I love Apple products such as the Mac, iPhone etc, and play the bass guitar for the band I am in Land Shark a classic rock genre band. I love spending time with my beautiful nephews and nieces. I enjoy family, games at home, movies, theatre, and participating in theatre like activities.I like spending time with family and friends, and love playing board games as well as some video games on my computer.I make commercials for TV for local small business. Those are my commercials. I also video weddings, but I prefer to do commercials.If we talk I can give you links to my commercials, and band playing on YouTube if you ask nicely. :)I can be blunt, and loud, and seemly intimidating at first, but I really do have a gentle heart, and very empathetic. I tend to see the good in most people.Yes looks matter, it is the nature of the beast, but they become less important when we get to know each other better. I have been turned off by girls as soon as they opened their mouth, and became very attracted to girls when i fall in love with their heart.Please no hard partiers, druggies, or bigots.I do not need a woman, and you should not need a man. We should be fine by ourselves. We should want to share the love we already have, and that is the need we have to share something we already have, not have someone do something for us we can't do for ourselves out of desperation.And as a side note who posts pictures of their pets on a dating site? So even though I like animals, I did not come here to go out with your pet. That being said i do love animals, especially well behaved ones. LOL Dinner, and a movie is a little cliché, and quite frankly is the worst date option if you do not know someone. I think that is great afterwords, but for a first date, meeting etc, something causal, and comfortable for both.And ladies, have little class. Stop looking for a Man to take care of you, and take away all your worries about life, and money. Than what happens when he leaves you? It should be a partnership. Hey welcome to the 21st Century.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: