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Alystair, 40

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About Me

Im looking for a women who knows what she wants.I want a partner someone who brings as much to the table as i do.I know that you have to work hard to have a succeful relastionship,but it should not be forced.It should just be right and with two people who share common goals and likes attractions. No games i dont want to waste time with dishonest people.With me what you see is what you get.Dont try to change me.I will not try to change you.If we are right for one another love is great,if not maybe we can be friends but lets be honest about it.I have a 8 year old daughter and she is my priority in life!Im not looking for someone to clean and cook for me i can do that myself.My child comes first so if you are insecure about that it wont work between us.Im patient,kind,loving but dont want to move into something very fast.I have to be causious.I enjoy life and im always looking forward to see what is planned next for me.Im not desprate or in a hurry i like to get to know someone.Please if you are not Confident in who you are dont try to present someone you are not,life is to short. A nice dinner.. Some where we can talk and get to know one another better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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