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About Me

!I'm a tall, educated gentleman who is not here for games, drama or BS. I'm hoping to meet that special lady who can become my best friend, lover, confidant and hopefully wife. Wasting my time on meaningless relationships or casual sex is not something that interests me in the least. I'm sure we've all made our mistakes and had those experiences that made us wiser and I've learned some important lessons from mine. I understand and appreciate the value of a good woman and the need for open communication and trust. Without these things no relationship can last. If you're looking for a man who knows what he wants, is NOT afraid of commitment and knows how to treat a lady then I'm your man. I'm also looking to have a child or two with that special lady. If you have a child and desire no more, we're not a match. If you don't have children and have no desire to have any, we're not a matcoh. For these reasons I prefer to date women under 40 years old. During my off time I enjoy reading a good book, intelligent political discourse, Yankee games, playing cards (I love to play spades), writing fiction stories, museums, weekend getaways, new foods and restaurants and even cooking. Though I must admit that I despise doing the dishes.... :) I enjoy the occasional night out in NYC at a nice lounge but I have no problem staying home with that special someone, making a nice meal and enjoying a movie. I'm a big guy but also very affectionate. Oh! And I'm also a pretty good dancer. My "cabbage patch" and "running man" routines are well known in the NYC nightlife. If you've never seen a 6'4", 300lb man do the "running man' then you have not yet lived. lolPS..If your schedule is too busy for phone calls or arranging a date then please refrain from contacting me. I am not here for endless ***/or texting. PSS..I believe that love knows NO color and am open to all races.....PSSS...Oh by the way! Vegans and vegetarians need not apply. Thank youPSSSS...I prefer that person to be Catholic or Christian but please no 'speaking in tongues" followers..... :)PSSSSS...I have one son who is not a child. I've been divorced since the age of 24 and never had ANY ex-wife drama. I feel that first "dates" off of a site like this are actually "FIRST MEETINGS". And as such a first meeting should be low key and stress free. We can meet at a cafe or restaurant for a coffee or a drink and proceed from there. If the chemistry is good and we click we can then decide to have dinner or extend the date however we choose. There is nothing worse than sitting down to dinner for an hour or so with someone when there is NO chemistry. lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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