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Norah, 29
United States, Delaware, Smyrna

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I just spent the last year of my life with a manchild I met from this website. We met and I fell hard and so did my kid. He dumped me after a year and said he was not looking for a commitment.... yeah you read that correctly.... dragged us along for a year but does not want a commitment. So I decided to update my profile because for some reason, unbeknownst to me, I always end up attracting these self-serving types, and I feel it is my duty, everyone's duty, to change their own fate. After that last relationship I feel broken. But in reality I am kind of awesome lol. The truth of the matter is I am a great Friend, Lover, Mother, and Volunteer, and any man would be lucky to have me. Not to be cheesy, but I enjoy waking up with the same man every day, talking about our work drama at night, playing with our children, catching a date night every now and then, and bouncing ideas for one another's school work off the other. This is happiness to me. As I am nearing 30, of course most all my friends are married or engaged or preggo, and I always feel happy for them, no matter what kind of relationship I am in; this tells me that the idea of love is very much alive and accessible to those who want it. I feel like humans have only a small window to take what they want and make it their own because life is hard... life is short... and only the strongest will survive. After all we can't even drive on the freeway or go to the movies anymore without being shot at. This has made me even more aware of how precious life is and how I will be damned if I spend one more second of it without someone who feels the same way, who shares the same goals, and same basic values as me. I'm a smartass, caring, honest, and like to debate most all subjects. I like movies/music/photography/history/law. I have a Bachelor's degree and am registered for law school, work full time but like to unwind too. If you have kids, that's great, I love kids. If you don't, that's fine too :-) I LOVE to go on daytrips to Tahoe and camping and I hope there are some serious camping trips this winter! I think the most important traits in a man for me are as follows:You have to have drive... I don't care what you want in life, but want something, be passionate about it because life is short. If you want something, then fight for it. If you can't fight or won't fight for it, then you don't deserve it, period. Honesty is first and foremost. I didn't get honesty from my last relationship and it can wreck the soul - so just be honest. I promise I will be honest with you, good, bad, or indifferent. It's amazing how simplified a relationship can be if we are all just honest with one another; it makes you closer, stronger, and more connected.Good luck to all the fish in the sea... Depends on the man...but I am open for suggestions. I'm a coffee fiend, so that usually works for me! :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Christian Caribbean Japanese Mexican Music Mystery Sport Computer Games
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

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  • Briana from Smyrna | Woman | 30 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

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  • Perdita from Smyrna | Woman | 30 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I love hanging out with friends, drinking a cold beer (or two), going to the movies or out to dinner, making people laugh, curling up with a good book, live theater, etc. I'm open to trying everything once.Sarcasm is my second language and I speak it fluently and I like a guy who can go toe-to-toe with me. Quick wit is very attractive. I'm not a Debbie-downer and can't stand to be around others who are. I enjoy life and I try to live it to its fullest. I also really like starting sentences with the word "I." I don't always though. Promise.Oh, and men in masks cannot be trusted. Meeting for coffee or a drink is always a good start.

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