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Lavern, 32

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About Me

The best relationships are built on trust, honesty and communication. I am looking for someone I can have fun, laugh, be crazy, and share my life with. I am very independent and keep myself pretty busy between Family, Friends and shift work at the hospital.I am looking for a strong, attractive, affectionate man who is able to communicate and knows what he wants. I love being single, but know with the right man, that could change.I love my job, it keeps me pretty busy. I am passionate about travel. I try to plan a trip once a year, usually in the winter months to beat the long winters we seem to have here. Although I do enjoy the snow for skiing. Will definitely be going back to do the full Europe tour though! Also thinking of South Africa in the next few years. If you are interested in getting to know me better, send me a message, I will send you my pictures.Hope to hear from you!"Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching." -“I've realized that sometimes you get no second chance and that it's best to accept the gifts the world offers you. Of course it's risky, but is the risk any greater than the chance of the bus that took forty-eight hours to bring me here having an accident? If I must be faithful to someone or something, then I have, first of all, to be faithful to myself. If I'm looking for true love, I first have to get the mediocre loves out of my system. The little experience of life I've had has taught me that no one owns anything, that everything is an illusion - and that applies to material as well as spiritual things. Anyone who has lost something they thought was theirs forever (as has happened often enough to me already) finally comes to realize that nothing really belongs to them.And if nothing belongs to me, then there's no point wasting my time looking after things that aren't mine; it's best to live as if today were the first (or last) day of my life.”- Paulo Coelho, Eleven Minutes An amazing book inspiring life, love, sex and ultimately the true female spirit.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    You have heard of the crazy cat lady, yes? I'm the crazy dog lady. I rescue, rehabilitate, and rehome pit bulls and mastiff breeds. I have five dogs currently in my home, and I'm also a dog trainer by profession. I love dogs. But sometimes I like to be in a dog-free zone and communicate with actual humans. As much as I love dogs, they don't take me dancing; and they are lousy dinner company.I live in a century- I don't care for either. When I'm not slaying poisonous spiders, I can often be found dancing, singing, hiking, wakeboarding (poorly), or otherwise finding some reason to be out in the sun. I love trips to the city and trips to the mountains or the beach.I value intelligence, education, and fitness. I don't care about your degree, but I care that you are always learning. A man who is an avid reader and who challenges my opinions with his own rational thought turns me on. I stay very fit, and I appreciate the same in my date. I want to climb a mountain with you or dance the night away.I am hiking boots and stilettos, tactical pants and little black dresses, au naturale and all dolled up. I am emotional but make decisions based on logic. I love exceptional artistry and analytical brilliance. I am cerebral and physical.UPDATE: Here are a few handy tips for those who wish to write me. These will, of course, entertain all those to whom they do not apply and will not be read by those to whom they do.1. Grammar and spelling count. If you have huge typos in the first and only sentence you have ever written to me, I will question your intelligence. A few typos are fine. You will probably find some in this list.2. No terms of endearment in your first ***, please. They are creepy, not flattering.3. Taking a photo of yourself shirtless in your bathroom mirror is not cool.4. Taking a photo of yourself flexing in your bathroom mirror is even less cool. I love great abs. I don't love idiots.5. If you have photos of pit bulls or mastiff breeds sporting huge chains around their necks, we are not compatible... unless you are open to learning about tracheal scarring and the benefits of positive reinforcement training and a quality martingale collar. Otherwise, I rescue these dogs from people like you.6. If you say you have an athletic body type, your recent photos need to reflect athleticism and/or a fit body (which can be done while wearing clothing). If you have a beer gut, you need to list your body type as "average" or "a few extra pounds." Err on the side of underselling. I don't need a dude with a perfect body. But I do need a dude who is honest with me and with himself.7. If I can tell you haven't read my profile, I won't bother to read yours or respond to your *** ideal first date would be a hike up to Cleo's Bath in mid summer when the water is still high enough to fill the natural pools but slow enough to safely dip our feet. After a hike filled with stimulating conversation, silly stumbles, and great laughter; we decide the day couldn't possibly be over yet, so we head home to get cleaned up and dressed for dinner, drinks, and dancing.

  • Sherise

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I can have fun in pretty much any setting.. I love music of all kinds. I am very easy going & humerous. I have a good heart & I am a honest, caring, strong & open-minded woman. I want someone I can be friends with. I want to be able to laugh & enjoy each other and it just feel right & comfortable. I have 2 kids that come first & I am a single, working independent mother that does it alone. Taking care of home, kids, self, maintaining a job /- it's hard work & single mothers just don't get enough credit. If I can do all of this & still "make time" to meet & get to know a man, then u men out here can make time to get to know me. If you are "too busy" or work all the time & you're just tired all the time -/ then please don't get at me wasting what little free time I have cuz I don't have time for it & you shouldn't be on a dating website!!!! Serious people only!!!! I tell it like it is & I don't have a problem speaking my mind. COMMUNICATION is key!******** FYI -/ if you only have 1 pic on ur profile I will NOT respond to u Surprise me! Be the man... I like a man that can plan, use his imagination & just make a decision. I said I'm easy going so ..... Whatever's clever (w/in reason)...

  • Diane

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Im a homebody ..... family is important to me.... im shy..... funny a big dork.. ... I love makeup First date.....come to pick me up nock on the door then out to dinner talk... maybe a small walk ... then take me home walk me up to the door maybe akiss goodnight...

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