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Jessie, 31

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About Me

I want the real thing. Incredible chemistry, laughter, curiosity, adventure, amazement, desire, craving, discovery, joy -- expanding over time into a deep friendship, respect, realism, flaws, arguments, forgiveness, acceptance, admiration, understanding, loyalty, a tiny two-person family together, a life hand-in-hand.I want to truly see you and be truly seen in return.About me: I'm trying as hard as I can. Trying to honor the deathbed me rather than filling her with regret. Awkwardly and earnestly and relentlessly pursuing connection with other people. Taking wonder in those little everyday things. Like that cup of coffee when I first get into work. Or the breeze. Or sunlight through the trees. Or the anticipation of opening the mailbox. Or 93.5 FM. Or clean sheets. Being outside as much as possible. Dancing. Having my nose in a book all day. Not watching TV. Looking at art. I just learned to throw a football. I crave physical touch. I'm into music. I love children and animals. Sometimes I want to live in a cabin in the woods but then LA pleasantly surprises me.I'm a bunch of contradictions, just like you. I'm confident often, insecure intermittently. I eat healthy, except for those damn burritos. I'm quite ambitious, but love to spend the day in bed. I love to dress up; I love to go camping. I'm logical and rational; I'm often overcome with emotion. I'm independent and assertive, but melt when you insist on buying me dinner. I'm an atheist who thinks it all means nothing, but I also think it means everything. I don't believe in soul mates -- but I'm looking for mine anyway.And you? You are uncommonly smart. You enjoy banter. You make me laugh. You are mature and responsible but also silly a lot of the time. You are not desperate for a relationship but totally open to commitment with the right person. You want that relationship to be both stable and exciting. You can stand up to and take care of a strong woman. You want to be an awesome dad one day. You are into having new experiences. You want an unconventional, meaningful life with a partner you respect. You want to wake up on Sunday morning and eat homemade pancakes. It's not creative, but I like to grab a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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