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Jessie, 31

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About Me

I want the real thing. Incredible chemistry, laughter, curiosity, adventure, amazement, desire, craving, discovery, joy -- expanding over time into a deep friendship, respect, realism, flaws, arguments, forgiveness, acceptance, admiration, understanding, loyalty, a tiny two-person family together, a life hand-in-hand.I want to truly see you and be truly seen in return.About me: I'm trying as hard as I can. Trying to honor the deathbed me rather than filling her with regret. Awkwardly and earnestly and relentlessly pursuing connection with other people. Taking wonder in those little everyday things. Like that cup of coffee when I first get into work. Or the breeze. Or sunlight through the trees. Or the anticipation of opening the mailbox. Or 93.5 FM. Or clean sheets. Being outside as much as possible. Dancing. Having my nose in a book all day. Not watching TV. Looking at art. I just learned to throw a football. I crave physical touch. I'm into music. I love children and animals. Sometimes I want to live in a cabin in the woods but then LA pleasantly surprises me.I'm a bunch of contradictions, just like you. I'm confident often, insecure intermittently. I eat healthy, except for those damn burritos. I'm quite ambitious, but love to spend the day in bed. I love to dress up; I love to go camping. I'm logical and rational; I'm often overcome with emotion. I'm independent and assertive, but melt when you insist on buying me dinner. I'm an atheist who thinks it all means nothing, but I also think it means everything. I don't believe in soul mates -- but I'm looking for mine anyway.And you? You are uncommonly smart. You enjoy banter. You make me laugh. You are mature and responsible but also silly a lot of the time. You are not desperate for a relationship but totally open to commitment with the right person. You want that relationship to be both stable and exciting. You can stand up to and take care of a strong woman. You want to be an awesome dad one day. You are into having new experiences. You want an unconventional, meaningful life with a partner you respect. You want to wake up on Sunday morning and eat homemade pancakes. It's not creative, but I like to grab a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adrianne

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I'm a 33 year old mother of 3 kids and a cat. I have been a photographer for over 10 years and love every minute of it. I currently freelance as well as do portraiture. I also went to college for accounting for which I am almost finished with. I have a bit of a travel bug and have so many places I want to explore. Love the outdoors and being up north in the summertime because there is nothing better then having a cup of coffee in the woods to clear your head and relax. Camping, boating and hiking are also up there with my favorite outdoor activities. I try to be crafty and make do with what I have. I know how to stretch a dollar as well. I also enjoy cooking and being cooked for, and I am not referring to items from a can or freezer or box.Here are some things to consider before writing me:**I'm not ghetto so I do not want a guy who is. So if you are ghetto fabulous, please move on.**I have 3 children so if you do not like children it is a given to move on. Also I am selective on who gets to meet my babies, it is a privilege to be able to be around them. My kids are my life and any man would have to treat them wonderful and interact with them, not just tolerate them because they are part of the package.**I am NOT looking for a hook-up...those that are...DO NOT contact me and waste my time!!**When sending a message, remember this is like sending an ***, not a text. Use proper etiquette, spell out your words and use full sentences. I am also looking for someone with a brain that is above the belt and functions beyond GTL.

  • Milana

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am still adjusting to this online dating thing. I was against it for a while but with 2 kids and work it's hard to have the time to meet people out and about. So, about me. I've lived in the area my entire life and love it here. I have two kids who keep me very busy. I work full time as a Dining Room Manager at a Senior Living Residence. I am going to school for Medical Coding and Billing which I am about halfway through. My hobbies are pretty simple. With the weather finally getting better I will be outside enjoying my deck and firing up the grill. Like to have friends over or go out from time to time. I like all kinds of music. So, that is about it.

  • Hwa

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm a bit of a jack (or jill?) of all trades type lady. I really like good (and sometimes weird) food, but I'm not a food snob (still eat Ramen on a biweekly basis just because I like the taste). I love really great music (and try to see as much live music as I can), but am not above enjoying a little crappy top 40. I like to work out, and do it like 3 or 4 times a week, but, you know, sometimes I just can't be bothered (and it's getting pretty chilly outside). I love books, and read maybe 2 a month, but can def appreciate a little reality TV now and then. I'm pretty mellow overall, but can get pretty freaking fired up about stuff at times (small example: throwing cigarettes out of car windows- who does that??). I'm a girl who wants stuff to be better, and wants to be part of making said stuff better. I want to feel like I'm doing something with my time that feels important to someone somewhere. To that end, I've been working as an RN (most recently in a very large and busy ER), and am liking the weirdness/intensity of that so far. I'm looking for a chill type guy, who's comfortable with himself. I'd like to meet a man who reads, and has something to say about what he reads. If he has a pretty strong environmental ethic going on, that's super attractive to me. Running/biking/any type of outdoorsy-hijinks- definate plus as well. I like a good douchebag as much as the next girl... but am not super interested in dating one right now... something to keep in mind, fellas. I like a low-key first date. I think you can't go too wrong with a good beer and walk. Maybe with my dog? (full disclosure- she's not really my dog, she's my mom's- but she's basically mine too and I steal her all the time because she's amazing).

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