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Velma, 34
United States, Delaware, Middletown

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About Me

I have been fishing for a long time. I have had to throw back a lot of catches. I have also been thrown back....you can't win every time. Just looking for my lucky break....and yes, it is hard for me to trust someone right away. If things are going too well, I question the sincerity of the individual. If things aren't going well, I question myself. Take note tho that this is only in the beginning...I completely understand that no one should be made to suffer for how someone else treated me in the past...it is something I am working to overcome and I WILL get there. :)Finding the one who perfectly compliments you should not have to be this hard. Yet I continue to search. There is someone out there for everyone, right? :PI am an imperfect person and I honestly believe that imperfect people can never know 100% what they want. That is the way the heart works...shrugs....but I can definately say what I am NOT looking for....Someone who does NOT like children. I have a seven year old son. He comes first. If someone clashes with him, then you gotta go.I do not want a sugardaddy....I do not want your money. I have my own house and car...i can purchase my own "things" and flashy objects mean squat to me. I do not want to be a fwb. I am not looking for an intimate encounter. That can come later. I actually am interested in substance....shocking! LoL...I actually want to get together with a like-minded, easy going guy and go out and have fun...see bands play, have a drink or two, grab a bite to eat, take a walk, take a drive, goof off, flirt....you know. That stuff.PS...I have tattoos. Quite a few. And will acquire more. Just sayin'....LoL...Dating can be a very discouraging game this day and age. Especially on sites like this one. There are thousands of men claiming to want a "real woman" and thousands of women who claim to want a "real man" and none of us can seem to come together. If you are just as frustrated as I am, message me :) NOT a movie. You can't talk and learn about one another in a theater. Otherwise....as far as gameplans...we will decide together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Italian Mexican History
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Hi :) I work full time. I have a 7 year old son, who lives with me. I try to be as involved as I can with him, so I coach little leauge and I help with boy scouts. I do some volunteer work with childhood cancer foundations and the fire dept. and i play on the dept softball team. I am looking for someone who I can have fun with, either hanging out at home, with friends or finding something to do. I am an affectionate type so I like to cuddle ( duh what girl doesn't come on now!) hold hands and I dont mind some pda.I am not looking for someone who plays games, wants a random hook up or fwb... If you don't have a job, do drugs, smoke, can't deal with a child or can't handle an Irish Girl then please don't waste your time or mine. If you are interested in knowing more just message me! I would think dinner, so we can talk and get to know one another.

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I have tried this site for awhile. Met a few guys that were nice. Must say though that it's been a bit difficult as well. Just want something real, normal.. Honest. I'm not in to "clubs".. small pub with live music is my style, I prefer "athletic to average" over a gym rat.. If you demand that your other half stay in the gym ***because YOU want a trophy.. sorry fellas. I work hard Mon- Fri and in my free time I do enjoy being active but I am sure as heck not going to spend it all in the gym trying to physically impress someone that couldn't care less about what's upstairs or even wants to know. I know that I am not perfect and I certainly don't expect my other half to be either, besides physical beauty can be ruined in a second if the inside is ugly. I thrive on intelligence and love conversation. Nothing better than sitting near a fire,having red wine and learning more about the person you are with. I think having a few "battle wounds" from your past makes you more well rounded as a person. If you've never experienced heartache, loss, "life" in general I really don't think that you and I will have anything in common as you and I will never be able to truly understand each other. With that being said.. I don't want your crazy ex in the picture making life total chaos (there IS a fine line between some battle wounds and flat out drama). Ok, good luck fishing!

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