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Velma, 34
United States, Delaware, Middletown

Offline, last seen Mon, 18 May 2026 14:26:57

About Me

I have been fishing for a long time. I have had to throw back a lot of catches. I have also been thrown back....you can't win every time. Just looking for my lucky break....and yes, it is hard for me to trust someone right away. If things are going too well, I question the sincerity of the individual. If things aren't going well, I question myself. Take note tho that this is only in the beginning...I completely understand that no one should be made to suffer for how someone else treated me in the past...it is something I am working to overcome and I WILL get there. :)Finding the one who perfectly compliments you should not have to be this hard. Yet I continue to search. There is someone out there for everyone, right? :PI am an imperfect person and I honestly believe that imperfect people can never know 100% what they want. That is the way the heart works...shrugs....but I can definately say what I am NOT looking for....Someone who does NOT like children. I have a seven year old son. He comes first. If someone clashes with him, then you gotta go.I do not want a sugardaddy....I do not want your money. I have my own house and car...i can purchase my own "things" and flashy objects mean squat to me. I do not want to be a fwb. I am not looking for an intimate encounter. That can come later. I actually am interested in substance....shocking! LoL...I actually want to get together with a like-minded, easy going guy and go out and have fun...see bands play, have a drink or two, grab a bite to eat, take a walk, take a drive, goof off, flirt....you know. That stuff.PS...I have tattoos. Quite a few. And will acquire more. Just sayin'....LoL...Dating can be a very discouraging game this day and age. Especially on sites like this one. There are thousands of men claiming to want a "real woman" and thousands of women who claim to want a "real man" and none of us can seem to come together. If you are just as frustrated as I am, message me :) NOT a movie. You can't talk and learn about one another in a theater. Otherwise....as far as gameplans...we will decide together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Domenica from Middletown | Woman | 33 years old | Taurus
    Domenica

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    This isn't the first time I've tried online dating. I'm a little skeptic. If you have any questions please feel free to just ask. I'm not quite sure I want to fill this all out yet incase I just decide to ditch the idea. I have an amazing 11 year old son. Even though I'm content with life at the moment there is something/someone missing in it to share life with. I'm independent and do not "need" a man like so many women I know. I'm a big jokester, love to make people laugh and smile. Life is too short to be miserable! I feel that even if I did fill this all out, you still wouldn't "get to know" me. Meeting is the best option. It's what I believe anyway!! K , now I've rambled, so like I said ask away if we're attracted to eachother and want to talk then lets do it!! I'll always send a pic so I expect the same in return. Thanks ;)Turn offs - piercings and losers! Lol Turn ons- make me laugh!! ;) PS I understand why some of us can't post pics on our profiles (work etc....) but please do not w rite me a message and not attach one. I will not reply. Thanks. Lets talk first and go from there.....

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  • Maxie from Middletown | Woman | 33 years old | Scorpio
    Maxie

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    If you want to know anything about me, just ask.. I am respectful, so remember that before messaging me please.. I am a mother, and family woman.. I feel that without respect, there is no way you can have a successful relationship, or friendship.. Lol

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  • Georgiann from Middletown | Woman | 32 years old | Aquarius
    Georgiann

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I like hanging out with my friends, or in the summer you will find me in a tractor baling round bales or square bales or under it getting a little greasy from a break down. I also like to go fishing and relax out in the fresh air. It's also nice to just sit at home and watch a movie from redbox and eat popcorn and snuggle on the couch. I love to go camping and sitting out by the camp fire telling stories with friends. I am a person who loves the outdoors and is not afraid to get dirty. I am a farm girl at heart and would like to find someone who likes the farm life just as much, or at least likes to be outdoors with nature. I am into hunting and would like to find a teacher but not a most have just would be nice. I am a good hearted women that knows what she wants from life. I am honest but yet hard women to deal with at times but what women isn't, I do speak my mind and tell it how it is. I am in this for the long run I have been burned sooo many times that my trust is pretty low with guys and I do have a brick wall up around my heart. If you think you can break into my wall hit me up and we can chat. If you can be a nice polite guy that can treat me with respect then you are the one for me. All my friends say I am crazy and wild but the most polite person they have ever met, my theory is if you use please and thank you you will get alot further in life and with them. I just had a beatiful baby boy in December, he is a gift from God since I didn't know if I could have kids. The dad isn't in our life and will never be so no worries of baby daddy drama here. It was a one night oops. So if you can't handle a mom and son then please don't message me I am not gonna play that game. I am thinking of my future with my child now and I know it is going. To. Be even harder to find the right guy, but I can hope there is one out there.I am not looking for the boys out there that just want to message me for sex talk that is lame and does not interest me. If you wear your pants past your butt and think you are a homey G don't bother with me, if i wanted to see your butt crack I would ask. As you can tell I am not in this to play around. haha.. Like I said if you want to know more *** and we can go from there. Probaly not a movie unless it was a drive in then we could chat. Otherwise I am up for a nice cup of coffee or a walk around town. Anything just to get to know the person to see if there was any sparks. I am open to pretty much anything!

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