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Esme, 53

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About Me

I want to find that man who will hold my hand and walk beside me, or sit and watch the stars. I also want a man who does not need to be told what to do, and he would like to just get up and go with me to the Mountains or the the beach or just for long romantic walks not worring about anything but what we want as a dating couple want to do...The music I like varys a great deal. I have been married twice before and have raised 2 great kids who are living their lifes and now that they are grown and doing thier thing , I believe it is my trun to enjoy life, to find someone who wants to get to know me for who I am NOW.. I love my swimming pool during the summer and I love to cook and bake...Sports I love my LSU Tigers...football, basketball and baseball really all sports...I love to shoot pool(I do play APA) and love to dance....This is added to my profile if you are younger than 40 dont bother to write me if you are 48 to 55 and you can not be where you say your going to be and want a one night stand or play games then you dont need to write me either. If this makes me sound like a *** then I am so sorry I just dont have that kind of time and I dont want to waste your time with games or drama....I was asked to show my support for our Troops and I do my son severed in the Navy and was in Desert Storm......He is home now, safe but he lost alot of great friends and my heart goes out to them and their family ......We all should be proud..The life they gave was for all of us.......Someone asked me why am I alone, we are all alone even with friends and family beside us the thing that I have a hard time with is being alone and that means finding the right person to share that time with being raised so old fashion means I will wait until that right person (a man) comes along......Hopefully sooner than later.....I have 3 rules that I believe in and live by 1) Dont LIE 2) Dont CHEAT or Steal 3) If you say you are going to be somewhere then be there even early and if you say you are going to do something even if it is a call then do it........These rules are not hard to do everyone can do them if they are honest and mean what they say .....Johnny Deep said something " There are 3 questions of value in Life....1) What is sacred? 2) Of what is the spirit made ? 3) What is worth living for and what is worth dying for ? The answer to each question is the same , only LOVE.......... Meet and talk to see if we having anything in common with each other and then lets go from there.....Please dont rush things and dont talk trashy that is not a trun on for me I am old fashion with my actions and values .....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lissa

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I have been told I am a good writer. Having said this, I don't believe words on paper are what it takes to create a chemistry between 2 people. No matter what I write, the reality is it mostly happens when people meet each other, spend a little time, and then decide if they want to see each other again. We can have it all in common yet not click. Remember what it is like when you see someone across a room and know you want to meet them? Then you approach; spend some time talking and if you want to go out, numbers are exchanged. Ah, the good old days! So, tell me, is it just me or, does EVERYONE just love long romantic walks on the beach....? okay, KIDDING!!(I really do like being by the water, or in a boat, and I am happy being/doing outdoors).......I am pretty easy going, laugh without caution, give opinions without judgment and I am happy. There is much to get to know about me, and some lucky man will. As for what I am looking for in that man:he is happy with his style of success and where he is now; he is a gentleman; he respects others; has a wonderful sense of humor; is positive, and, still a kid at heart; he enjoys the down earth to the upscale; he is active yet balanced with his inner vej and enjoys travel, no matter a little hop, a planned skip or a major jump.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love to joke around and laugh so I hope you do too. I have two very sweet dogs. I\'m looking to meet animal lover, someone mature, honest, and sane that can become my best friend and more.

  • Karin

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a woman of simple needs and desires, who would love to form a relationship with someone who can treat a woman with respect and appreciation. I will bring friendship, fun, and engaging conversation to a relationship, and I am looking for a companion with similar interests. I am an educator so it goes without saying that I adore children and enjoy helping others. I am very creative, can make almost anything by hand, and I love to learn new things. Summer is my favorite season because everything is alive and beautiful, and there is so much to do, especially since there are festivals every weekend. I love to sit on a quiet pier and fish and can filet what I catch! I am active and I try to get out and run a few times a week to keep stress at bay and to center myself. And, I try to get in a few 5K runs per year just to keep myself motivated. I am not into the bar scene, but I do enjoy a good pub burger and microbrew occasionally. The night life does not appeal to me, but rather quiet evenings at home or walking around town just to enjoy the night time solace are what I enjoy most.**********************************************REVISION: PLEASE READ*********************************************************************************** Hello again, and thank you for making an attempt to find a real connection. After writing my first intro, I felt I really didn’t say what I wanted to convey about myself and my goal for entering the online dating scene. I was a bit hesitant with this format, as we all can say ANYTHING online, but the face-to-face thing, I have discovered, is quite different. First, and foremost, I am looking for a friend, and I am hoping you will become my best friend. I came out of a long term relationship and learned a lot about myself, my needs, and my desires. I am not looking for short term, roll-in-the hay type encounters. So, if that is your intention, I am not for you. I am looking for an active participant in my life, and that may include the rest of my life, if we make the connection that so many of us want so badly, but I have values and love and respect for each other comes first. I am not a fan of winter, but I do love those quiet evenings when all you can hear is the gentle sound of giant flakes coming down… I run a couple of times a week and strive to be in the “10,***steps a day” club. I took up running four years ago- bucket list thing-and find running to be a great stress reliever and I believe we all should eat healthy and stay active. I recently graduated from college-another bucket list thing-and I believe it is important to continue to learn as long as you can. It keeps you young, sharp, and well, engaged in the world. I work in kindergarten and I can color up a storm, and often come home with glitter littering my hair. I never run out of hugs, nor patience, and education is my passion and purpose in life. I am a simple, down-to-earth person. No drama, no mask, I am what I am, and I will not play games or try to give you a false impression. Like everyone, honesty and open conversation is key to a healthy, happy relationship. I am tired of doing things alone and seriously, life is meant to be shared. I want to be appreciated for what I bring to a relationship, as a compliment to you, not a competition to show I am better than you. I want you to teach me your loves in life, and I want to teach you mine. Resourcefulness is part of what I am. I know how to do many things on my own, and if I don’t know how to do something, I will figure it out eventually. However, the one thing I have trouble with is finding a person who has the same values and desires as I do. I am quite adaptable to many situations, and appearance is secondary to personality and moral standards. Simply stated, you treat people how you would like to be treated. We all have faults, and a certain amount of history (or baggage), but life is all about second chances, learning from our mistakes (hopefully), and being able to hike up our pants and move forward and be abetter person for the lesson learned. If you read through my intro, and you really feel like I am what you have been looking for in life, then by all means, please contact me. If you are only attracted to my face, well, I can guarantee that part of me will change as the years go on. However, my spirit and soul will always be a constant: warm, kind, and caring. Always. The best first date should be meeting at a public place where we can talk. A screaming bar scene is not as effective as a walk along the shore or through a park, or at corner pub/coffee shop table, in my opinion.

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