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I do believe that this on-line dating works. I also believe that it takes a process. I think the process is e-mail a few times, if there's enough interest and only when you feel comfortable take it to phone conversations. Then and only when you feel comfortable, take it to a meeting somewhere both would feel comfortable. You can't be too careful and I have no intentions on meeting someone who has just e-mailed me. With that being said.Hi, I am 53 years old. I have two kids who are older (1 Son and 1 Daughter) and don't really need me as much anymore but I do try to be a part of their lives. My son is living with someone who has two kids that I do consider them being my grandkids-they are great. I enjoy being involved in whatever the grand kids have going on. I enjoy doing just about anything from sitting and talking to camping (my camping is usually an event or at the quad races that my grandson is involved in), dancing or what ever. I can have a good time at doing just about anything or nothing, it all depends on the company that you are with. I am not a bar person. I don't mind going sometimes when there is something going on but I don't like going just to hang out. I do enjoy motorcycle riding, I think this would be my favorite. I do have my license and my own bike. I like to ride whether it be my own or riding on the back. When I ride my own, I go much slower than everyone else......so not too many of my friends like to ride with me, they would rather I ride on the back. ha ha. I work hard and also volunteer. I am a very honest and straight forward person and do not like people who lie. Honesty is very important to me. I am a very affectionate person and would like to be with someone who is also affectionate. I enjoy life and love to laugh. I am an independent woman but do believe in the guy opening doors and letting the lady go first. (American Bikers Aimed Towards Education). We are a state motorcycle rights organization - we are not a club. We educate people to watch out for motorcycles and also fight for your freedoms as a motorcyclist. My job is more paperwork behind the scenes. Have made some great friends along the way. This is my last year as an officer, I will be taking a break from it for awhile. I would like to find someone who has a lot in common with me, which would include our interest, values, personality and of course be physically attracted to each other. I am interested in finding that "last person" in my life. I would like to find someone who enjoys life, likes to have fun and jokes around (I love to see people laugh, it's contagious) and can also be serious when need to be. This person would not be afraid to try anything new. This person would need to be nice, caring and considerate of other people and of course, an honest person. This person would like to have conversations. I think conversation in a relationship is very important. I would like to meet someone who doesn't live too far from me. If this sounds like we may have some things in common, e-mail me and we will see. I am a little shy and a little old fashioned to make that first move. Please have a picture, I would like to see who it is that I am messaging/talking to. Looks are not the most important but there has to be a mutual physical attraction. We each have our own attractions and I think inner beauty is just as important. If not, I hope you find who you are looking for. I do believe that there is someone out there for everyone, it just takes time finding the right one.Update - the picture with the car???? I won tickets through work that allowed me to ride in one of the cars for a few laps. While I am not a huge Nascar fan, I did enjoy that day. It was a lot of fun. I would rather physically be at an event than watch it on TV. A first meet/greet would be meeting for coffee or dinner and lots of talking. I think you need to talk a lot to see if you would like to see each other again. Movies are not ok for a meet/greet, you can't talk and get to know anything about each other. I think if you go to a restaurant for dinner and decide that you are just not right for each other - what do you have to lose? Nothing, you both had dinner and possibly a new friend. If it ends up that you find that you do have a lot in common, well, you not only had a great dinner but also a possible start of a relationship/friendship. Just so you know, on meet and greets, I pay my own way, I don't consider this a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Beta

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    First of all I don't like games, if you are a player/cheater go on down the road. I LOVE to laugh, laughter is a good medicine. I will be your loyal friend, lover, and respect you I in return want the same. Lies big or small ALWAYS come out so don't waste my time RED FLAGS are there for a reason. Learned my lesson on that. No Drama please, dont like it, don't want it. I am looking for a long term relationship,building from a friendship first. Wanting to invest my time, heart and emotions into building a future with someone can be an exciting time, one that we can become vulnerable. If at a point you don't see a future wituh me be man enough to be honest about it. I am a care giver by nature, I enjoy doing for others. I dont need a lot of praise just the smile on your face is good. With that said I dont want it expected of me or to be taken for granted either. I can be easy going most of the time ... until someone messes with those I care about. I can be a lady when need be, also like to let go and enjoy ...I enjoy a glass of wine or COLD beer, but don't do the bar scene as a regular activity. Sitting on the porch drinking a cup of coffee talking and laughing. The first hint of fall the colors, smell, the crisp feel on your skin. Cuddling on the couch watching a movie. Long kisses, tight hugs ... Interests are art, photography, listening to music country , 70's, being my favorite. Love live music, riding around on country roads with the Windows down listening to music and talking. Or the back of a bike just taking it all in. Being outside, in the woods, anything in or around the water.... I just want you beside me holding my hand... Meet for coffee, or lunch talk and hopefully laugh while getting to know each other.

  • Sharice

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    "SHE WANTS HER NAILS PAINTED BLACK..SHE WANTS THE TOY IN THE CRACKER JACKS...SHE WANTS TO WEAR MY SHIRT TO BED..SHE WANTS TO MAKE EVERY STRAY A PET..AND DRIVE AROUND IN MY TRUCK WITH NO PLACE TO GO...BUT SHE NEEDS TO FEEL THAT FIRE..THE ONE THAT LET'S HER KNOW FOR SURE..SHE'S EVERYTHING I WANT AND MORE...HER REAL DESIRE IS TO KNOW I'D WALK ALONE OUT ON THAT WIRE...TO MAKE HER FEEL THAT FIRE"!!!!! COULD YA? WOULD YA?My favorite thing to do when there is nothing to do? Just get in, roll the windows down, turn up the music and let's just DRIVE!!! That's the way I live my life! There is no need for a longterm plan, life is happening all around us and we need to plug in and remember how to have fun. I want to find my best friend, the one I can't wait to see again when we are apart. I am looking for a warm, friendly, always smiling, kind to the checkout person at the grocery store, southern gentleman. If you used to be an athlete but your back and your knees hurt so *** sit around and tell your kids stories of your glory days, well, you are my kind of guy. If you still wear your hat backwards when you are working in the yard, I will surely fall in love with you! Don't misunderstand, I have nothing against the pretty boys...you know who you are. It's just that I have always chosen them over the "not AS attractive, nicer guy." I still need that "chemistry" thing everyone talks about though. I am just keeping an open mind and heart these days. I want to wake up some sunny morning and realize that I have fallen in love with my best friend.... "they're all watching us now, they think we're fallin in love, they'll never believe we're just friends. If you kiss me like this, I think you mean it like that, if you do, baby kiss me again..." T.K. sings about it...I WANT IT!!!RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW:When we meet I will probably give you a big hug as if we have known each other all our lives. I am girlie enough to have a standing appointment for a mani/pedi EVERY week and I change purses to match what I am wearing each day, but if you want to jump up on Saturday morning to run, i have been known to throw on my Nike hat, hair in a ponytail and be out of the house in just a few minutes... NOTE: if we are going out for the evening I will need a bit more time! I have a weakness for strappy, sexy heels and spend too much money on them...but I also have a weakness for camo ballcaps and I have 23 in my closet. I love decorating magazines. I have been told I could take a bunch of crap from WalMart and make it look like a million bucks? Not sure what that means but I think it is a compliment. I love to buy gifts for my friends to surprise them. I am extremely competitive! (family game night is intense at my house). I love to run. I love football (my son plays) and I can give you scores and highlights if you are away from home on a Saturday because I actually follow and understand. My kid's friends drop by sometimes just to eat...and that makes me happy. When they leave they say I love you, just like they are my own kids. That makes me smile. I am not a very good cook but I always set the table properly. I always burn the bread and now it is a joke in my house. I need to be physically close to the person I love and I love to hold hands. I will say I love you every time you walk out the door and if you forget something and come right back in, I will say it again. I will kiss you when you change the lightbulb in the laundry room because I will be overcome with emotion that you did it without being asked. I will always cry at sad movies...ok, sometimes even commercials. (I might even cry when you change that lightbulb without being asked.) I have mastered texting and love to send messages to the people I love. I know nothing about computers other than how to check my *** love to throw parties. In the winter I keep the fire in the fireplace going sometimes day and night because I love the way it makes the room feel. I love the beach. I think I love my kids TOO much. My parents have been married for over 50 years and I am secretly jealous that I won't be in love with someone for that long because I believe it is the greatest gift He gives. In my life I have experienced blessings that I surely do not deserve. I BELIEVE IN HAPPY ENDINGS! I am 100% certain that there is someone who needs and wants to be loved the way only I can love him. I truly have a beautiful life and want to share it with one deserving man. Come on, let's find each other and get started on 50 years together!! We can't win the lottery if we don't even play! First meetings are meant to be spent sitting on the patio at a Mexican restaurant, sipping margaritas, telling each other stories of our lives.

  • Kathryne

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Helle everyone. I have been in two relationships my entire life, each happened to be my husband, so I am new to the dating game. I have always been the ultimate good girl and I do not plan on changing that. It is not the way that I am, it is how people perceive me. People that know me love me.I am a Cancer survivor, volunteer and would do anything to help anyone in this so called life we all share.I am looking for a good man, my soul mate, a man that is honest, sincere and with integrity. I don't think that is too much to ask for.I hate liars and cheaters more than anything in the world and I do not tolerate that. Life is way too short and so precious that we should all be kind to each other. I really don't know what to say to this. I guess when you meet the right person just walking can be a date.

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