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Consuelo, 54
United States, Delaware, Lewes

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About Me

After all this time here I am looking for the what is hopefully, the best part of me. I know that I love the outdoors, I know that there has to be some one out there in this great expanse of a universe that is looking for a warm, compassionate relationship with a female. I want to come to know that person through conversations and spending time together that over time grows into what we know as a comfortable, loving and FUN relationship. I enjoy all music with perhaps the exception of Rap. It just makes me annoyed, I'm sorry. I am hopeful that someone who reads this is also looking for a fun person to make new experiences. One who is not necessarily looking for the next spouse, but rather looking to meet someone who shares the same sense of humor, who isn't going to take themselves too seriously, after all, we aren't perfect. This person should also be open to "seeing" what happens. I can tell you I am exactly as my profile and photos will depict. I am a somewhat complex, often silly, sometimes serious woman looking for that person to have a relationship with who is open to more than just another date. I like my first date to not necessarily be a first day. Why not meet for coffee or other beverage? We can meet and talk for a while. We will know if there is any chemistry or not. If there is great, lets talk some more and plan another date (and soon okay?). If there really isn't any chemistry between us, we can finish our beverage and call it a day. With that said, lets say we do find each other intriguing, lets not waste not and consider our next date. By the way, it doesn't have to be dinner. Perhaps a walk downtown, or to some other local event that may be taking place? Dinner is okay too, just saying.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Spanish Adventure History Mystery Charity Singing
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  • Twanda from Lewes | Woman | 52 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Pls READ my profile before responding, & realize I'm authentic, loving & caring, with a fun, earthy, sweet, soft, sensitive side & not as rigid as my requirements may come across, yet I'm ruling out what doesnt work...TELL ME what we have in common in terms of interests, spirituality, holistic health/nutrition, animals (Please DONT hunt/fish)...Have recent reasonable looking photos ON your public profile...Be close enuf to age ***& TALLER than me with 5'10" minimum & hopefully 6' or more...Be truly single, divorced (prefer at least a yr) or widowed, NOT separated...Neat/clean/well-groomed, even totally bald is fine, but not distracting ungroomed balding patterns/straggly ear hairs/long nails...I can be obsessive with projects, but dont have addictions & DONT want you to have active addictions, nor to smoke pot (unless it is once or twice a yr), no communicable diseases...I did not say I drink socially bec that can attract people who must drink regularly when they go out &/or dont realize they have an addiction, and I dont consider it necessary for fun/joy other than occasionally having 1 or 2 drinks, which I enjoy at times...when I ask what you do 4 a living it is bec I am interested in what motivates you, bec I am not looking only at that in a man...I prefer you have at least a college education...I am spiritual, health & wellness oriented & would like if you are on a similar path...I was brought up Jewish, but don't practice religion, as it doesn't suit my values, other than for showing up in respect for family...I love Christmas... Warrior in you & the Feminine Goddess in me...I'm 5'9" slim-average shapely ***pds...Modeled some in my 20s...I dress with a chic, hippie, artsy, Goddess flair, Levis, yoga pants & leggings, heels with tall size 6 jeans by Victorias Secret, or whatever is necessary 4 the occasion...Been told I look much younger, & yes, my photos are all recent, tho I weigh 8 pds less now...I need my more serious side to be respected before I trust opening up fully, & when I do, you'll see my humor, silliness, sensuality, animality, and then there's no turning back...Most important, you & I continually value &; bring resolve 2 each moment of each experience, building a relationship on a solid foundation that is emotionally productive...I love constantly learning as well as teaching...I seek 2 continue 2 develop spiritually, 2 live each moment in a better way 2 grow/change/transform self, & 2 create loving truthful communication with all living beings beyond the veil of the belief system of the collective ego...IMO the negativity behind playing games/drama is a result of a lack of doing work in the spiritual and communication areas of life...When people have suffered or become compassionate enuf to take a spiritual path (not religion), be it 12 steps, mindfulness/Zen/other forms of Buddhism, there is more of an understanding & value of human suffering in self/others, & how 2 relate 2 each moment & communicate in creative way, so drama/games, if anything, is conscious, responsible, kind & loving...INTERESTS:*Occasional tv -;*Comedy (my best friend is a comedienne), / *Movies - Comedy, Sci Fi, Artistic, Independent, Documentary / *Poetry - Haikus / *Arts - Calligraphy, Graphic design, Crafts, Antiques-Country-Victorian decor & homes / *Music - Classic Rock, Country, Blues, New age, Reggae, Folk / *Words (Scrabble-Crossword Puzzles****Dream work / *Astrology*Reading - Holistic & Spiritual Healing people & animals ie Nutrition, Homeopathy, Buddhism; Auto/Biographies / *Writing&Proofread *Spiritual - *Buddhist Mindfulness & Meditation (Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Jon Kabat-Zinn style, derived from Thich Nhat Han, attend all-day sitting/walking meditations****Nichiren Buddhist Chanting (Nam-myoho-renge-kyo devotion to the Mystical Law of Cause & Effect, transforming past Karma); *I-Ching work (Carol K.*Nutrition/Health Oriented - some Vegetarian/Vegan/Raw/ also Pescaparian bec eat some fish, tho want to eventually stop & only do raw vegan; also, raw org coconut oil is large part of my diet...So, lets get a heathy kitchen & lifestle going together!*Homeopathy - I study & receive treatment; Also I use & prepare flower & other vibrational remedies for friends & family*Exercise - daily now on mini-trampoline rebounder/ Favorite Yoga form is Iyengar/ Hiking *Animal Lover/PETA member- Enjoy animal healing, massage, Reiki, animal communication, esp with my orange 4-yr. old indoor cat Rusty & cats that are outdoors...I'm concerned about ethical treatment of all animals.....I no longer buy clothing from dead animals I'm content with exploring simple & spiritual things with my partner, & while I haven't been only motivated by material things, & I wouldn't settle for anything less than chemistry & true love, the things I like and feel called to do for myself and others, do require money, so I want a man who can afford to live at least reasonably so we could have a comfortable healthy lifestyle & help people & animals holistically...AND*Education/Aspirations - I want to go back to school to be a therapist or nutritionist &/or start a business related to my interests, either by myself or with you, my hopefully soon-to-be boyfriend...A long time ago I went to school to be a speech language therapist, but was unable to complete Masters...I value the education I received from the school of life, which I received along with great suffering, & which made me have to change & become a better personI like learning how to do things on my own rather than being a slave to the expensive services of others, such as doing my own nails, facials, nutrition, & using my own healthy flavored tinctures with stevia or green tea in restaurants, rather than drinking expensive unhealthy sugar/chemical laden drinks...If I dont get back to you right away/at all, I'm human & get turned down too, & I need to wait til I have time or take my time to meditate on which profile seems appropriate to respond to & when...or it could be bec current computer trouble...Men get upset that women need a lot of info & *** they will meet...Its helpful if you realize that a woman cannot help how she feels...kindly be tolerant cause God made women to be a way that actually benefit all in the long-run...I appreciate each man on here, & I esp love seeing photos of you with animals, so even if we dont speak or date, I wish you each Peace, Love & Light! I am old fashioned when it comes 2 dating, including in the sense that I want to allow a man to feel like a man so that I can feel my femininity, and so the relationship, or possibility of one, does not lose its charge...I am not looking for a bunch of free meals...If you live near me I would be happy enough having a drink of water or something small to eat, just to see if we are compatible...I always love Starbucks or similar :)

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  • Beta from Lewes | Woman | 51 years old | Gemini
    Beta

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    First of all I don't like games, if you are a player/cheater go on down the road. I LOVE to laugh, laughter is a good medicine. I will be your loyal friend, lover, and respect you I in return want the same. Lies big or small ALWAYS come out so don't waste my time RED FLAGS are there for a reason. Learned my lesson on that. No Drama please, dont like it, don't want it. I am looking for a long term relationship,building from a friendship first. Wanting to invest my time, heart and emotions into building a future with someone can be an exciting time, one that we can become vulnerable. If at a point you don't see a future wituh me be man enough to be honest about it. I am a care giver by nature, I enjoy doing for others. I dont need a lot of praise just the smile on your face is good. With that said I dont want it expected of me or to be taken for granted either. I can be easy going most of the time ... until someone messes with those I care about. I can be a lady when need be, also like to let go and enjoy ...I enjoy a glass of wine or COLD beer, but don't do the bar scene as a regular activity. Sitting on the porch drinking a cup of coffee talking and laughing. The first hint of fall the colors, smell, the crisp feel on your skin. Cuddling on the couch watching a movie. Long kisses, tight hugs ... Interests are art, photography, listening to music country , 70's, being my favorite. Love live music, riding around on country roads with the Windows down listening to music and talking. Or the back of a bike just taking it all in. Being outside, in the woods, anything in or around the water.... I just want you beside me holding my hand... Meet for coffee, or lunch talk and hopefully laugh while getting to know each other.

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  • Drusilla from Lewes | Woman | 53 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Moved here 9 years ago miss the seafood and the beaches..........love the out doors,hiking, the lake anything outside..star gazing,listen to bands. Love all kinds of music....Like trying new foods and things.If you are curently seperated do not apply......... if not we can work on it...lol...IF YOU ARE CURRENTLY SEPERATED YOU NEED NOT APPLY Someone that will make me laugh.....dont like serious

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