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Shanda, 30
United States, Arkansas, Siloam Springs

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First of all- if your not here looking for more, don't bother contacting me... I am not interested in making a friend w no intentions of a relationship, and Im def not into hooking up. I want my best friend, my lover.... someone who is ready to commit to one person.Artist/painter.. Singer.. love to jog, Zumba, love hiking, camping & being in the woods. Student of Psychology & 5 classes away from my bachelors, hopefully accepted to grad school soon after. I am considering signing up w the military PT to help pay for grad school & doctorate, if I can make it that far... kinda superstitious, believe in karma, love meditating & yoga but I'm not great at it yet; ***friendly & a very friendly & happy social drinker.. Love to read when I'm not reading for school.. Netflix is the best.. & i love music, theater, stand up comedy & live music. I'm also a VERY neat/clean/tidy person, and see this as an aspect of respect for myself and those I allow into my home. I am the type of person that looks at the clouds and sees the beauty of nature, I look at the stars and see the wonder of the universe. I care about people, not just myself. I get a sense of fulfillment from helping others and enjoy taking care of people (family and friends I care about and those I don't even know). I am a philosopher and have educated opinions about many topics. I love to learn, laugh and love. If I won the mega millions: I would buy all the animal shelters I could and redesign them all to be animal sanctuaries and care for them all!!! I also would buy all of the elderly nursing homes and make sure they are treated WAY better than criminals in a prison!!! Finally I would open a series of schools that would not employ the public school methods, but they would be open to the public. There are many flaws in this world. But if these things could be helped even in the smallest, the world could improve. I am a revolutionary at heart and desire to see change!! People have the power and those damn Wall Street Occupiers had the numbers but no true direction. WHY?? Because there are so many areas of society that needs to change that it seems chaotic!! You Sir are educated, goal oriented, neat/clean/tidy, you have a responsible side that peeks through your fun, playful and witty side; Liberal Democrat, possibly artistic/creative, possibly musical in some way; possibly good at cooking; ... taller than 5'11 plz.. id like to be able to wear heels without feeling awkward... Ill accept average body types, as long as you are strong and healthy. But I do prefer someone who goes to the gym or at least has a job that gives you strength training. Also, please do not be on the rebound!! If you are recently out of a relationship please ask yourself if you are really ready to start something new. If you are not a father but want kids you better be prepared to do a lot of the child work yourself- I already went through it by myself and don't intend on having any more kids unless you can support us (I'm still going through school and a baby would just put a wrench in things) I'm not expecting to find this, but I am putting it out there as the only way Id consider having another child. Preferably you have a child that you see regularly, or even a single father who understands single-. Guys who aren't dads- or who havn't at least been a step dad wouldn't understand. I do love it if you are great w kids at the very least, If you don't have them and don't plan to ever have them- you must be great w kids! My son is 11 and my reason for living. My Rules to Successful Online Dating:1. Do not give out your phone # right away, there are crazies out there!2. Chatting on here can be nice, but if you feel like there could be a connection, meet and find out before investing any excitement over it.3. Meet for a drink and maybe a walk or drive, but anything more could be a strain w the wrong person. 4. After we meet decide whether or not to exchange #s...5. IF we exchange #s there would still be more guidelines, rules would be told- rules that on meetville messages, if broken would get you blocked... AND things that would cause someone to be blocked if crossed would be:1. Being disrespectful in any way by asking for nude pics or giving inappropriate pics before their time. 2. Talking straight off about having sex or talking sexually in any way.3. Being inappropriate or disrespectful in any way Uniqueness will earn points.. lol cup of something to drink & a chance to feel each other out before a real date...FAVORITES:Music: Love all types of music, mostly a beat head and love anything w good beat/sound and especially love something I can sing a long to.. even like the stuff you cant sing a long to for one reason or another....... even some operas are great!Movies & Tv Shows: Which to put first?! hmmm.. Ok-.. I have a lot of movie likes but mostly chick flicks if im really chosing just for myself....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Middle Eastern Vietnamese Pets
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