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Ivah, 29

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About Me

Spoiler Alert: Long Profile! Read it or don't: Just don't whine to me about it! Haha! :-PBalance: It's what I am looking for in a partner, what I strive for in life, and describes me in a nutshell. I love to have fun but I don't live for it. I smile when I take my recycling out to the curb but I am not going to go hug a tree! LoL! I like to look/feel good but it doesn't define/confine me. I'm not "athletic" but I'm not a "couch potato," either! I am not model-size but I also am not a BBW. I have curves in all the expected places, so it you are looking for a skinny twig I'm not your girl. I can be just as happy watching a movie on the couch as I can going for a walk or going out for dinner, etc. You won't be bored with me- I promise! :D I am easy to please. And anything is fun in great company. I have lead a sheltered life up until this point and have decided to branch out & meet new people. I believe I've opened myself up to the opportunities life will present and am uber excited to see what the future holds! :) I've done a total ***this past year. Some would say that I am "pulling Costanzas" left & right! (Snaps fingers moving my hand from side to side as I make this Seinfeld reference!) I got a "reality" check last November & have since made the hard decisions & sacrifices necessary to pursue that beautiful, peaceful, fulfilling life we all deserve. And I am proud of myself. It hasn't been easy, but it has been a wonderful growth experience. I won't quit until I WIN. ;) It won't be a title, & I won't want fan-fare: just that satisfied feeling in my gut and a life that is worth living. :)I would describe myself as creative, playfully sweet with just a touch of spicy, loving & affectionate. I am a progressive individual who is very self-aware and is continually evolving/changing/growing/bettering myself. I am out-going and charismatic but frequently introverted on-demand when observation is beneficial & information may be obtained. My mood is relevant to the social dynamics of those around me. I guess you could call me a social chameleon. ;)I am the type of person who will choose quality over quantity, cares about how you feel, chooses my words carefully, and loves to laugh! I also enjoy making others laugh with my varying degrees of comedy (the range is cheesy/super-retardo/crass Jerry Seinfeld-esque humor to sophisticated & quick-witted quips!)I smile at gray skies & enjoy a nice thunderstorm. And I have never been afraid of adversity- I face it head on. To me, adversity, sorrow, pain- all of these things are like a huge tidal wave. You can let them swallow you up whole or grab a surf board & hang on! I like to think that I "hang 10" on all the billows that have come my way. And I am riding every wave with a smile! =)The type of guy I am looking for would feel just as comfortable and confident in jeans and a T- He would be intelligent, respect others' feelings, & enjoy conversation but would not be a mooshy/feminine, passive door mat. He would be strong & responsible- a "man's man"- but not an overly-arrogant, stubborn jerk.-sexual snob, & he would exhibit a high level of personal & I am drawn to funny, charming individuals who recognize their own strengths/weaknesses and utilize both to make smart decisions that continually better themselves & the people around them. You can take me to dinner, for the cliche coffee & donuts, to a movie, a concert, dancing, for a nice promenade, etc ;)I am open to trying new things, within reason.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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