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Shela, 28

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About Me

I have a career, a vehicle, a home, goals, dreams, everything I need, and most everything I want. I would like to spend some of my free time with someone I enjoy being with, other than my girl friends.I love to laugh so a sense of humor is a must. I appreciate an intellectual, insightful conversation but I'm not a snob so it's not mandatory. I'm just as happy sitting on a tailgate looking up at the stars as I am dinning in a fine restaurant drinking a glass of wine. I'm also content to play video games or hit some balls at the batting cages. I enjoy everything that life has to offer me with equal enthusiasm which keeps me open to enjoying the time I spend with all different types of people. Being introduced to new music, new places, new things, and new activities is something that I get really excited about, maybe more excited than the average person. Lol I don't lie so I expect people to show me that same level of respect and keep it honest. I'm not looking for random hookups. I'm also not looking for a serious relationship. I'm living my life strictly for me and it is my personal experience that randoms and seriousness both get in the way of my happiness. I firmly believe you get to know someone through dialogue not monologue so send me a message and let's see if we click. :) Anyone wishing to wear my skin need not apply. I've made decisions for a long time and I'm content, at this point, to sit back and be surprised.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Valary

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    I like to be adventurous, but not dumb. I absolutely love to dance, but I\'m not looking to party every night or weekend. If you’re a hangouter, we’ll do along, looking forward to your message.

  • Rosalee

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    My life has had the most growth in the last 3 years. I went from someone desprate to find love, insecure and searching for who I was. All that changed when I developed a relationship with Christ. I have learned that I am perfectly content being single...if thats God's will for me, I have learned that I am a beautiful person inside and out, I have learned that I have so many amazing things to offer someone and I cannot wait to start lifes adventures with someone who inspires me to be a better person and who I inspire to be a better person. I understand my worth like I have never before experienced...seriously. I mow my own lawn and can change my own oil and tires. I have to thank the men of my past for being so worthless that I had no choice but to stand on my own 2 feet. I think it was God's plan to develope me into a woman of great strength. I know what I like and what I dont like and will gladly share those details with anyone who cares to know. I am very driven and ambitious and I have accomploshed most of the goals I have set out for my life. I am not saying I never fall short, but when I did I can honestly say I gave it all I had. I am also not saying that I am perfect or flawless...I have flaws and many of them but I can boast in my weakness because I live by the grace of God. I don't hide things in the dark to appear to be flawless. Some of those flaws are that, when I love...I love fiercely. I dont drink often but every once in a while, I may have a few too many and make a bad decision or two. Sometimes I find it hard to compromise and have to be continously aware of this so that I can grow to be more flexible. So with all that said...I want someone that can accept me for who I am, and I promise to do the same. I want someone who puts in the effort to get to know exactly who I am and how I came to be that person. I need someone who is more in love with Jesus than they ever will be for me because if a man puts Christ first, they will know how to love me. I want someone who wants me...but does not need me to complete their self worth. When I find someone that I want to pursue...it will be a desire, a want...not a need. A need is simply something u have to have for survival...a want is an active choice that even though u do not need me...u are willing to commit good and bad because having me in ur life enriches it...not complete it. My life is completed by Christ and I want the same in a partner. A relationship is hard work and it requires that every day u wake up and say no matter what I want to be in this relationshio and will do what is in my power to out the other persons needs and desires above my own to for the better of the two. The problem is that most men in my experience are intemidated by a woman who is fine without a man...I can assure u, if I am in a relationship with a man I will work everyday to make them feel how much I appreciate them and all that they bring into my life to make it better. If u would like to know more or like what I have said or have questions or concerns...please message me...I will gladly explain or answer any questions. I love meeting new people and investing time to learn what makes them who they are...u can learn so much about life through the eyes of someone new. I have also started a new adventure to become active and athletic and over all healthy. Its not about weight loss, all thought thats a bonus and I could use to lose a few...but its more about living everyday to the fullest and extending the amount of time that I get to experience this amazing thing called life...I would charish having someone to experience lifes adventures with. Use you imagination and think outside the box. I will absolutely not go to dinner and the movies on the first date, your going to have to put in a little more thought than that.

  • Edyta

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I\'m really down for whatever when it comes to free time, and even if I don\'t think I’ll enjoy something I would undoubtedly bend the rules for someone special. Search for true lover, not egoistic bitch.

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