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Babara, 30
United States, Arkansas, Jacksonville

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About Me

First and foremost, if you ask for sex, I'm going to block you. If you say creepy sh*tabout my appearance, also blocking you. I'm not some trashy whore, and I will not talk to anyone who regards me as such.I'm beginning to think that most people are incapable of seeking anything with substance due to their own negativity. The amount of negative messages I receive and people quick to think they're being rejected if I don't respond, is quite astounding. I don't really know why one would be that sensitive to a lack of response from a complete stranger, especially when a lack of response can mean many things, most of which aren't even personal.. Going to work on this but in the meantime here's some cautionary tales.I'm sort of a "creative" type in the sense that my imagination leads to some outlandish thoughts and yes, I do have a rather offbeat sense of humor complete with the occasional sarcasm.I just find it incredibly difficult to meet people, let alone anyone I can connect with. So, friends. I seek them. Maybe dating. Maybe. Depends who you are. If you're just going based on looks, we won't work. I place a higher value on personality and intelligence and all of those other things. If you get all creepy on me, VANISH. If you're focused on sex, also, go away.Also if all you say is "hi" or "sup" or a terrible pickup line, it's a guarantee I won't respond. Because I have messages with under 50 characters blocked because when you have over ***messages of just "HI" and nothing at all to really set them apart, its a bit overwhelming even thinking about responding to all of them. Therefore, I figure if someone is actually interested in getting to know ME *** just throwing out dozens of 'hi' messages and just praying that ANY FEMALE AT ALL will reply, I'd rather make it a bit easier on myself. I also block people looking for "intimate encounters." If I can also discern you sent me a copy and pasted message, I also won't either because IDK from my point of view that sort of reeks of desperation thrown at just anyone at all and that's a waste of my time. FIRING LASERS AT THE ENEMYAlso, you should be okay with the fact that I'm vegetarian AND gluten free!Also please be relatively intelligent and be capable of conversation. BLANK STARES ARE SORT OF OFF-PUTTING.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    How doth one describe themselves to a complete stranger that both tells the core of their persona without scaring the new found friend away? Well, let's see. I'm 30. I'm widowed. It sucks, yes. Wasn't in the plan but here I am. Supposedly, us widows still have dating potential because we're not bitter and angry (so says' the books!) but rather well-loved and functional. Woo! I function! I have two spawnlings, a 7-year old mini me daughter and a 3-year old toddler boy of terror. Kids rock, mine are the coolest. I'm biased, however. I'm usually a strict parent but they say cute things and I melt like a chump. Ah well! Besides being a parent, I do that whole working to pay bills thing. I have two part-time gigs, one is a sales job, the other is working with runaway/homeless teenagers. I love kids and animals. I have a whole mini-zoo (5 dogs, 3 cats, 2 parrots, a pig, a horse, ect..) . Anything that you can be goofy with and not be judged is alright by me. I'm fun, goofy, loud, awkward, a bit silly.. I'm a giant kid myself. I can occasionally dress up nice and pretend to be a pretty woman but that's rare. I like to get dirty, ATV, ride horses, go fishing, I can hang with the guys but I also deeply value my relationships with my close girlfriends.I'm a pretty laid-back, easy going girl and looking for similar type people. I'm just looking to make friends and connections with good folks! I'm a non-jealous, drama-free, sociable person who prefers the same. If you're the possessive and insecure type, please don't bother me. I'm comfortable with who I am and I want someone who's the same. If this is a potential problem for you, you're probably not mature to be with me anywho!) When in a relationship, I'm committed, devoted, and faithful. I don't believe in cheating. I don't see the purpose - if you don't want to be with the person you're with, tell them. It's about respect! If you love someone and you respect them, why lie and sneak? Bogus, I say.Physical attraction has to be there for chemistry but humor goes pretty far with me! I find men who can make me laugh, laugh at themselves, and don't take the world too seriously absolutely charming. Something challenging is always fun! Dinner is fine, too, but it's a little more interesting to do things that involve teamwork and a thought process when on a first date! You can tell right away how someone handles new things and stress!

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  • Jessie from Jacksonville | Woman | 30 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    The greatest risk you can take in life, is to not risk it *** all So i believe if there's this attraction, this connection bww you and that other person, you risk it, throw aside all the "what ifs" n "but what about...." N whatever the hell else is stopping you, and you trust your gut your intuition. After all, there's nothing worse than looking Back and regretting never taking the chance, the 1 that coulda been everything n more you've hoped for, the 1 in which you might've reaped much reward.1st let me say this.. in all seriousness, I'm less than impressed n fairly skeeved out by the majority of profiles I've seen. Guys.. HONESTLY.. These pictures?! Stop it w so many pics showing off the big fish you caught that day n are apparently so proud of that you seem to think we ladies will be equally as impressed n be inspired to date you.. NO! Stop taking pics in the bathroom mirror, if we can take self pics w out the mirror so can you.. Not a good look tryin to look all fly n smooth next to your sink or w a toilet behind you. Put some clothes on already.. you'll get topless in our bedroom a lot faster if you're not already topless all over the internet!If you resemble a serial killer, pedophile, sex offender, or likewise PLEASE refrain from contacting me.. N guys, you know what a creep looks like when you see one, plz stop being stupid questioning what I mean by this. I'm a single mother, so if you can't respect that and my life with my child and all that comes along with that, don't bother hitting me up. Not sure exactly what I'm looking for or hoping to get from making this profile, just kind of along for the ride and up to see what happens, if anything.I'm NOT AT ALL into typical douche bags, tight tshirts, kissy faces, or guys who are simply trying too hard! Just be you and you never know what could happen.Hobbies include: Basically my entire adult life I've been a bit of a nightlife junkie. Within the last several months tho, that's become less n less how/where I spend my free time. As much as I can't deny that part of who I am.. Bc it IS a part of my identity, I'm not getting any younger and I want new things in my life, new experiences, a fresh approach, n I need to add some new faces in the mix to show me the those things. :) I love being silly and laughing at myself, but I'm also a bit of an anxious hot mess by nature.. I try to keep that a good balance tho! :)Bc I'm on full- So, I'm open for ideas, n like I said.. Possible some new faces n new experiences! I'm far from traditional, but isn't that you're job?..Don't say watch a movie *** your place.. I'm no fool, I know there's no movie.

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  • Jamee from Jacksonville | Woman | 26 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    Love Music, like to Dance. Conservative party animal. I can be quite a chatterbox at times. Awkward but yet cool at that same time. I‘d like to find an open minded partner who behaves genuinely.

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