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Jasmine, 27
United States, Arkansas, Harrison

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It’s all about staying in the moment but learning from the past. The older I become I have learned I'm not settling for second best. I don't want to waste my time not being happy. Dating is tedious and painful and downright annoying sometimes, especially when you are waiting and hanging on for that big spark (rightfully so). But, it can be fun. My goal in dating was to find “The One” and meet my future husband, but realized I may be setting myself up for failure and disappointment. Also thought i might be coming off as too desperate to men. I want a person I could trust and have fun with, that could possibly lead to other things. I realized I needed to change my frame of mind and be more relaxed and when it happens it happens. Luckily my sister still lives there so visiting is a must (in the summer lol). I have spent the past 6 years working as a Vet technician... That means I pretty much have the coolest job ever! We place the IV cath lines, assist in surgeries, X-rays, anesthesia... We are just the nurse ok! Ha. It is different everyday and very fulfilling. I do have a young son that at this point I do not share custody with so in other words I need someone who understands I can't just pick and do things someone who understands the kid thing. At this point its looking like i will never share custody nor receive child support and I'm not looking for a man to think of this as baggage but a clean slat. If you want a good relationship with a mother it's starts with the child! Obviously it wouldn't be right away but the most important thing to a mom would be how you interact with the kiddos ( I only have one just in general lol). I'm fun and am there for the person I want (notice it doesn't say need) to be with. I'm patiently waiting for something but I'm not in a place where I have to find it.Now on a less serious note I can be found dancing to music around my room. I'm not making any promises that I'm any good at it but I sure hope it rubs off on my son ;) I love nights in with my family doing puzzles (I'm embarrassingly good at them lol). I want to always be busy if its BBQs hiking site seeing amusement parks zoos I'm there! I'd just like to find someone to do it all with. I love horses. It's been a few years since I've been on one and miss it a lot ;) He needs to pick up the tab, always. I don’t think the word dutch should ever come into the picture in a relationship, or even on a date. If a guy asks you out, he should pay for dinner, or lunch, or coffee. Anything. That’s guy gentleman law.The guy should make an effort to open the door for you, and do any other heavy lifting. Like it or not, men are supposed to be the stronger sex. They are supposed to protect their women, and if the guy makes you throw out the trash, or pick up heavy sh*twhile he’s being lazy sitting on the couch, maybe you should look elsewhere.A guy should get you flowers. He should get you flowers just because he cares. He should make you feel special. More special than any other woman in his life.If u want me persue me, ask me out I don't wanna text for weeks etc and never get an inviteI’m a strong believer in “Bros before Hoes,” which means that if he puts you first, you aren’t just some random girl to him, but someone who means a lot more to himWomen can stand up for themselves very well, but deep down, all of them want to be protected. Nothing pleases them more than the “you’re safe with me” assurance. Offer to walk her home; if it’s late in the night, put an arm around her protectively if you sense other men making advances, and inspire confidence that she is safe with you. Do not hesitate if you have to take a stand for her. The safer a woman feels with you, the more she’ll respect you.Take it from a woman - guys who try too hard to impress a girl, end up putting her off. Do not look too needy or act desperate. The last thing a woman wants, is to have a clingy guy hanging outside her door. Be cool and confident, and trust me, she’ll want you even more!I will write a book someday! LolI LOVE coffee ;) About to give up on this pathetic site....YES my son is half black don't write me of this is obviously a problem!!! And No I don't "only date black men"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Latin Cycling Japanese Middle Eastern Crime Horror
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