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Shemika, 30

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Hello. I respect myself, I am genuine, I am supportive, ambitious, spiritual, and have all the qualities a real woman has and I WILL NOT settle for any man whom doesn't meet these same expectations!I am an interesting and funny girl. I like to take long walks on the beach when the weather is right, dance, hang out with friends, and meet new people. Some of my goals are to finish school...Im working towards getting my degree in Business Management. Also, to make time for the little things that I enjoy the most, such as reunite with old friends, watch the sunset and take it all in, ect. I am a person who enjoys a lot of things, writing poetry, scrapbooking, taking photos, along with some other things. I love to work out and take walks in the park. I recently took that part of my life at bit more seriously. I like Hip Hop & R&B, Top 40, anything really, except country. I love animals!!! I have two semior cats who are liter mates and about twenty years old in human years. I love them to death and dont know what I would do without them! Family and friends are important to me. I do speak Hungarian and do have a bit of a dialect. If you would like to get to know me more, just ask!I am very easy going, very open-minded, and love to laugh! If I sound like your type of girl, hit me up!! :)I am not a perfect girl...but I may be the perfect girl for you! I guess we'll have to find out, won't we? My ideal man doesn't have to be a hunk but should at least LOOK like he's taking care of himself! ;)FYI: I hardly ever send out messages. So if I send you a message, it means that you have really caught my eye! Lol I'd grab coffee or tea, go bowling, take a walk in the park. I'm up for anything really.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    It’s all about staying in the moment but learning from the past. The older I become I have learned I'm not settling for second best. I don't want to waste my time not being happy. Dating is tedious and painful and downright annoying sometimes, especially when you are waiting and hanging on for that big spark (rightfully so). But, it can be fun. My goal in dating was to find “The One” and meet my future husband, but realized I may be setting myself up for failure and disappointment. Also thought i might be coming off as too desperate to men. I want a person I could trust and have fun with, that could possibly lead to other things. I realized I needed to change my frame of mind and be more relaxed and when it happens it happens. Luckily my sister still lives there so visiting is a must (in the summer lol). I have spent the past 6 years working as a Vet technician... That means I pretty much have the coolest job ever! We place the IV cath lines, assist in surgeries, X-rays, anesthesia... We are just the nurse ok! Ha. It is different everyday and very fulfilling. I do have a young son that at this point I do not share custody with so in other words I need someone who understands I can't just pick and do things someone who understands the kid thing. At this point its looking like i will never share custody nor receive child support and I'm not looking for a man to think of this as baggage but a clean slat. If you want a good relationship with a mother it's starts with the child! Obviously it wouldn't be right away but the most important thing to a mom would be how you interact with the kiddos ( I only have one just in general lol). I'm fun and am there for the person I want (notice it doesn't say need) to be with. I'm patiently waiting for something but I'm not in a place where I have to find it.Now on a less serious note I can be found dancing to music around my room. I'm not making any promises that I'm any good at it but I sure hope it rubs off on my son ;) I love nights in with my family doing puzzles (I'm embarrassingly good at them lol). I want to always be busy if its BBQs hiking site seeing amusement parks zoos I'm there! I'd just like to find someone to do it all with. I love horses. It's been a few years since I've been on one and miss it a lot ;) He needs to pick up the tab, always. I don’t think the word dutch should ever come into the picture in a relationship, or even on a date. If a guy asks you out, he should pay for dinner, or lunch, or coffee. Anything. That’s guy gentleman law.The guy should make an effort to open the door for you, and do any other heavy lifting. Like it or not, men are supposed to be the stronger sex. They are supposed to protect their women, and if the guy makes you throw out the trash, or pick up heavy sh*twhile he’s being lazy sitting on the couch, maybe you should look elsewhere.A guy should get you flowers. He should get you flowers just because he cares. He should make you feel special. More special than any other woman in his life.If u want me persue me, ask me out I don't wanna text for weeks etc and never get an inviteI’m a strong believer in “Bros before Hoes,” which means that if he puts you first, you aren’t just some random girl to him, but someone who means a lot more to himWomen can stand up for themselves very well, but deep down, all of them want to be protected. Nothing pleases them more than the “you’re safe with me” assurance. Offer to walk her home; if it’s late in the night, put an arm around her protectively if you sense other men making advances, and inspire confidence that she is safe with you. Do not hesitate if you have to take a stand for her. The safer a woman feels with you, the more she’ll respect you.Take it from a woman - guys who try too hard to impress a girl, end up putting her off. Do not look too needy or act desperate. The last thing a woman wants, is to have a clingy guy hanging outside her door. Be cool and confident, and trust me, she’ll want you even more!I will write a book someday! LolI LOVE coffee ;) About to give up on this pathetic site....YES my son is half black don't write me of this is obviously a problem!!! And No I don't "only date black men"

  • Audrie

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

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  • Edythe

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I going into my second year as a high school teacher. So the majority of my time is spent working right now. I am one class away from my masters degree and am plannin on finishing that up during the summer of ***. I went back to school after being in the corporate world for three years as a human resources generalist...which is what my undergraduate degree is in. I love trying new things, hanging out with friends, running, traveling, and enjoying life.). I have also completed five marathons and a number of half marathons. I run them for the feeling I get when I cross that finish line! I'm looking for someone who loves life and likes to get outside, travel, experience new things, and enjoys a good conversation! I am huge on conversation so if that doesn't flow naturally, I will probably shy away. Something light and casual to see if there is a connection.

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