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Calantha, 31

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About Me

I’ve learned to be upfront about this: I like politics and lean to the left. If you are a member of the Tea Party, good luck in your dating search, but please move on. I’m fairly new to SLC. Still learning my way around. Who I am:Smart ass – Sometimes this gets me into trouble Funny – So I've been told. I think I’m just honestOptimist – I believe there is always a silver lining if you look hard enoughActive and social – But I also love to curl up on the couch and watch a movieFortunate – I have a job that I like. I have 2 great kids.Busy – I work full time. I am actively involved in my local Buddhist organization. I also volunteerEducated – I have my AS in Business administration and my BA in Professional WritingContradictory – I am a liberal who is also a navy veteran. I have a white collar job and also several tattoos. I am an introvert who also loves to go outWho you are:Intelligent – You don’t have to have a college degree. But you need to be able to keep up in an intellectual or philosophical conversationDriven – I don’t care what you do for a living as long as you have goals; personal and/or professional31ish to 37ish – I’m not a cradle robber and I don’t have daddy issuesTall(er than me) – I can’’m only 5’2” so this isn't usually a problemDone having kids – I have 2, and I can’t have more. If you have kids of your own, all the betterDrug Free – I don’t judge what my friends do. But I also know what I do and don’t want in my daily life and around my kidsNot LDS – I’m never going to change my religion for someone, so I don’t expect anyone else to change theirs for me. I drink coffee, and like to have a few drinks every now and then Anything else will largely depend on chemistry. If it’s there, it’s there. If it’s not, it can’t be forced. A first date should be to determine if there is chemistry or not. Lunch is good. It keeps expectations within reason. And if it is unbearably awkward, it's only lunch. Second dates should be longer. Once you know there's chemistry and you decide you want to get to know a person better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I'm laid back but love the thrill of an adventure! Don't mind going to the bars sometimes. Love to see my family and friends and go see bands play.Would like to find a decent guy who actually wants a relationship & hopefully one day more. I'm looking for a guy who has their license, a car, a job, a sense of humor, low drama (cause there always seems to be a lil something!), excepts me for me & I for them, doesn't beat on their girl, daring, can keep me on my toes & I on their's, friendly, doesn't mind family gatherings, sweet, thoughtful/considerate, is fine with being at home and relaxing, is honest, faithful, attractive, spontaneous, wants a relationship, affectionate, loving, etc.I've been a childcare teacher for over 12yrs. w/13mon.-2yr. I have my own car & my own place. I have my nose pierced, & five tattoos, and soon to get more! My longest relationship was 4yrs. & I was engaged but I broke it off. I've been single, getting my head straight, & dating.Love riding motorcycles (I have my license & I had a motorcyle but got rid of it), bands/concerts, body piercings, tattoos, boating, crabbing, scuba diving, snorkeling, bbqing, traveling, taking weekend trips, camping, walks/hikes, chillin' w/friends & family, music, horse back riding, etc.Look forward to hearing from you! Anything where we both were enjoying eachother's company & having a good time; isn't that all that matters?!

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