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Calantha, 31

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About Me

I’ve learned to be upfront about this: I like politics and lean to the left. If you are a member of the Tea Party, good luck in your dating search, but please move on. I’m fairly new to SLC. Still learning my way around. Who I am:Smart ass – Sometimes this gets me into trouble Funny – So I've been told. I think I’m just honestOptimist – I believe there is always a silver lining if you look hard enoughActive and social – But I also love to curl up on the couch and watch a movieFortunate – I have a job that I like. I have 2 great kids.Busy – I work full time. I am actively involved in my local Buddhist organization. I also volunteerEducated – I have my AS in Business administration and my BA in Professional WritingContradictory – I am a liberal who is also a navy veteran. I have a white collar job and also several tattoos. I am an introvert who also loves to go outWho you are:Intelligent – You don’t have to have a college degree. But you need to be able to keep up in an intellectual or philosophical conversationDriven – I don’t care what you do for a living as long as you have goals; personal and/or professional31ish to 37ish – I’m not a cradle robber and I don’t have daddy issuesTall(er than me) – I can’’m only 5’2” so this isn't usually a problemDone having kids – I have 2, and I can’t have more. If you have kids of your own, all the betterDrug Free – I don’t judge what my friends do. But I also know what I do and don’t want in my daily life and around my kidsNot LDS – I’m never going to change my religion for someone, so I don’t expect anyone else to change theirs for me. I drink coffee, and like to have a few drinks every now and then Anything else will largely depend on chemistry. If it’s there, it’s there. If it’s not, it can’t be forced. A first date should be to determine if there is chemistry or not. Lunch is good. It keeps expectations within reason. And if it is unbearably awkward, it's only lunch. Second dates should be longer. Once you know there's chemistry and you decide you want to get to know a person better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gerri

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I've been out of the country for about a year...which makes me feel like a little bit of a friendless geek. So I'm looking for someone to hang out with and go do stuff with...mostly looking for hiking and climbing buddies.I like rock climbing, hiking, swimming, running, anything that gets me outside or rips skin off/leaves bruises. I'm also big on exploring and learning new skills. I'm curious and varied to the point of eccentric. I'm not always kind, but I'm always honest. I'm impatient and fairly aggressive. I'm also a massive klutz and seldom do anything right on the first go around. I have a tendancy to squeak when I fall down. I write prolifically and talk about nothing. I will seldom verbalize the things that mean the most to me. I'm not good with the squishy feelings. I like to cuddle but I'm really crappy at romance. I don't like cutting my hair, but the color changes every now and again. Right now it's blonde. "Do one thing every day that scares you" and "Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well find some way that is going to be interesting. And you don't do that by sitting around wondering about yourself" are two of my favorite quotes.I am not a princess, nor am I looking to be treated like a princess, queen, goddess, lady, insertlamecheeseytermofendearmenthere. I'm not a fan of pedestals, they tip over too easy. I'm not a tomboy, but I don't sit around wondering if what I'm doing is considered masculine or feminine. I do things that I enjoy doing. It's too easy. All I want in a guy is a buddy that I can go rock climbing with, go to the shooting range with, go learn bow hunting with and plan for the zombie apocolypse and discussing string theory and Tao, go scuba diving and kayaking in remote far away places, go climb random mountains, go to the gym and beat the bejeebies out of each other sparring, then go home to a nice hot shower, curl up and watch action comedy superhero movies or play MMORPGs followed up by "crazy wild monkey furniture breaking oh my gawd the neighbors think we're killing each other" sex...I really think it shouldn't be that difficult to come by.I'm not universally attractive. If you're not interested in me, you're not. I won't expect you to write me back. If I don't find you attractive, I'm not going to write you back. It's not to be rude. I just have no desire to get to know you, the same as passing by hundreds of random strangers on the street each day. and not pausing to get to know each and every one of them unless there's something that sparks my interest.*sigh* and I guess I need to add this disclaimer...I do not, do not, DO NOT trade "sexy" or nude photos with anyone EVER. If you can't get the idea of what I look like from what I've got posted, then sorry, your imagination sucks. Pestering me to trade pics is pretty much cause for termination of conversation with no questions asked. I've got my kinky side, but nothing goes on film or digits ever. I don't have a cookie cutter ideal of the first date. It depends on who I'm with.

  • Jordi

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    -ish to the Range). When I’m not working, I like to hike &I'm looking for a guy with honesty and drive - someone who challenges me. I'm a very optimistic person, so I guess my biggest pet peeve would be pessimists. Coffee is always a good way to start.

  • Rory

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I like being around positive real people. I have no time for fake family or friends...I also believe in karma cuz what goes around come around! if you\'re open-minded and real be free to write me.

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