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Erlinda, 35

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About Me

This is the hardest part for me. I enjoy the outdoors...Yard work, Camping, Water sports Etc. Music is a must in life, I like all kinds. I like movies, reading, bowling. However I like learning new things/activities. I'm really game for most things. If I try it and don't like it I just won't do it again. I will come back later and add to my list. Haha! About me....I have one child that is 17 and he is the Highlight of my life and my #1 priority. I’m very family oriented. I am the baby of the family and of course my dad’s favorite. All my siblings live locally, so we see each other weekly. I have worked at my current job for 17yrs. I’m also a Cosmetologist, so I do hair in my spare time. My friends and relationships I have with them are very important to me. They are my second family and my main support group. I’m Strong, Confident, Independent and sometimes Conceited (One of my many gifts! LOL) I live life with a positive attitude, find the good in all things. I’m responsible & reliable. Loving, caring & loyal plus . LoL - just checking to see if you’re really reading this. I’ve been know to be a bit of a smart ass and truly I’m a dork at heart. Oh yes! Sometimes words come out of my mouth without thinking first. I also have a few bad habits. I smoke, like beer and can cuss like a sailor. I’m not proud.:) I’m honest and outspoken. If it needs to be said then it will be said. I love who I am.About the one I’m looking for....I’m looking for a Strong Healthy Adult Relationship… I don’t need a father and I don’t want to parent my partner. I want Interdependence! You must be happy with yourself, have a good since of where you stand in life and where you want to continue to grow. I want a man that can support me both mentally & physically, because as long as I’m fulfilled mentally, well then the physical part will be… hum fulfilling.:) If you have a big heart and know how to treat a lady. If you don’t have a problem with relaxing and enjoying the simple things in life, have a great since of humor & can be a goof ball from time to time. Then I believe we will be off to a great start.:)I’d just like to add....I believe that physical attraction is important and I don’t have a need or desire to post pictures of my ass or boobs to get your attention. Plus leaving those things to the imagination is just part of the foreplay! Right? More importantly emotional attraction, however dating online doesn’t really allow me to get to know someone emotionally. I feel that e-mails/text are impersonal and can be miss- Guess I will have to adjust. Okay, let’s talk about Drama… Come on guys…Really? I know you don’t want drama brought into your lives and who does… Here is the reality of it (my point of view) I have been married & divorced. I have a teenage son, who always has a girlfriend. I love my siblings and their kids. I work full time and I have a life. So therefore I have drama in my life. No I don’t enjoy the drama, but it is what it is. I strive to have healthy adult relationships. If you’re not the type of person to own up to your mistakes and be responsible for your own actions, then I’m not the girl for you. So now that I have scared the majority of you away by vomiting words allover this page. But you can’t help being intrigued by me LOL! Please do send me a message and let’s get to know one another. Something casual, but fun... So we can get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Twanda

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hi there! Welcome to my profile~ I think that life is too short to be taken too seriously but also one should be open to finding love and a special connection, even if its online. Being a busy person I haven't had much luck trying to meet people and the dating pool is very small here, so I figured I'd give this a shot. I'm an optimist that needs to believe that my special person is out there and I need to at least meet the Universe half-way on making an effort in finding him. Please don't take it personally if I don't respond to you, I'm just super picky (and you all should be too with our millions of users, we need to narrow it down somehow!) I just know exactly the type of guy I'm looking for. I'm a pretty self-sufficient individual that loves my freedom, my many blessings in life and my family and friends whom I try never to take for granted. I am fortunate enough to have work that I love at a local hospital and I've got plans to graduate with a bachelor's degree in environmental and sustainability studies with a minor in anthropology from the U in about Spring ***. I have a few ideas what I'd like to do afterwards but we'll see what options may lie ahead when I get there. I'd also like to pursue a master's degree in a wildlife ecology conservation degree maybe about a year after this degree but I need time off to travel and get some experience in my field. This year I have taught myself how to crochet and I will be become one of the cliched 'single ladies with a cat' soon as I want to adopt a cat for my birthday present to myself this year. I have one beta fish right now as well. (We can't have dogs at my apt., but right now a dog would be too much responsibilty, down the line I'd love to have a few dogs that I can train to be therapy dogs and take to visit people in the hospital). My dream is to find my place that feels like home and accrue a small urban farm with a little collection of rescue animals and do the whole organic sustainable garden lifestyle, I'm not a full-on hippie, but I think that its a really necessary thing to be able to take care of yourself and keep connected with the Earth and nature. I'm equal parts city chick and nature lady. I've never been to Europe but I know I'll love it and want to stay a while. Maybe we can go together? Around here, I've become a complete hiking nut and go all year-round with my best friend and whomever will join us. I love music of all kinds with few exceptions (Country is just NOT in my blood thank you very much! Everyone has a soft spot for Johnny Cash though). Attending the operas every season is very important to me, you don't have to go or like it, but I can talk about the reasons why I love it for hours...you'll also find me dancing to rave/techno/trance/beats antique style music and I was pretty into punk rock/goth/rave music for much of my early 20's. Traveling, exploring and adventure are all in my blood as well. Timing for me currently is terrible to try and do much of it while I'm in school, but this summer I went on my first back-packing trip to Kaua'i's Na' Pali coast with my bestie and her two boys. Next year we're going to Australia and New Zealand to visit her Dad while he's still around (an important trip I'd say!). I've also been to a number of international locations but most of the really exotic ones were when I was younger. Time to also get my passport renewed! As much as I love traveling~ I also really love to have a place to call home and feel comfortable. I do like stability as much as the adventure. I'm really not an adrenaline junkie, in fact I'd rather stay home and watch movies or read a book than sky dive. I guess I'm kind of an oddball. Actually, really more of a nerd to be quite honest. I get really into Arthurian mythology, archaeology, science, animals...random things that most people don't really get into..and I'm totally attracted to like-minded individuals who have passions and don't care what other people think. There's just something so sexy about an intelligent guy with a sense of humor. Speaking of guys.... (If you can't show your teeth in your 'bait' photos, it makes me nervous of what's in there... I don't care if you work out every day or have a few extra places to love, I just care about your health and that you do too. If you can't find joy in some kind of physical activity (besides sex) than we might not have that much to connect over. I'm scared of bicycle riding around here so I don't (too many deaths and accidents) and I'm 'over' skiing as I did so much of it growing up, plus its expensive and I'd rather spend my time and money learning something new. I like rock climbing but haven't been able to do a ton of it (yet) and I like going to yoga when I can. I want to know about you, what you love about your life, what your goals and dreams are, if you get along with your family, if you have pets, passions, interests, strange but cool stories, have a zest for life but with a healthy measure of balance and grounding, if you are 'spiritual, but not religious' on some level, are not a litter bug or complete slob, if you care about yourself and have decent self-esteem (I can't tell you how many depressed guys I've dated, and after working so hard on myself I just need someone who's optimistic and decidedly happy in their life). If you are also finding that the thing you're missing in your life is someone to share it all with and to come home to. If things get serious, I'd be completely open to marriage and having a little family at some point, but no rush. I'm not baby crazy and there's no need to rush things, I just think I'd be really good at both if the right guy came along. I guess if you're that guy then you're into that possibility too.) sounds romantic, trecking off the beaten path to discover ancien Coffee / brunch date is the best for the very first meeting. Public spaces are good. Alcohol is not necessary to make a good impression. If you're a complete dork and we have chemistry, I'll probably like you.

  • Justa

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am seriously over meeting men who lie. Its getting old, and really lame. I would like to meet a real man. Not a jerk. Someone who knows how to be honest. Ok write something interesting about myself....First of all I am a one of a kind type woman. My family is extremely important to me. I am a very proud mother of 4 wonderful, amazing, respectful teenagers. I have 3 boys and 1 girl. They are my reason for living and breathing There-for they will ALWAYS come first in my life. Before freaking out, Yes they have a wonderful dad.I have decided that life is to short, and I am not getting any younger. I would like to find a man to settlte down with, and build a future together. I want to find my last and forever. I am giving this site one more shot. I am a huge sports fanatic! I love to cook. I also enjoy the outdoors. Camping, fishing, hiking exc. I love all types of music. Not a huge fan of Jazz though. I am looking to find someone with similar interests. If you would like to know more send me A message. Please only men between the ages of ***. I lead a drama free life, and expect the same in a man. I am not into one night stands, booty calls, or FWB. I am to old for that. Thanks for reading my profile! Hope to hear from you!!! If it gets that far....Maybe get a drink, sit down and get to know eachother and see where it goes from there!

  • Erminia

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I surround myself with people who are kind and fun. Love having adventures near and far, and I believe the best ones are unplanned. I have a job I love and am very close with my friends and family. Big fan of meeting great new people who have experiences different from mine. Just checking this out to see who might be out there.... get in touch to learn more. Drinks..Coffee....frisbee in a park...

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