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Herlinda, 34
United States, Arkansas, Cabot

Offline, last seen Sun, 28 Jun 2026 18:09:03

About Me

I'm just a hopeless romantic searching for my partner in crime.I suppose I should actually write something here, but it all seems so redundant to me. How about bold faced honesty? I am 34, and was married for what seems like half my life. Have an ex-husband that I get along with quite well. I have three kids! Three!!! Run.... They are my everything. Boy, girl, boy. Ages 18, 11, and 8. I'm not looking for a baby daddy, and you have to turn water into wine or something equivalent to be lucky enough to meet them. The ex has them every other weekend so I do have my "me time." I don't mind dating someone that also has kids, but I am done having babies in this life time. Not negotiable. I am a very confident and easily lovable person. I have many friends that I have known for years. Loyal to a fault, and sometimes quite needy, but too cool to let that on. I will make you laugh. I'm that girl that you meet and are *** to for some reason, but not quite sure if I am your typical type. My eyes will lure you in, and my intelligence will set you over the edge. I could say I'm BBW, but that's literally code for fat. I prefer to say that I am curvy, because I carry myself very well. I'm working on that part at the moment. Trying to be a little more selfish and make the time for myself. All of my pics are very current. It would be awesome to find a workout buddy, but don't show interest in me if you feel the desire to change me, talk to me only if you are attracted to what you already see. I work two jobs as a nurse, own my home, and pay my own bills. I don't give a damn about money and I never will as long as my family is taken care of. I clean up well to the point that it will take your breath away, and on the flip side, I can look like one of those 'people of walmart' pics on a rough day at home in private. Sometimes my house is a complete disaster because honesty after working all day and dealing with traffic, I just want to play!! Otherwise, clutter. I love to cook, love music (all kinds), and you can't even begin to keep me inside on a beautiful day. I'm very comfortable in my own skin, and deserve nothing less than the best when it comes to a partner. I can admit that I am a bit jaded when it comes to dating. It seems like everyone has gone crazy. How do you actually meet normal people? I have no expectations being on meetville, so surprise me because I am cynical. I would say that I am a relationship person, but it has to be a good one. At this point in my life if we don't click, you just call it a day and move on. I don't smoke, and prefer that you don't as well, but it isn't a deal breaker. I'm looking for someone willing to start out slow and see what can develop... I have the ability to make you forget there are other people in the room. :) I can make you feel like you are the most important person in this world and I will do whatever it takes to make sure your smile is of genuine happiness. Don't waste my time if you are looking for a 'good time' or you don't look like your picture. Looks aren't everything. The total package does include flaws, but honesty and sincerity are a must. Be real with me, and I will do the same. What you see is what you get, and if i contact you and you aren't interested, you don't have to reply to be polite. It's the internet, I'm pretty sure my self esteem can take your meetville rejection. If you have been on meetville for so long that your pics actually have the meetville logo on them, I will not respond, or if you are wearing a wedding ring in yours pics, ummm... Well now, that's a total fail. Please don't say you are actively looking for a relationship if you have no intentions to commit. I don't want to be a meetville regular, I want to find the real deal, and give my all, because I'm worth it, and just like everyone else, my match is out there somewhere. With that being said, ask me anything. Go ahead... Talk nerdy to me. Meet me in a restaurant and sit silently and awkwardly stare at each other for 5 minutes before speaking. I'll even make it official and bust out with a stop watch. (That part was a lie, I would use my iPhone) If you can make eye contact with me for that long, something is off with you and I like it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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