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Phylicia, 55

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About Me

I'm a 54 year old widow. Looking for her wizard.....Well I'm sure that isn't going to happen any time soon......lol......I love to laugh, but have been told I don't just laugh I giggle....I'm shy at first.....But warm up quickly.....I'm intelligent....Kind....Warm... ..Gentle.....I'm a one man woman.......I never messed around in my 20 year marriage. I can get silly at times.....Both my children are grown and on their own. I love to fish. But don't get to do it that often. You'll find. I'll do something myself before I'll ask someone to do it for me. I speak my mind. Even if it hurts. I don't lie, well, maybe a couple of little ones now and then. But nothing big. It would show all over my face. I'm pretty much an honest type of person. I'm a loving, touchy, feely, type of person. I enjoy most types of music but mostly listen to blues, country, and rock. I can usually tell by your face. If you've had a bad day at work. Love to give back rubs. But I won't feed you grapes. Or fan you. Sorry. lol I 'm a football fan. I love College Football more than the NFL. I'll be your best friend, your lover. I'll watch your back when no one else will.HMMMMMMMMM.......I'm not looking for a boyfriend, I'm looking for someone to watch the sun set and rise for the rest of my life. A man who knows what he wants and not afraid to go after it. Someone who loves to fish. The outdoors type of stuff. But can also watch a movie and not fidget during it.....lol! Someone who can share the remote. lol! Someone who loves Football as much as I do. lol! A man who isn't afraid of sharing himself or his thoughts with someone. We all have drama in our lives, it's just life, but it's how we look at it and deal with it that makes all the difference. How about a cup of coffee and a nice conversation, then go from there. Everyone gets nervous and I feel that a first date should be uncomplicated and casual.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    "I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't live without each other, Love.".I am 53 and I will never be a Barbie doll. Those days are over.I have made bad choices, and I am totally an open book about my life. I'm not perfect, my children aren't perfect, but I love them and I am proud of them. I am looking for the man that sees beyond the photographs, because I don't always look like them.I wear flannel jammies or sweat pants and t-shirts to bed.I can be impatient and cranky at times.I have a gym membership I seldom use, I love fatty meat and gravy and candy, however recent health issues, and we all have them, have changed my diet drastically, and I am not happy about it. I like lots of coffee in the morning and a glass of wine at night. I'm far from perfect. I'm real.If I haven't frightened you yet... Read on...I am a masterpiece in progress. Confident and proud of who I am.I am happy with my life..and I smile most of the time. I love to laugh...I am playful and tend to be a bit...well... BOUNCY....You will be my best friend,, my "go to person", my shoulder to cry on and my strength when I am down.....and I will give you my everything... I love my family, my life, my career. I am independent but fragile. I cry when I'm happy or sad. I can be somewhat of a girlie girl. I like getting dressed up in my heels and dresses but I come home and put on my flannel Jammie's or sweats and t-shirt and curl up on the couch. There are times I have changed the tires on my car. Given the car a tune up, changed the oil, and replaced the battery. I have fixed the plumbing and hung lighting. I know how to use tools and I'm not afraid to get dirty.I don't want your "things"... I have my own.. I am not desperate, as my life is blessed in many ways....What I want is your time, your respect, your open, honest, communication, your ultimate love because I'm selfish like that....And I won't settle for anything less than butterflies..

  • Babara

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am independent yet I enjoy being in a relationship. I prefer beach vacations over snow vacations. I get through most days with a sense of humor and have the ability to laugh at myself first-that's important! I am a single mother to a wonderful 17 year old daughter and my time with her is very special. As I get older (and somewhat wiser), I realize that there is no perfect match for anyone and that compromise is the key to a successful relationship. I am confident, intelligent, honest, passionate and have a positive outlook on life. I try to get through most days with a sense of humor! Life is too short for the glass to be half empty! Meet for a drink at sunset and go from there?

  • Nancee

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hi,I looking for someone to date, get to know well, and possibly have a relationship with.!!!! I I enjoy and take pride in my home and enjoy entertaining. I love the beach and anything that has to do with the water, swimming, boating, kayaking or just sunning. I like browsing thru fleamarkets, resale stores . thrift stores , farmers markets etc. I love festivals, fairs and craft shows.I am as comfortable dressed to the nines, dining at a fine restaurant as I am mud riding my 4- love just sitting by a fire on a cool night ! I have 3 dogs (two Lhasa Apsos,and a teacup Yorkie). I like most kinds of music and enjoy most types of food. I LOVE to cook and especially enjoy cooking for holidays. I go to the gym daily and eat well and try to take good care of myself, and am interested in meeting someone who cares about themselves and is into being active and healthy!I am interested in meeting someone who knows how to treat a lady and enjoys having a good time! If I sound like someone you might be interested in getting to know , let me hear from you. If your pictures are over 5 years old, or of someone else, or taken in the mirror of a public restroom, please don't bother, Also if you are just looking for a one night stand or just someone for sex only, I am not your girl....I'm looking for something more substancial than that. I hate to sound harsh, but I am being truthful about who and what I am and I do look like my pictures and I would like the same from those who contact me! First I probably would like a "meet and greet" over coffee or a glass of wine to see if we might want to actually go on a first date. A good first date would be lunch or dinner, then some time spent walking or sitting on a park bench talking and getting to know each other's like and dislikes. If we still want to see each other more, the options are limitless, movies, concerts, live theater, home cooked dinners , weekend trips,etc!

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