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Xylia, 52

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About Me

I\'m a fun person always on the go, but I know how to relax and still have a nice time.. Always a hard worker, but play just as harder. Looking for the same person to have good time together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Talullah

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    "I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't live without each other, Love.".I am 53 and I will never be a Barbie doll. Those days are over.I have made bad choices, and I am totally an open book about my life. I'm not perfect, my children aren't perfect, but I love them and I am proud of them. I am looking for the man that sees beyond the photographs, because I don't always look like them.I wear flannel jammies or sweat pants and t-shirts to bed.I can be impatient and cranky at times.I have a gym membership I seldom use, I love fatty meat and gravy and candy, however recent health issues, and we all have them, have changed my diet drastically, and I am not happy about it. I like lots of coffee in the morning and a glass of wine at night. I'm far from perfect. I'm real.If I haven't frightened you yet... Read on...I am a masterpiece in progress. Confident and proud of who I am.I am happy with my life..and I smile most of the time. I love to laugh...I am playful and tend to be a bit...well... BOUNCY....You will be my best friend,, my "go to person", my shoulder to cry on and my strength when I am down.....and I will give you my everything... I love my family, my life, my career. I am independent but fragile. I cry when I'm happy or sad. I can be somewhat of a girlie girl. I like getting dressed up in my heels and dresses but I come home and put on my flannel Jammie's or sweats and t-shirt and curl up on the couch. There are times I have changed the tires on my car. Given the car a tune up, changed the oil, and replaced the battery. I have fixed the plumbing and hung lighting. I know how to use tools and I'm not afraid to get dirty.I don't want your "things"... I have my own.. I am not desperate, as my life is blessed in many ways....What I want is your time, your respect, your open, honest, communication, your ultimate love because I'm selfish like that....And I won't settle for anything less than butterflies..

  • Kary

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    After lots of pressure from my grown children and friends and time alone I am giving this a try.About me....I will give the "cliff notes" and if that gets your curiosity then contact me and I will share more.I am very open-minded and prefer relaxation over craziness. Looking for someone who can chill out a bit. Don't feel at this point in my life that I need lots of shallow social activities. Close, personal relationships with substance are more important.Looking for someone real and can chillax. Not interested in someone who pretends to be one thing and after the" honeymoon phase" becomes someone different. I am kind,generous and faithful in a relationship and expecting the same.I am a middle age woman which comes with rich history and a back story. I have 4 wonderful sons who are a part of my life, totally on their own and very independent of me. I definitely think outside the box but can reel it in when necessary. If you are a very Type A person I am probably not the one for you.Am open to some new adventures and experiences. I have always lived in small towns but have traveled the world vicariously through books and others stories and adventures. Just to clarify what I probably should have made clearer in my original profile:I spent 30 years raising and teaching children so if you have minor children I am not the one for you.I am not on here to run numbers or hook up.I won't be rocking stilettos,false eyelashes or gobs of makeup for you...I am a cowboy boot, clog, cute dress or feminine jeans kind of woman. Hey a girl must be prepared for adventure. I am a middle aged woman. If you want perfect you should probably look in a younger age category or seek superficial females. I don't do spray tans,botox,waxing,surgery etc. I am a real woman and age does come with a little road rash.If you are a big breast man you should probably bypass me :)I also feel that there is no expiration date on fabulous:)I do not do organized religion. I am quietly spiritual and continue to work towards my own center. I possess a rich inner life.If you don't have children or are uncomfortable around them then you probably won't enjoy spending Thanksgiving with me.I have a strong moral compass and am looking for the same.If you are or have been a cheater please bypass me.I am keeping this real and honest. I am hoping to find someone with the same intentions.Please read my profile and if there isn't enough to develop a possible relationship with then there probably won't be.Oh and .....What's on your IPOD this week?I am independent and am fine alone however, having someone special to spend time with would make my life richer and be a pleasant addition to my life.I am not "perfect" but hey I may be the perfect one for you:)

  • Nedra

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am honest, thoughtful, intelligent, generous, funny, and sensual in a down-to-earth kind of way. I have a very playful and passionate nature. I love being active - swimming, cycling, kayaking, camping - but those things are so much more fun with a companion. I'm looking for a best friend who will share in the fun of playtime as well as the occasional frustration of being a "grown-up," and who is open to growing into a permanent, mature relationship. I love music. I sing (well, I'm told) and can convince the untrained ear that I play the guitar. I have been singing and playing liturgical music most of my adult life. I listen primarily to classic rock and country but I can enjoy just about any genre at an outdoor venue. A concert under the stars is a little slice of heaven. Someday I hope to kayak out to Bear Island from the mainland. I started cycling again last summer. While I have always loved the outdoors, I have not always been this active. It has come as part of a conscious choice to be true to myself. I recently encountered this quote, which I really love:"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs...[And] if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly. " I have very mixed feelings about that. I have been teaching children with special needs for nearly thirty years. Love the job, love the kids, do not love the direction that politics and educational policy have taken in the past decade. Still not quite sure I want to be when (if?!) I grow up - so for now I'm happy to have a few more years to contemplate that. As I approach the end of my career, I find myself seeking out more challenges rather than less. I want to travel. I want to encounter other cultures, places I've never seen before. I want to use the skills that I've developed over the years in new ways. I am not young, gorgeous, or thin. I hope to find an affectionate best friend who will appreciate the sparkle in my eyes more than the wrinkles around them, and the sound of my laughter more than the measure of my thighs. I love music and the outdoors. An outdoor concert (I'll bring the picnic - we can munch and talk before and after!) sounds great, but I'm open to lots of options so long as it's public and we can talk.

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