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Talullah, 53

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About Me

"I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't live without each other, Love.".I am 53 and I will never be a Barbie doll. Those days are over.I have made bad choices, and I am totally an open book about my life. I'm not perfect, my children aren't perfect, but I love them and I am proud of them. I am looking for the man that sees beyond the photographs, because I don't always look like them.I wear flannel jammies or sweat pants and t-shirts to bed.I can be impatient and cranky at times.I have a gym membership I seldom use, I love fatty meat and gravy and candy, however recent health issues, and we all have them, have changed my diet drastically, and I am not happy about it. I like lots of coffee in the morning and a glass of wine at night. I'm far from perfect. I'm real.If I haven't frightened you yet... Read on...I am a masterpiece in progress. Confident and proud of who I am.I am happy with my life..and I smile most of the time. I love to laugh...I am playful and tend to be a bit...well... BOUNCY....You will be my best friend,, my "go to person", my shoulder to cry on and my strength when I am down.....and I will give you my everything... I love my family, my life, my career. I am independent but fragile. I cry when I'm happy or sad. I can be somewhat of a girlie girl. I like getting dressed up in my heels and dresses but I come home and put on my flannel Jammie's or sweats and t-shirt and curl up on the couch. There are times I have changed the tires on my car. Given the car a tune up, changed the oil, and replaced the battery. I have fixed the plumbing and hung lighting. I know how to use tools and I'm not afraid to get dirty.I don't want your "things"... I have my own.. I am not desperate, as my life is blessed in many ways....What I want is your time, your respect, your open, honest, communication, your ultimate love because I'm selfish like that....And I won't settle for anything less than butterflies..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lucy

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am simple, down-to-earth lady. I've worked at same job for fourteen years and believe I've been successful. I love to read, enjoy cooking and grilling!! I love a good steak with a nice bottle of wine. I've recently began cycling and enjoy it very much. I'm pretty active and am looking for the same in a partner. I love the beach and I usually vacation at one every year. I've been widowed for two years and would like to find that special guy who will be my "magic man". Looking for a stable man, both emotionally and financially. No games, no drama. A first date should be simple, either a drink or coffee so we could get to know each other and see if there is chemistry.

  • Merrill

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I enjoy cooking and baking. Hate the cold!-this is home. They have two seasons- green and brown. Most people are too stuck up or afraid to say Hi as they walk by. I like to make others feel welcomed. When out with friends, I will always invite the loner to come join the group so they do not have to drink alone. The Big Bang Theory cracks me up. Like to watch old black and white movies from the 30's-50's. I listen to rap/hip-hop and old country.Not the outdoors type. Winter is too cold and in the summer I do nothing but burn-peel-burn some more. I've never tanned in my life. Just turn different shades of red.Love joking around,laughig, pulling pranks. I don't take things too serious and neither should he. I want someone who can laugh at me, with me and himself.I like cats,dogs and horses( not to ride,just to pet their nose) Hate spiders,bats,creepy crawl things,worms,snakes. I like the quiteness of fishing but I dont like to eat fish and I wont bait my own hook! I can be on the river bank casting time and time again without a hook or bait. Just like to pretend I'm fishing. I find it calming. I know-weird right?My dislikes in food: anything green, most meats, and if it has too many ingredients I wont eat it either(up to 5 is my max), black beans look like dead flies-YUK!-the kind where the juices drip off your elbows-no lettuce-no pickle(green stuff) The first time we meet in person would be day time for coffee. If things go well, then a dinner date, drinks or a movie. I prefer a place where jeans and t-shirt are the norm. Dressing up is okay, but at the end of the day I just want to relax with a bottle of beer and catch the game on tv. Sports bars would be a great place to meet. Not into basketball but will watch it. I prefer football or baseball. I've never been to a hockey game but think it would be a lot of fun. Especially right down by the glass where all the action is.

  • Nedra

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am honest, thoughtful, intelligent, generous, funny, and sensual in a down-to-earth kind of way. I have a very playful and passionate nature. I love being active - swimming, cycling, kayaking, camping - but those things are so much more fun with a companion. I'm looking for a best friend who will share in the fun of playtime as well as the occasional frustration of being a "grown-up," and who is open to growing into a permanent, mature relationship. I love music. I sing (well, I'm told) and can convince the untrained ear that I play the guitar. I have been singing and playing liturgical music most of my adult life. I listen primarily to classic rock and country but I can enjoy just about any genre at an outdoor venue. A concert under the stars is a little slice of heaven. Someday I hope to kayak out to Bear Island from the mainland. I started cycling again last summer. While I have always loved the outdoors, I have not always been this active. It has come as part of a conscious choice to be true to myself. I recently encountered this quote, which I really love:"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs...[And] if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly. " I have very mixed feelings about that. I have been teaching children with special needs for nearly thirty years. Love the job, love the kids, do not love the direction that politics and educational policy have taken in the past decade. Still not quite sure I want to be when (if?!) I grow up - so for now I'm happy to have a few more years to contemplate that. As I approach the end of my career, I find myself seeking out more challenges rather than less. I want to travel. I want to encounter other cultures, places I've never seen before. I want to use the skills that I've developed over the years in new ways. I am not young, gorgeous, or thin. I hope to find an affectionate best friend who will appreciate the sparkle in my eyes more than the wrinkles around them, and the sound of my laughter more than the measure of my thighs. I love music and the outdoors. An outdoor concert (I'll bring the picnic - we can munch and talk before and after!) sounds great, but I'm open to lots of options so long as it's public and we can talk.

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