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Babara, 52

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About Me

I am independent yet I enjoy being in a relationship. I prefer beach vacations over snow vacations. I get through most days with a sense of humor and have the ability to laugh at myself first-that's important! I am a single mother to a wonderful 17 year old daughter and my time with her is very special. As I get older (and somewhat wiser), I realize that there is no perfect match for anyone and that compromise is the key to a successful relationship. I am confident, intelligent, honest, passionate and have a positive outlook on life. I try to get through most days with a sense of humor! Life is too short for the glass to be half empty! Meet for a drink at sunset and go from there?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Talullah

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    "I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't live without each other, Love.".I am 53 and I will never be a Barbie doll. Those days are over.I have made bad choices, and I am totally an open book about my life. I'm not perfect, my children aren't perfect, but I love them and I am proud of them. I am looking for the man that sees beyond the photographs, because I don't always look like them.I wear flannel jammies or sweat pants and t-shirts to bed.I can be impatient and cranky at times.I have a gym membership I seldom use, I love fatty meat and gravy and candy, however recent health issues, and we all have them, have changed my diet drastically, and I am not happy about it. I like lots of coffee in the morning and a glass of wine at night. I'm far from perfect. I'm real.If I haven't frightened you yet... Read on...I am a masterpiece in progress. Confident and proud of who I am.I am happy with my life..and I smile most of the time. I love to laugh...I am playful and tend to be a bit...well... BOUNCY....You will be my best friend,, my "go to person", my shoulder to cry on and my strength when I am down.....and I will give you my everything... I love my family, my life, my career. I am independent but fragile. I cry when I'm happy or sad. I can be somewhat of a girlie girl. I like getting dressed up in my heels and dresses but I come home and put on my flannel Jammie's or sweats and t-shirt and curl up on the couch. There are times I have changed the tires on my car. Given the car a tune up, changed the oil, and replaced the battery. I have fixed the plumbing and hung lighting. I know how to use tools and I'm not afraid to get dirty.I don't want your "things"... I have my own.. I am not desperate, as my life is blessed in many ways....What I want is your time, your respect, your open, honest, communication, your ultimate love because I'm selfish like that....And I won't settle for anything less than butterflies..

  • Kary

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    After lots of pressure from my grown children and friends and time alone I am giving this a try.About me....I will give the "cliff notes" and if that gets your curiosity then contact me and I will share more.I am very open-minded and prefer relaxation over craziness. Looking for someone who can chill out a bit. Don't feel at this point in my life that I need lots of shallow social activities. Close, personal relationships with substance are more important.Looking for someone real and can chillax. Not interested in someone who pretends to be one thing and after the" honeymoon phase" becomes someone different. I am kind,generous and faithful in a relationship and expecting the same.I am a middle age woman which comes with rich history and a back story. I have 4 wonderful sons who are a part of my life, totally on their own and very independent of me. I definitely think outside the box but can reel it in when necessary. If you are a very Type A person I am probably not the one for you.Am open to some new adventures and experiences. I have always lived in small towns but have traveled the world vicariously through books and others stories and adventures. Just to clarify what I probably should have made clearer in my original profile:I spent 30 years raising and teaching children so if you have minor children I am not the one for you.I am not on here to run numbers or hook up.I won't be rocking stilettos,false eyelashes or gobs of makeup for you...I am a cowboy boot, clog, cute dress or feminine jeans kind of woman. Hey a girl must be prepared for adventure. I am a middle aged woman. If you want perfect you should probably look in a younger age category or seek superficial females. I don't do spray tans,botox,waxing,surgery etc. I am a real woman and age does come with a little road rash.If you are a big breast man you should probably bypass me :)I also feel that there is no expiration date on fabulous:)I do not do organized religion. I am quietly spiritual and continue to work towards my own center. I possess a rich inner life.If you don't have children or are uncomfortable around them then you probably won't enjoy spending Thanksgiving with me.I have a strong moral compass and am looking for the same.If you are or have been a cheater please bypass me.I am keeping this real and honest. I am hoping to find someone with the same intentions.Please read my profile and if there isn't enough to develop a possible relationship with then there probably won't be.Oh and .....What's on your IPOD this week?I am independent and am fine alone however, having someone special to spend time with would make my life richer and be a pleasant addition to my life.I am not "perfect" but hey I may be the perfect one for you:)

  • Phylicia

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a 54 year old widow. Looking for her wizard.....Well I'm sure that isn't going to happen any time soon......lol......I love to laugh, but have been told I don't just laugh I giggle....I'm shy at first.....But warm up quickly.....I'm intelligent....Kind....Warm... ..Gentle.....I'm a one man woman.......I never messed around in my 20 year marriage. I can get silly at times.....Both my children are grown and on their own. I love to fish. But don't get to do it that often. You'll find. I'll do something myself before I'll ask someone to do it for me. I speak my mind. Even if it hurts. I don't lie, well, maybe a couple of little ones now and then. But nothing big. It would show all over my face. I'm pretty much an honest type of person. I'm a loving, touchy, feely, type of person. I enjoy most types of music but mostly listen to blues, country, and rock. I can usually tell by your face. If you've had a bad day at work. Love to give back rubs. But I won't feed you grapes. Or fan you. Sorry. lol I 'm a football fan. I love College Football more than the NFL. I'll be your best friend, your lover. I'll watch your back when no one else will.HMMMMMMMMM.......I'm not looking for a boyfriend, I'm looking for someone to watch the sun set and rise for the rest of my life. A man who knows what he wants and not afraid to go after it. Someone who loves to fish. The outdoors type of stuff. But can also watch a movie and not fidget during it.....lol! Someone who can share the remote. lol! Someone who loves Football as much as I do. lol! A man who isn't afraid of sharing himself or his thoughts with someone. We all have drama in our lives, it's just life, but it's how we look at it and deal with it that makes all the difference. How about a cup of coffee and a nice conversation, then go from there. Everyone gets nervous and I feel that a first date should be uncomplicated and casual.

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