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Brenda, 54

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About Me

Thanks for taking the time to read this, some men don't. I want what all women want, an honest, loving, available man to spoil me as much as I will spoil him. I have dated younger men in the past but find someone my age is better. I am looking for a WHITE male that is cut from the same cloth as I am, if you don't get that then just pass me by. I also need to say this: dating takes planning and money, so, if you don't have money to date don't, my children are grown, I want to be your friend first, then lover, in that order, but never your mommie!!!!!! If you contact me do not make the mistake of thinking you can start talking naughty, I am a lady and old school, it will not fly with me. I love the differences between men and women, sort of magic, I am a girly girl and want a man that means what he says and says what he means. I want to be taken away, weekend get aways, camping, (in a pop-up) no tent for me!!! I love fishing, especially from a boat, and I am a great cook. I want a man that needs me, don't try to impress me with your domestic skills, I want to be wined and dined, roses, candy, the whole girly thing works for me. I know your out there, I'am waiting for you to find me!!! Rescue me from dating!!! Think out of the box, a glass blowing class, dinner and a river mini curse, first dates can be magical, I am looking for laughter and a sincere man to swipe me off my feet!!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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