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Hulda, 55

United States, Arkansas, Blytheville

Offline, last seen Wed, 30 Sep 2026 01:48:46

About Me

Relationships are a dynamic commitment which require understanding, respect, honesty, humor but most of all passion. I am looking for a partner, soul mate, friend and lover who wants to share our time together laughing, sharing and experiencing all the joys and challenges of daily life together. Confident about who they are and what they want, not arrogant or insecure, and active not sedentary are all attributes I find very attractive. Intelligence and awareness of the world around us are also attractive attributes… I am not talking a PhD, rather insight over *** have nearly everything I need though what I want is an honest, passionate relationship where laughter predominates. Spontaneity is a major plus as is independence. The smile and a mischievous twinkle in your eye is what will draw me in. I would like a man who is equally comfortable with a framing hammer or a sauté pan, reasonably active, fit, down-to-earth and honest.I'm a down-to- I love writing, the outdoors, quiet moments, laughter, and the beauty of nature. I am told I am funny, intelligent, honest and somewhat unfiltered when it comes to expressing myself.I want to be clear that I look and act like I’m still 45, and still dream like I am 30! I definitely am not looking for a pen pal but a genuine person who shares a similar vision for simple pleasures, travel and mutual activities to balance our busy professional lives. I’ Life is a roadmap with many stops, detours and roadblocks but it is also filled with adventures, sights, quiet moments, intimate moments, laughs, sounds that add colour, beauty and flavour and ultimately, we do reach our destinations... Family and friends are very important to me. Things are good at the moment ... but there is one thing missing... that special someone to share Life's mysteries, wonders and treasures. There's more than enough room in my heart for that special someone. I yearn for the simple things in life, and eventually, at some point down the road, I’d love to live with the forested mountains and water as our backdrop, to be able to devote more time to writing, and enjoy a quieter, simpler pace of life but still very much active and wanting to experience shared adventures. Lastly, if you're going to send me a photo of yourself, please ensure it’s fairly recent; we all age, I get that, but I have to be able to recognize you when we meet. To say I am only attracted to physical attributes is not a fair statement but to be sure the way someone takes care of themselves says a great deal about self-respect, image and esteem. Hopefully, the above resonates with that one special someone meant for me. Thank you and Cheers :) A first date would be a continuation of, and, a willingness to get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Pop Punk French Italian Middle Eastern Martial Arts Music Sci-Fi Sport
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    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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  • Alfredia from Blytheville | Woman | 52 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a friendly, fun loving, outgoing, passionate woman. I have a true zest for life and all it has to offer. I have lived many places (all in the South) and have visited many others all over the country. Music is a true passion, and I love most of it. I love a good laugh, and find it easy to laugh at myself. Do you? Family is very important to me as I hope it would be to you. I like football, (believe it or not!), cooking, hanging out and simple things like just walking on the beach. I am a very open person and tend to be very honest. Meeting someone who can appreciate the little things in life is certainly a goal. Could you be that person? A first date could be just about anything, but I would prefer to meet you. We could meet for drinks, dinner or it could be something very simple. If you like a good listener than I'm your gal. Tell me about yourself and I'll reciprocate. Don't be afraid to be honest, tell me your likes and dislikes, that's a plus! The ability to laugh is an asset I hope we share. Movies aren't a great start to me because we can't get to know each other, although I like a good movie, especially suspense. I appreciate a man who would open the door for me and would treat me like a lady. If there's a spark between us, I think we'll both know it. Spoiling the people I care about is something I do well, will I be spoiling you? If so, when and where would you like to meet?

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  • Payton from Blytheville | Woman | 55 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Okay. Just need to say that I'm looking for a man that is dealing in the reality of himself and what he wants for today. Not what he wishes he could have had back in the day. I'm me today, looking for a man my own age dealing with the reality of what our age brings us. The good, the bad and the happily forever. I’m not so sure that writing about one’s self and then looking through photos is the best way of finding the “one”, but I do find it to be a better level above the bar scene, so here I am! And the chance of finding the “one” online has the same chance as hitting the lottery, but still we play. If for nothing else, it keeps hope alive. And as my luck would go (never having hit the lottery), my soul mate is a wee bit challenged in his pursuit of finding me. If and when he finds me, of course, that womanly cynicism goes away. LolI’m not really as impatient as it sounds. I’ve been single for 8 years after a long marriage. I don’t need someone in my life just because I may be lonely, nor do I want someone who is willing to settle just for the relief of loneliness. I work hard & do well for myself, so I’m not attracted to men who flaunt their toys or money. The treasures I look for are in the heart of the man, not in his pockets. However, being old school, I’m also not inclined to be the bread winner either. That’s such a turn off for me. Being comfortable in a balanced relationship is foundational. ( That sounds so romantic, eh? Lol)I would describe myself as a very loyal, honest, attentive woman. I’m very out-going, friendly and funny as hell. I could never take myself too seriously. My alter-ego is a comedienne. I have never met a stranger even among the hard to tolerate crowd. Children, old people, service men and women and animals are my passions. I have a gentle, giving heart and always take supreme care of those I consider mine. When I love, it’s with my whole heart and soul. When it’s right, why hold back, eh? In other words, I’m not jaded. As for what I’m attracted to in a man, it’s a crap-shoot. Lol!! Looks are not as important to me as his heart and mind. If you’re prettier than me, go get a modeling job! If you flaunt your toys and money, go get a hoe. Its easy to spot the difference between pride of effort and flaunting. He’ll need to be a quick thinker on the funny side, but not goofy. He has a heart of compassion and lots of quick witted humor. Finding joy in the little things like doing dishes together, letting me help him in his hobbies or vice versa is always a plus. He’-minded to my opinions, no matter how off they may seem to be. There’s always a possibility of that, though rare. Lol! He can respect my pride as much as I respect his ego and has no control or anger management issues. I’m terrible at training people, so he will be what he is and that will work for me. I do have a quantity of enabling in me, but there IS a limit. FYI: I take it as an insult when the first attempt at communication is based on sex or sexual in nature. I see it as very selfish behavior. Please pass me by before you try. There is such a thing as a compliment void of sexual intent. I’m better than most at sexual innuendo, but if you’re not “him”, you‘re SOL. An intellectual conversation on any subject laced with graceful humor would be a good start. As you can see by my photos, I'm not into glamor photos. I take my photos at home. I'm not one to post a photo that isn't recent. I want you to see and like it as it is today, not 20 years ago. I am what I am, so it is what it is. My hair is actually very long, red and curly. It will fall on you like gentle silk, if you're the one. It's just me, today. Like it or leave it, please. If it's not attractive to you, move on.Just a warning: if you try dragging me to a white-tie affair, I may just disappear. Not crazy about the “dressing up to have people look and drool events”. lolPS. I'm a political conservative. If you're not a conservative, you may want to rethink contacting me. My soapbox is rather high. lol! But not to inject limitations, I have a sense of the absurd, and realize that my soulmate would just happen to be a liberal. lol!!!PSS.... You must believe in God, and have at least a desire to know Him better, because His Hand is firmly on me, for better or worse. I work long weekday hours with a long commute so weekends are best for me. Drinks and nibbles at an outdoor waterside bar is appealing to me for a first meet and greet. If you take me out for huevos rancheros for brunch, ( I like to sleep in on the weekends), you may just be the "one".

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