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Macie, 54

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About Me

Ok here goes nothing :)I am at a point in my life where I am ready to have someone in my life again. My marriage ended over 3 years ago,..and the few years since I spend some seriously awesome quality time with myself, to “get to know” myself again,…I had a yard to landscape,..a new house to break in,…friends and family to re-connect with as a single gal,…and now I have done all that and realize that there is a space in my environment that is empty and needs to be filled…not as a “need” but as a “want”,…(I do enjoy alone time)I wish to find someone I can have an absolutely whirlwind romantic love affair with that will last many years to come,..as there is nothing more special than two people being together, in love, in like,… in lust,..and l wanting to be together,…the companionship,..the romance,..making love,..enjoying the time together…..I am OK with someone a little younger then myself,..as age is just a number (40ish to 50ish is fine),...I am pretty active..I waterski,..downhillski,,,dive,...go to gym 5 days a week,..walk, bike,..play in a tennis league,...( although I am not perfect physically,... Just your average amazon, with long legs LOL)... I enjoy laughing in case you are wonderingI would love to find someone who is very easy going,..someone who is a “free-ish thinker” like me,..who is open-minded to trying new experiences in life and is just open to filling life with enjoyable experiencesSomeone who enjoys a night on town as well as a night on the couch watching a movie or having great conversationLooking for someone so I will never have to go on these darn dating sites again,..LOL..don’t get me wrong,..as in today’s world one has to kind of resort to online dating sites to find a mate,..especially when one works a lot and does not want to hang out in bars by themselves,…but I have sure met a couple of... mmmmm interesting/crazy people on this site and on Match.com,… LOL..I enjoy going on holiday,..…and a few dives (as I do enjoy scuba diving,…and would love my partner to join in,…and it’s OK if you don’t,…I will just see you back on the beach when I am done hahaha but I will have to catch up to you tanning wise LOLOLI am a bit of a free thinker,..as I said before,…I believe in “Live and let live”,..all within reason ofcourse,..I don’t like anything fanatical or pushy,…I am very spiritual but not religious,..I appreciate people’s differences, as long as they are within the “norms of society”. I enjoy long conversations about life,..purpose of life,…metaphysical,…and the mystery of life in generalI would like to meet someone who like me likes a good beat,..Salsa, Jazz,..Disco,…80’s soft Rock,..anything which is enjoyable to listen to,…I also like my occasional classicals…and love listening to World music,..like Dutch tunes,..India mediationAND, am looking for someone who has integrity, class and honesty...someone who actually has enough integrity to actually write me back! I have on several occasions *** who initiated and showed interest in my profile and me... Only to have them re-review my profile and then never to hear from them again... Which is plain *** never be in any kind of relation ship with someone without integrity!I am from a rather large family (8 siblings) so my family is important and my partner will have to adapt to the many family functions etc. I moved to Okotoks to be near my family after my divorce,.. So I hope you can handle the “long” drive to Okotoks LOL as most of my friends think they need to pack an overnight bag to come and see me,…hahahah IT IS ONLY 15 minutes from Calgary,…and I drive it everyday as I work downtown. Talking about work: I am in management in oil and gas,..So if any of the above talks to your soul,…please feel free to send me a message,…let’s meet over a cup of mojo,..or something,…see where things go,…get to know eachother,...as this introduction is but a sliver of who I Meet for coffee, drinks or dinner without pressure,..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am warm a fun loving, easy going person that doesn't take life too seriously. I am friendly, perceptive, have a good sense of humor, calm, sensual, open minded, well-informed, and love to travel. I don't like to fight and do not keep score ~ raising 3 awesome boys taught me to pick my battles! I prefer to dance around life's chaos. I am *** a place in my life where I am happy and comfortable with who I am. I do not NEED a partner but desire a companion to grow old with and experience life's adventures together....whoohooo!I have grown up near water so am most at peace when near or on the water. I like getting the most out of everything I am doing. I love the outdoors -- yes I have survivied ACL Fest - 5x now! I am an avid football fan and bleed orange. I graduated from UT and enjoy the tailgates, *** If I was to win the lottery I would open up and equine therapy ranch - putting both my passions together - kids and horses. I voluntered at an Equine Therapy ranch and found it fascinating what these incredible, intuitive creatures can do for a a whole slew of mental and physical disorders.....crazy cool!!!!! :)I would like to find a partner who is comfortable and secure in himself, who believes in a Higher Power and who sees family as a priority. He would have the emotional, physical and mental strength to make good choies. Looking for a good communicator with an open mind not an open wound. I don't have a list of ingredients when it comes to who he is. The head lists the ingredients, but the heart savors the essence. I'm more of a heart person. Enjoy the journey, and best wishes to all. Someplace quiet so you can carry on a conversation to determine if there is a genuine interest to maybe go on a second, third, fourth......

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a friendly, fun loving, outgoing, passionate woman. I have a true zest for life and all it has to offer. I have lived many places (all in the South) and have visited many others all over the country. Music is a true passion, and I love most of it. I love a good laugh, and find it easy to laugh at myself. Do you? Family is very important to me as I hope it would be to you. I like football, (believe it or not!), cooking, hanging out and simple things like just walking on the beach. I am a very open person and tend to be very honest. Meeting someone who can appreciate the little things in life is certainly a goal. Could you be that person? A first date could be just about anything, but I would prefer to meet you. We could meet for drinks, dinner or it could be something very simple. If you like a good listener than I'm your gal. Tell me about yourself and I'll reciprocate. Don't be afraid to be honest, tell me your likes and dislikes, that's a plus! The ability to laugh is an asset I hope we share. Movies aren't a great start to me because we can't get to know each other, although I like a good movie, especially suspense. I appreciate a man who would open the door for me and would treat me like a lady. If there's a spark between us, I think we'll both know it. Spoiling the people I care about is something I do well, will I be spoiling you? If so, when and where would you like to meet?

  • Payton

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Okay. Just need to say that I'm looking for a man that is dealing in the reality of himself and what he wants for today. Not what he wishes he could have had back in the day. I'm me today, looking for a man my own age dealing with the reality of what our age brings us. The good, the bad and the happily forever. I’m not so sure that writing about one’s self and then looking through photos is the best way of finding the “one”, but I do find it to be a better level above the bar scene, so here I am! And the chance of finding the “one” online has the same chance as hitting the lottery, but still we play. If for nothing else, it keeps hope alive. And as my luck would go (never having hit the lottery), my soul mate is a wee bit challenged in his pursuit of finding me. If and when he finds me, of course, that womanly cynicism goes away. LolI’m not really as impatient as it sounds. I’ve been single for 8 years after a long marriage. I don’t need someone in my life just because I may be lonely, nor do I want someone who is willing to settle just for the relief of loneliness. I work hard & do well for myself, so I’m not attracted to men who flaunt their toys or money. The treasures I look for are in the heart of the man, not in his pockets. However, being old school, I’m also not inclined to be the bread winner either. That’s such a turn off for me. Being comfortable in a balanced relationship is foundational. ( That sounds so romantic, eh? Lol)I would describe myself as a very loyal, honest, attentive woman. I’m very out-going, friendly and funny as hell. I could never take myself too seriously. My alter-ego is a comedienne. I have never met a stranger even among the hard to tolerate crowd. Children, old people, service men and women and animals are my passions. I have a gentle, giving heart and always take supreme care of those I consider mine. When I love, it’s with my whole heart and soul. When it’s right, why hold back, eh? In other words, I’m not jaded. As for what I’m attracted to in a man, it’s a crap-shoot. Lol!! Looks are not as important to me as his heart and mind. If you’re prettier than me, go get a modeling job! If you flaunt your toys and money, go get a hoe. Its easy to spot the difference between pride of effort and flaunting. He’ll need to be a quick thinker on the funny side, but not goofy. He has a heart of compassion and lots of quick witted humor. Finding joy in the little things like doing dishes together, letting me help him in his hobbies or vice versa is always a plus. He’-minded to my opinions, no matter how off they may seem to be. There’s always a possibility of that, though rare. Lol! He can respect my pride as much as I respect his ego and has no control or anger management issues. I’m terrible at training people, so he will be what he is and that will work for me. I do have a quantity of enabling in me, but there IS a limit. FYI: I take it as an insult when the first attempt at communication is based on sex or sexual in nature. I see it as very selfish behavior. Please pass me by before you try. There is such a thing as a compliment void of sexual intent. I’m better than most at sexual innuendo, but if you’re not “him”, you‘re SOL. An intellectual conversation on any subject laced with graceful humor would be a good start. As you can see by my photos, I'm not into glamor photos. I take my photos at home. I'm not one to post a photo that isn't recent. I want you to see and like it as it is today, not 20 years ago. I am what I am, so it is what it is. My hair is actually very long, red and curly. It will fall on you like gentle silk, if you're the one. It's just me, today. Like it or leave it, please. If it's not attractive to you, move on.Just a warning: if you try dragging me to a white-tie affair, I may just disappear. Not crazy about the “dressing up to have people look and drool events”. lolPS. I'm a political conservative. If you're not a conservative, you may want to rethink contacting me. My soapbox is rather high. lol! But not to inject limitations, I have a sense of the absurd, and realize that my soulmate would just happen to be a liberal. lol!!!PSS.... You must believe in God, and have at least a desire to know Him better, because His Hand is firmly on me, for better or worse. I work long weekday hours with a long commute so weekends are best for me. Drinks and nibbles at an outdoor waterside bar is appealing to me for a first meet and greet. If you take me out for huevos rancheros for brunch, ( I like to sleep in on the weekends), you may just be the "one".

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