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Yolonda, 54
United States, Arkansas, Blytheville

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About Me

Looking for you for long-term, passionate and loyal relationship. You are intelligent, open-minded, independent, witty, kind, compassionate and preferably very well-read, if not college-educated. Open-minded for discussions about politics and religion. I hope you like people watching, love laughing, and have diverse interests. Good grammar and the ability to use both paragraphs and the phone when communicating help! I hate lots of texting conversations to get to know someone. I also can't believe how many "great" guys want sexting/naked pics by the 3rd contact and a quick hook-up. If that's you, get a prostitute, and go away; far, far away!!! Not trying to be shallow, but you need to be physically FIT! IF you need to lose ***lbs, you are NOT fit. We all gain a few pounds as we age and a good intellect is the most important, but still....Me--looks: 5'7", ***lbs. Size ***if that helps. Body type is somewhat more athletic than average, but that wasn't an option.; blond highlighted brunette (hair is soooo variable!!). Known for my fashion sense, high heeled shoes and my legs, so if you like the always natural type women without high heels and any makeup you won't prefer me; though I do hike, ride horses, and bike without them! Likes: I like good wine and good food, but can't get obsessed with being a "foodie". I also enjoy live music (jazz/blues/rock/singer-songwriter) most anywhere. I really like hikes and camping; love riad trips exploring small towns with antiques and a nice lunch; seeing special exhibits in museums and educational talks at the Mind Science Foundation. Sitting in front of a TV is not a preferred activity--I'd rather read or go do something physical like hiking or dancing. When I'm in a relationship I do like evenings in, cooking, with a good movie (or whatever else we think is fun without a TV)! I actually have a nice TV, so if I watch it, I see Big Bang Theory, Bones, or shows on history, science, and sci-fi; occasional (not every weekend) footballl or basketball and racing--auto and horse. The rest of me: intelligent, active, considered funny, admittedly often intense (okay, sometimes neurotic) professional woman with two careers that I really love and which fuel my passion for life. Consider myself really very blessed that way, but I do work more than I'd like. What I do triggers bizarre jokes and come-ons, though, so I don't put them here! Love children, but never had any--my careers involve other people's children. My time off has to be full of laughter and fun--I never know what my friends and I might get up to. That's one of the pics. The space, the primordial feel of the mountains and the stars were unbelievable.--amazing. Have a list of "DONTs" for you--unfortunate, but necessary: Must not be married! Must not smoke cigarettes (cigars are cool), or need a 6 pack of beer, or lots of recreational weed, etc.to "unwind" everyday. Please be fit and active. Don't have a "hater" relationship with your ex- and/or kids--life has enough drama without those fights. Not predjudiced, as I have long-time best friends from all races/ethnicities, and all walks of life that I don't want to give up. I work with about 80 PhD's so insecurity also is not a good thing. I have good long-term men friends too, but if we wanted to date we would--so jealousy is a real turn-off. (And please don't contact me to chew me out if you don't like the statements above!)Finally: I am interested in dating, but with an eye to finding a last great love, which would mean the "M" word someday. If you think you will never re-marry then you aren't right for me. Doesn't mean right this minute; we'll see how that all important chemistry (mental and physical) goes. I would like to be friends first, so please NO requests for "random acts of intimacy"--yes that includes naked pics! Really think that meeting for a simple coffee or glass of wine is best--where conversation can be heard and some sense of potential chemistry can be assessed. A first date for me--that's next, when the chemistry is obviously there. And I'm a little old school--I don't want to set up the first date--be spontaneous and surprise me is best.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    LIMITED EDITION HERE MEN....IF YOU HAVE SEEN THE MOVIE "THE NOTE BOOK" THAT'S WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IN MY LIFE...I'M LOOKING FOR A CO-AUTHOR TO OUR STORY.....if you think you might be interested then you need to know that I LIKE to wear make up and dress up but LOVE to wear cutoff sweats, hair in a BB cap and a big t-shirt of yours, with the allll naturallll look. I LIKE to wear high heals but LOVE flip flops or bare feet, I LIKE to BBQ for 20 but LOVE a dark reservation for 2..I LIKE a cold beer on a hot day but LOVE a smooth wine in a pretty glass...YOU definately need to know I LOVE COLD PIZZA FOR BREAKFAST ! ! I want the man in my life to want to share our life adventures together,...secure, and a man of his word..I'm wanting to be able to sit and talk weather good or bad.I hope we can both live up to the three "P"s... PROTECT me,where I am feeling always taken care of with him, PROFESS how he feels for me, that I'm his lady and proud of it..and PROVIDE for me in all kinds of ways, emotionally, and romance me. to treat him just as special as he makes me feel.I am passionate about the small things in life..I love it when you hold my face as you kiss me, love to be kissed on the neck,(nibble nibble) and to feel your hand on the small of my back as I enter the room in front of you...to slow dance,the only problem is I have a tendency to lead, waiting breathlessly for you to take over..If any of ME interests YOU then we have soooo much more to talk about.. We need to live THIS life, none of us is getting out of here alive.I have two boys, 19 and 23..THEY ARE THE BIGGEST BLESSINGS IN MY LIFE ALONG WITH PARENTS.. they will always be a VERY special part of my life and YES there is room for YOU right NEXT to them, so if you do not like children please pass on my profile..FAMILY IS MOST IMPORTANT, INCLUDING THE MAN IN MY LIFE.and..IF YOUR AGE BEGINS WITH A 2,I will NOTTTT respond to you, I am sorry but I have already been through the terrible twos..please be prepared to give HONESTY, LOYALTY, PASSION AND COMMUNICATION,I HAVE LEARNED TO LIVE BY THE IDEA NOT TO SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF and TO TREAT OTHERS EXACTLY HOW YOU WOULD WANT TO BE TREATED AT ALL TIMES ....I would really like to find a nice man with chemistry and date exclusively to see where we will go together. I AM NOT GOING TO DATE SEVERAL MEN AT ONE TIME. I AM DATING TO HOPEFULLY FIND A CONNECTION AND DATE EXCLUSIVELY.....IF YOU TREAT A LADY LIKE A QUEEN, SHE WILL TREAT YOU LIKE A KING, IF YOU TREAT HER LIKE A GAME...SHE WILL SHOW YOU HOW THE GAME IS PLAYED... WHATEVER WE WANT TO DO!. WARNING.*******WARNING*******WARNING***** WARNING*****WARNING********WARNING*********I AM VOLUPTUOUS,FULL FIGURED,VERY CURVY.....PLUMP....HAV AN AZZZ....THICK.......HOW EVER YOU WANT TO SEE MY FEW EXTRA POUNDS....JUST NOT A BARBIE HERE........IF YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO THIS STYLE OR SHAPE PLEASE PASS ON ME...BEING HONEST HERE SO IN NO WAY CAN YOU ASK ME OUT AND YOU THINK...DAM I DIDNT KNOW SHE WAS FULL FIGURED...LOL..I AM A WORK IN PROGRESS AND WHEN I GET THERE.....HMMMM WATCH OUT LOIUPDATE:* * * I feel I am really a very understanding lady. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt but if you are still married...or keep inviting your ex wife to move back in with you... or if you still think you need to have sex with your ex wife while trying to date me....plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz move on. THIS IS NOTHING THAT I WANT TO BE A PART OF.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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