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Valeri, 51

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Gonna give this another try.My brutally honest profile. I am a smoker. It's an addiction. If it weren't we would all be non-smokers. I don't smoke indoors or around non-smokers. If you don't smoke I won't smoke around you, but I may occassionally walk away to smoke depending on where we're at and what we're doing. Just being brutally honest. I will quit some day but it'll be when I'm ready.Family and friends are very important to me. I have 3 kids but only one lives at home. She's 17 and nothing in this world matters more to me than she does. I love hanging with family and friends.Summer is my favorite time of the year. I love rollerblading and usually go out for at least an hour a night. No, that's not how I broke my leg. Anywhere near water, boating, fests, bbqs, walks in the city, picnics, miniature golf, shooting ranges, motorcycle rides, outdoor cafes, bonfires. Some of my favorite things are laughter, great kisses, hugs, holding hands, romance and romantic dinners, sushi, all seafood, a good steak, honesty and sincerity, thunderstorms.Things I don't like. Cold weather, Packers (but I love the Bears/Packers rivalry), rude or crabby people, game players, liars, cheaters, egotistical and materialistic people, fishing (but I'll pack your car for your fishing trip), drugs, no sense of humor - mine's really dry and sarcastic but not rude.Favorite music. Anything but rap, opera, headache causing heavy metal. Big Elvis/Sinatra fan.I would describe myself as loving, caring, giving, honest, loyal, faithful, dependable, spontaneous, affectionate, happy. I suck at golf and darts, but love to play. I love being in love and really do miss having someone to share my life with. I'm straight forward, always say whats on my mind. Sometimes that gets me in trouble.I'm looking for these same traits in a man. You're an amazing kisser and you have to have a great sense of humor. And you're definitely NOT a Ken Doll! GI Joe is good, GQ is not. And I'm definitely not interested if most or all your pics are without a shirt on (very superficial), or you're wearing sunglasses in every pick. Just saying.You've probably figured by now that I don't hold back. I say what's on my mind, don't believe in BS. I'm one of the most genuine people you'll ever know. I don't play games and refuse to be around people that do. If you're materialistic and your life is defined by what you own, move on. I believe in love at first sight. I do not believe in long distance relationships. If you're more than an hour away, we will not work.One more thing...I've tried the polite "no thank you" and "I don't think we're a good match" to messages I've received from men that I'm not interested but apparently there are a lot of men that don't take rejection very well and like sending back **** off replies. So I've decided not to respond at all. Not being a ****, I'm just not interested. Meet for drinks, a picnic in the park, miniature golf, horseback riding, or just going for a walk getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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