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About Me

I'm a fun, thoughtful, hardworking, confident, and independant woman. I'm impressed by strength, kindness, and wit. How I describe myself might vary from what others would say (I can provide references upon request - I believe I have a sort of shy confidence. I've been described as "the girl next door" (I'm still trying to figure out what exactly that means)It reallly isn't complicated. I would like to meet someone because we both initially saw something that made us smile and become curious. Then spend time learning more about each other, experiencing new things and sharing what we already know we love. My life is fairly drama-free and I'd really like to keep it that way. But, I'm a great listener and usually the one my friends come to when drama does impact their lives. I'm open to excitement and spontaneity. Some of my best memories have been the result of last minute plans and events I really wasn't looking forward to attending. Exercise is a huge part of my life and keeps me balanced and happy. My workout of choice is indoor biking. I've been at it for more than 10 years. I was in one of the first classes offered in this area and have been hooked ever since. Short and sweet! (... first meeting for a cup of coffee or glass of wine to see if there's further interest). The dates that follow are what I look forward to ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-37

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  • Maryjo

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a woman, a mother, and successful career professional who is in love with life, the warmth of the sun on my skin, and the beauty of nature. I maxed out my retirement at my job with 34 years of creditable service and I retired as of July 1, ***. While I do think I can adjust to this new lifestyle, I expect it to be temporary and do intend to return to work until my youngest son is through college. For now I'm decompressing, having some fun, doing some house projects (yes, I'm quite handy for a lady) and eventually I'll seek employment again. I'm not a lady who sits idle, so for me busy is good and my guy needs to be able to keep up the pace.I thrive on soaking up the sun, love digging in the dirt to see what flowers I can grow or landscaping project I can undertake. I enjoy live music, sports, almost anything that takes me outside, arts, traveling, family time, fine dining, casual entertaining, the beach and the mountains. The beach recharges me and time at my mountain house provides down time, fresh air and is always a nice weekend get away. In ***I was introduced to the fun of couples dancing and came to enjoy East & West Coast Swing, and a few other dances. If you enjoy couples dancing, you get bonus points and if you love swing, then double points for you, as I really do want to dance regularly again.Having lost loved ones, I know how fragile life can be. I value life, family, honesty, health. I try to be positive, make the most of each moment, eat healthy, exercise and work hard at everything I do. I made the switch to a vegetarian diet June ***. I value both organic and vegan diets, but am far from those diets at this point. I have no expectations of a vegetarian partner, but I do want a partner who will encourage me to exercise as I continue my journey to a healthier lifestyle. I work hard to remain at my ideal weight, am far from perfect and don't seek perfection, but I'm not attracted to men who are over weight. Therefore, I seek a slim, toned or athletic individual, not someone significantly over weight.I am emotionally and financially stable, so I don't "need" but do "want" a relationship. The quality man I seek should be of similar age, and understand that with a 17 year old son, I am first a mom. While dating, I hope to meet someone with whom I can eventually build a trusting relationship with a view toward an eventual long term exclusive relationship. That having been said, I seek a man who is happy, makes me laugh, values nutrition, health, shares values, pleasures, respects me and is a true gentleman. I want my partner to know how to dress when we go out, to know and use manners, open doors for me and his reassuring arm on me should give me that, "I am his his lady" feeling. Don't be mistaken, he should have enough bad boy in him to cause me to smile and shake my head in amazement at times. A beginning with physical attraction, common interests, friendship, laughter, respect and trust should be a great foundation for a solid friendship and potential relationship. My children include a married daughter, a son age 21 and a son age 17, who have always been the center of my world. My daughter graduated college, works and gave our family a beautiful child Nov ***. My oldest son is a Senior at UGA this fall (Go Dawgs!) and my youngest son is a Junior in high school. As I reflect, their childhood days have passed at lightening speed. I'm enjoying the last couple of years with a son still home, yet beginning to consider and embrace the many transitions ahead, this new phase of life....retirement, returning to the work force for a second but brief career, and the youngest son eventually leaving the nest.I am a woman with many skills,enjoy order, a well maintained yard and home. I'm comfortable in jeans/shorts and a "T", but also have an assortment of little black dresses, heels and jewelry to dress up and join you on the town. I love concerts, dancing, live music, or a quiet evening at home with my man sharing a beer by the pool or a bottle of wine as we make dinner. I want to meet my new best friend, and eventual long term partner. We are not all going to have that essential chemistry or be partners, but I will try to respond to those who contact me, for everyone deserves words and acknowledgement.I never planned to grow old alone and I still don't; However, I won't settle, so this search seems to be long and ongoing. Thanks for reading my profile. God's speed on your journey and may good health and happiness be abundant in your life as we each search for that one person who may become our life partner. "It is a funny thing about life; if you refuse to accept anything but the best you very often get it". ~W. A coffee shop in the morning, a restaurant for lunch, an appetizer, a beer, a glass of wine, dinner, a frozen yogurt or a walk in the park. Anything goes as long as it affords both the opportunity to determine if we each wish to spend additional time together. Following us meeting, if we wish to see one another again, a first date could be anything we mutually decide. Surprise me and make a suggestion!

  • Emilia

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am an attractive woman with a love for the quieter things in life. I enjoy road trips, traveling (traveled the world but would now like a partner to share that with); I love to go on road trips and explore back side towns. I like the water, the snow (although I no longer ski), and having a lovely drink and appie by the water. I've had a very interesting life, having written a book, traveled the world, and enjoyed a wonderful career. I'm not rich but I can take care of myself financially and have no debts. I work my own hours and in my spare time I love to nest at home;*sob*). I am afraid of large dogs...and allergic to fur. My girl is a Malitpoo and has hair.I do love to relax by watching movies and television. I love to go out with my girlfriends and sing along at Karaoke (can't sing, just love to do it anyway). I also enjoy playing cards and some boardgames. My music preference is oldies, and oldie country. I also love Cuban music and the blues. Comedy clubs are the best place to enjoy an evening! I have a very small family but enough friends to keep me happy. I am not desperate to find Mr. Right...but would love to find a partner who shares some of my interests (although I sure don't need a duplicate me!). I've been told I am quirky (and I have my quirks!), have a great sense of humor, and am passionate about some social issues.I will close by saying that I hope to meet an honest, financially secure person, who carries no baggage from previous relationships. I am a believer in moving forward and it would be so nice to do so with someone who shares similar values.Thanks for reading my profile! I'm looking forward too hearing from you! Don't be shy! Meet for drinks or coffee and take it from there!

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