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Xochitl, 35

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Finding a healthy relationship is like trying to nail jello to a tree........ hi there, thanks for checking out my profile :) I believe its difficult to explain the kind of person you are with a few words and some pictures, so i'm going to be honest about who I am, i have as many faults as I do unique quality's ! I am a independent, confident woman. Im not looking to be fixed or saved, i have an amazing career and absolutly love what I do. I value mutual respect, honesty and communication. I am assertive and open to everyones ideas, opinions, beliefs and values. I love to laugh and have fun, but i also love cooking a meal and watching movies. I dont have a problem holding a conversation and love a good debate. I have an 18 year old daughter in college who means everything to me....yes i was very young when I had her :) i am a pretty patient and positive person, however I do have my moments of negativity, Im not perfect lol so here is a short list of things I think you should knowIm not a girly girli dont value money over happinessI have a really loud laughi love breakfast for dinneri eat in bedconverse are my favorite shoesi am secure...but i have felt insecurei dont judge...but i have judgedim incapable of bullshiti am a horrible liarpj's are my favorite outfitsi love my *** collect shoes or pursesi have ALOT of tattoo'si can be opinionatedi am a giver not a takeri am not jelous....but i have beeni am strong...but sometimes weakim to sensative at timesim kind of a nerdi collect decrotive boxes.i listen to alanis morisettei HATE DRAMA, if you have serious problems from past relationships,that effect your current relationships please move on :) i am assertive...but can be aggressive i never quit anything i startI'll leave it at this for now, if you have questions feel free to ask.My favorite quote: Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, only what is good for building others up,according to there needs...that it may benefit those who listen !One of the most profound statements I have ever heard : " I will love myself despite the ease in which I feel the opposite !!!PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU DO DRUGS...INCLUDING MARIJUANA !!! :)happy fishinggood luck ;) anything we want

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    No one should 'settle' just for the sake of not being alone, no matter how long it takes to find your significant other. I do believe there is someone out there for each and every one of us so don't give up. Things take time, and time is all we have.I think of myself as a simple minded girl. It took a long time to get this way but I do appreciate all the lessons endured while getting to this point in my life.I like to have fun. Who doesn't?With that being said... Good luck to ya. Let's chat first to see if a date is in order...

  • Gaylene

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I've been on here before, and each time I get tired of the messages I receive. I'm sure you guys can relate too....I've heard stories. :) This time, I'll stay until I'm sure I've found someone worth keeping. I'm an all in kind of person. Casual dating isn't my style. I know what I want out of life, and expect a partner to be the same way. Don't say you want a relationship if you're afraid of commitment. Don't say you want something casual and then ask for forever. It's pretty much that simple.Single mom of three boys, ages 12, 6 and 4. (common question, so figured I'd just post the answer). I do work full time, but my hours vary between day and night shift, so it's not always super easy to find a night to go out, but I do make the effort for the right person.My musical taste is all over the map, and I'm always open to suggestions on new or favorite artists. Not a big fan of rap though.When I'm not at work, I'm usually outside doing something. I like to stay active by biking, walking, camping, fishing, swimming, etc.No kids and no work...I'm headed out with friends for a couple of drinks. Anything can be a perfect first date as long as you both walk away smiling, right?

  • Junita

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Hello and thanks for your interest in reading my profile. I believe my self to be a beautiful, caring, smart,responsible, and fun loving woman. I am 31 yrs old have two boys that i am raising on my own and work full time. What i am looking for is fairly simple. I want someone who like me is attractive caringsmart and hard working Someone who knows how to have fun but also understands the restrictions of parenthood and that i can not nor do i want to party or go to bars all the time. I am more of a beers bonfires and good friends kind of girl these days. My life is busy with kids and work but i have time for the right guy. What i dont have time for is drama or BS from anyone. So if this sounds like you and you want to take sone time and get to know each other send me a message. "There are two basic motivating forces; fear and love. When we are in affraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open our to all life has to offer with passion excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we can not love ourselves, we can not fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life" -- Not interested right away so well figure it out if we make it that far.

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