Total users: 61,702,043 Online users: 222,128
Rubye, 35

Online

About Me

I used to have a typical profile saying what I thought was interesting about me... but after being on here for a little while I felt an update was needed. Not for nothing, I honestly think this whole process is kind of like the 10th level of hell. It can be fun, but for the most part it is filled with a lot of frustration and disappointment. Don't agree or believe me? Think I'm too cynical? Oh honey... the stories I can tell. Here's the goods: I wear a lot of different hats: I work for big Pharma by day and I teach yoga at night. I am also the executive producer of a podcast and a survivor ambassador for the American Heart Association. Yeah I lead a pretty full and busy life and I am looking for someone who respects that. My podcast is a live show, filmed in front of an audience. I also do a lot of promotion work for local bands and venues. That being said, I have a very strong personality and I talk to a lot of different people. The person who I am with should respect that and not be up my skirt because I'm talking to a band or bar patron. It's part of my job. A lot of folks will see that and say to themselves "oh I'm not that type of person. I respect that and won't get jealous" but it does happen, which is why I have to say it. A lot of men can't handle their girl being able to deal with other men giving them attention, and I understand that.... but I am not going to be with someone who can't handle that. I'm not the type of gal who sits in the corner and waits for her man to get me a drink. I'm brash, outgoing, in your face and a whole lotta fun. If you are looking for someone to be two steps behind you and wait for you to do everything, I am not your gal. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate (and expect) some chivalry, but there has to be a balance. Other things about me:I love music and supporting local musicians. You can usually see me at a good rock show but also like to get down at EDM shows or chilling in a coffee shop. I never thought I would say this but I run... albeit it not very quickly, but I am training for and running 5Ks... and I am actually enjoying it. Go figure! I'm a fan girl and have been to SDCC twice. I used to collect vinyl figures, but I haven't as much because my budget just doesn't allow for it anymore. (BOO!) I've been out of the comic book thing for awhile admittedly and am behind on my movies... so there is that. All that being said, the bottom line is I'm looking for someone who likes to have fun and actually *does* things... You don't have to run marathons, but being with someone that is active is a plus. Going to live shows and being able to hang out is a big deal as well. Just be cool and leave your drama at the door. :)Full disclosure, if you don't have a profile pic and/or write me in "text speak" the chances of me getting back to you are very slim. Also, if you are going to reach out to me, please be more creative than just "hi." It's always nice to see that someone *actually* read my profile and wants to hear more about me. Last thing... I hate the "online now" notification, because, in reality, I'm probably not. I access this site through multiple devices which keep me logged in. So, if I don't get back to you right away, it's because I simply have not gotten an opportunity yet. :)Happy fishing. Something chill. Coffee, drinks... some place where we can actually speak.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Lakiesha

    Online

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a genuine,intelligent, passionate and fun type of woman. One minute I will be rocking a flannel and jeans and the next I'll be in a dress. I have an affinity for the outdoors. In the summertime you will find me on a beach reading a book or playing around in the water. I have been told that my childlike exuberance is refreshing. I get along well with most people and am pretty easy going. Message me, I love to chat.You: Be fun, educated, passionate about something. Preferably tall. Overall, you must be someone who is open,has a good heart and has tangible goals in life. Meet up at a cafe and behave as if we just met there . :) We can play it by ear

  • Sammie

    Online

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    .. Who and what I am about - I'm honest sometimes a bit too honest I'm loyal fun caring I am who I say I am I'm not a fake ... I tend to live life to the fullest cause u only live once .... Right ...I'm tired of lies games cheaters fakes and game playing users so if any if that is u then don't message me cause I will call u out and take off I want someone I can trust someone I can talk to love have fun with some one who will accept me for who I am. And love my son cause we are a package deal ! I'm a huge snuggler and hate to b alone ... I keep it real and that's what I expect back So there ur is if ur interested message me I'm not going to trade pics u can see my pics in my profile I don't want meaningless s*x or a one night stand And I'm not going to face time or *** looking for the real deal so if u are down lets meet up and c what happens :) Idk something fun different depending on our likes we will talk about it :) when it comes to that

  • Bailie

    Online

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am an outgoing person with a great job, my own place... I love to go out and have fun and meet new ppl and try new things. I love spending time with my nieces and nephews who keep me going. I'm all about going to the beach and having fun it going to the race track and watching the cars or just staying home and relaxing. I was around the fire company for almost 7 years and it still holds my interest and I'm ready to get back into it. I just recently moved back to Md after living in De for almost 7 years. I enjoy spending time with my family who means alot to me and my close friends who are also important to me and have had my back though alot. I'm up for trying anything new. I'm an affectionate person who tends to wear her heart on her sleeve and that can sometimes get me in trouble. Just looking for a good guy who likes to be treated good and to treat their woman good in return. I have tattoos so if you think they are trashy then keep moving but I love them and they all mean something to me and I think guys with tattoos are HOT!!! Just sayin....

Follow Us: