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Merla, 35
United States, Alabama, Sylacauga

Offline, last seen Tue, 17 Mar 2026 01:42:59

About Me

I Am HONEST FEMALE LOOKING FOR A MAN THAT I CAN SHARE MY NEW LIFE WITH . I HAVE ALOT OF GOALS SET FOR MYSELF AND I'M WILLING TO LET A MAN EMBRACE THAT WITH ME . I HAVE A DAUGHTER THAT'S COMES BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE THOUGH, SHE IS WHAT MAKES ME GET UP IN THE MORNING AND GET THROUGH MY DAYS.I AM OPEN AND HONEST AND WILLING TO TRY NEW THINGS. I DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME TO ADD A MAN INTO MY LIFE CAUSE I WORK TWO JOBS, BUT IF I MEET THE RIGHT ONE I WILL MAKE TIME FOR HIM. I DO NOT WANT ANY MORE CHILDREN AT THIS TIME AND MY DAUGHTER IS UPSET, BUT ITS TIME FOR ME TO START LIVING MY LIFE. I WENT THROUGH A RUFF MARRIAGE AND I DIVORCED HIM IN FEB AND BEEN SEPARATED FOR TWO YEARS WITHOUT DATING AND NOT BY CHOICE, I LOST EVERYTHING SO I WORK HARD TO GET EVERYTHING BACK ON TRACK AND WOULD LIKE A MAN TO ENDURE THESE THINGS WITH ME SO THAT WE CAN ACHIEVE GOALS TOGETHER AND MAKE A GUD LIFE FOR BOTH OF US. I'M WILLING TO LEARN AND ACCEPT THINGS ABOUT THAT PERSON I DONT AGREE WITH CAUSE IM SURE THERE ARE THINGS THAT PERSON WONT LIKE ABOUT ME CAUSE I LIKE TO RUN THINGS LOL LOL. i LIKE R&B MUSIC AND SLOW JAMS AND A LITTLE RAP!!! I LIKE SPENDING TIME WITH MY FRIEND OR MAN DOING CANDLE LIGHT DINNERS , WATCHING MOVIES AT HOME CUDDLEING ON THE COUCH , OR COOKING DINNER FOR EACH OTHER SOUTHERN FOOD ALL THE WAY BABY!! SWIMMING IN THE POOL, GOING TO THE MOVIES AND BOWLING.!!!!!!!! UPDATE AS OF ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! do not try to holler at me if you are in a relationship but you're having disagreements or are split up if you are f***** married or you're searching area codes because you're in town on business trying to find A F buddy I am NOT the one I am NOT looking for none of those above so warning I find out everything so if you want to lie because you're just trying to get your stuff wet i will destroy you so remember that when you're trying to play games with females that are trying to be serious on a website tired of the little kids s*** . I just want to meet somebody that I can go out with and have a good time I haven't been out no where really in a very long time. My first date would be dinner and then a movie. Then maybe go somewhere for a drink, and end it with a kiss. IT WOULD BE A DECISON WE MAKE TOGETHER REALLY ITS SOMETHING THAT WE BOTH AGREE ON

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Crime Martial Arts Golf
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