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Abegayle, 33
United States, Alabama, Spanish Fort

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About Me

Okay, so yes I do know what I want and its nothing so far fetched that its laugh worthy or rediculous. I want what most do, a best friend with that spark. Someone who will do the rail trail with me or a farmers market or outdoor concerts in the park. I'm pretty independent, a big goal was to purchase my own home and I accomplished that several years ago. Even through the independence, its still nice to have someone to come home to or do nothing with and still enjoy that time. I just can't settle for someone good enough and since I've waited this long I don't see myself giving in. I don't have a specific physical type that I'm attracted to, its more of an emotional connection that I go for. That and intelligence, I need someone educated to debate current events and beliefs with. I'm not the skinniest or hottest chick around and I'm not looking for that in a man either. I'm way more interested in the substance a man has, confidence and a sarcastic sense of humor is very attractive to me. I'm ready for a relationship and am past the whole casual option.. I want someone emotionally available, someone who is ready for a real, live relationship. We've all been hurt in the past but its molded us into the people we are now. I lead a happy and drama free life, I've got great friends and will find humor in almost any situation. Is it too much to expect that someone out there is normal, educated, attractive, tall & wants more than a casual fling? I'd love to be proven wrong! drinks :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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