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Ricarda, 31
United States, Alabama, Slocomb

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About Me

On each step of my journey, through each mistake and every success, I learn more about who I am and what I want. Now that I am 31, now that I have gotten to know and love myself, now that I am no longer afraid to be who I am despite what everyone thinks I should be, I am ready.I am a mother of 2. I work second shift in a call center. I write poetry, I read a lot of spiritual "self-help" I am fascinated by quantum physics, the law of attraction, aligning with the Tao, pursuing a peaceful path.-- I am studying the Tao, but incorporate beliefs and practices of Buddhism, Hinduism, and Paganism into the individual tapestry I have woven for myself. I love all kinds of music, anything that touches my soul.;I don't watch TV shows, but I do enjoy documentaries, indie films, horror movies (psychological thrillers, not gross gory zombie or chainsaw movies) and comedies. I am a Gemini and I definitely fit the profile. I am a vegetarian.I don't know what label to put on myself. I feel like whatever category I put myself in, someone is going to argue that I don't belong there. I considered myself bisexual forever and honestly even after I realized I was never going to "find the right man" who could make me feel like a woman could, I kept trying. I told myself I could marry my best friend and it would be "good enough" and I was wrong. Twice. I know I want to be with a woman. A SINGLE woman -- I don't want to be your good time on the side. I don't want to be a third to a married couple. Obviously the perfect first date will depend on the girl, our connection, and our mutual interests.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop
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