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Chanelle, 35
United States, Alabama, Saraland

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About Me

Show me a man with a tattoo and I'll show you a man with an interesting past. ~Jack LondonI will get straight to the point... I am a 30 something single mother, if this is an issue for you please take your cue now and run....My feelings won't be hurt, if you can't accept the whole deal I have no use for you in my life.However I am not looking for an *** "just add water." If you can't figure out I am interested in dating you not you dating my children along with me then shame on you. I am very selective about who they meet and when so it will be a long time before I will allow you to interact with them at all. Those of you still left reading, here is a bit about me. I am a young and vivacious woman always looking for new ways to be inspired and reach my life goals. I am open minded, as I have found most things that make me happy in life come outside the box of what society thinks happiness should be. Honesty is huge with me... you will always get a truthful answer from me, just be sure you really want to hear the answer. To be fair I should add what it is I am looking for so I am not wasting your time and your not wasting mine. As stated above honesty is a must!! I like to be around people who are intellectually stimulating, there is nothing better than having someone you can have a good conversations with but not to the point where it feels like your speaking to a "know it all". Big words don't make you smart they just make you sound wordy. I have quite the twisted since of humor and love sarcasm. I am not high maintenance or into superficial attributes and possessions, I expect you not to be as well. I am not hung up on what you may look like and I don't have a "type" I am looking for. A quality person is just that dispute what package they come in. I am looking for someone who is goal oriented and can find a balance between career and personal time. There is no sense in working hard if you don't take the time to reap the rewards. It does not matter what kind of job you have, as long as your job requirements don't include cheating, stealing or lying to make a buck on the job. I am secure in who I am and where I am in life. I own my own home and I defiantly do not want to be someones "Princess"!! I am not a grily girl and tend to be "one of they guys" I would much rather be living my life than sitting in a salon for 3 hours talking about the latest episode of Oprah. I don't have any fairy tale notions that I can fix you, change you, compete you or wish you into being someone your not.... and I will not even attempt to try..... and I expect the same courtesy. I realize my personality isn't for everyone... to each their own. I am looking for companionship with someone who is able to match wits, personality, humor and most importantly HEART!! Hope to be meeting some awesome people soon Tattoos, Piercings and Body Modification welcome!!Updated: I thought I would add a few things that may be deal breakers for the sake of cutting back wasted time.1st "non-religious" Means just that I have no religions convictions at all, none, nada, I am also not looking to be saved. My morals are perfectly intact, I just don't feel like I need religion to be a good person. 2nd if your going to send me crap saying "I'd f*ck you" please have the balls to put your face to the profile.... or better yet don't send it at all. Its really pretty lame!!! lol) if your going to respond please take the time to put at least a little thought into it!! I realize the bottom line is sex and what is the least amount effort to get to it... men will be men but really we all know its about the chase.4th Please don't be racist, sexist or homophobic... it really shows a lack of intelligence!!! I prefer progressive thinkers I mean it is ***get with the program!!5th If you aren't falling out of your chair laughing by the time you get to this you don't have a scene of humor!!! Lighten up life isn't meant to be that serious!!6th there is no such thing as no drama/drama fee its a myth!! Its all in ones ability to handle it in a mature and productive way. 7th I don't have time for bullsh*t and you will be promptly dismissed if you start serving it up. 8th If you can't handle blunt honesty I am not for you.... 9th I am not as hard as I sound, I am quite affectionate and loving but I don't freely pass it out to those that don't deserve it. 10th I am a political junkie.... you don't have to be but it helps. If you prefer skank over substance keep looking...... *** Anything but a movie date... Its the worst way to try to get to know someone!!Is it just me or is this a stupid question?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Techno Caribbean Mystery
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