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Alys, 35

United States, Alabama, Prattville

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UPDATE ***I thought that it was time to elaborate a bit on this profile. Given meetville has potential, but it seems sometimes its better to spell a few things out. I have been single for some time now. Not because I had to be, because I chose to be. I didn't think that I was emotionally ready to start something and I believe if more people really sat down and thought rationally about it, they would have done the same thing. I am ready to start a new chapter in my life. Ready to find a good man to share it with. Good bad.. the whole nine. The thing is that I am not perfect. Are you perfect? Because I'm not and I am proud of it. My life would have been extremely boring and I would not have learned anything if I was. I am real, no doubt about it. There are many more good things about me then bad any day.-->Special Requests, Turn offs and Definite No No'sI'm going to read your profile and check out your photos. Please do the same with mine. If you're serious about this, you should. It will save us both a ton of time. I'll just state up front a few things. If you're married or separated, no offense but please keep going. I will see this on your profile and go on. I want someone that is ready for a relationship. I do not want to deal with crazy ex's or even entertain the idea of being with you when you possibly are not over your last relationship. If you don't have a photo on your profile then include one with your message. I am being totally up front and honest. It's not too much for me to expect the same. If you're serious about meeting someone then you would want to be as well I believe. It you're a control freak, keep skipping along. I'm not going to control you, don't even think about doing it to me. -->Children etc.I have two daughters. One is 18, the other is 8. I have full custody of both my children. My youngest does not see her dad by his choice so I am numero uno with her and you must respect that. I have no problem if you have children. I love kids and will spoil the hell out of them every chance I get. I believe in family. The entire concept of family. Sometimes blood doesn't matter if someone is close enough to you. My family comes first with no exception. However, I do not want any more children of my own. With my back, I don't think its a good idea. Who wants to be huge and pregnant waddling around with back problems.. Nope not me...lol. With my children, well don't expect to meet them until I believe its a good time. I don't take my kids around a bunch of different men. Kids are confused enough growing up..lol-->Turn On's, Must haves etc.Oh boy.. here we go. Well I'm not going to throw it all out there but I'll give you some info here. First off, I want someone fun. Someone that can crack up and laugh at anything if they feel like it. Life's too short to not laugh. Next, you have to be comfortable showing your emotions at least enough to communicate. Do I want you sitting next to me watching a chic flick.. HELL NO.. I don't even do that. Do I want to know how you feel, what you like or don't like.. you bet. Because I'm going to remember and pay attention to that. Are you a sexual person? As an adult you should be able to talk about it, communicate about it and enjoy it. If not.. sweetheart I'm not for you. Am I saying hey hit me up so we can hook up.. Nope.. sure not. --> I am not your Barbie.Flat out I am not thin, not ***lbs either, but I hold my own sir. Curves are placed in the appropriate places I assure you since I am a taller woman. I have the ability to look sexy as hell if I feel like it. I am telling you this so you know from the get go. Guys like different things.. some fairly mainstream.. some not. Same goes with women. Why am I not thin? I had back surgery when I was 23 from working my tail off taking care of my family with no help and I have dealt with pain since then. The days of playing tennis and constantly being physically active.. well unfortunately they are over yet I am doing what I can to be healthy, not perfect. I can still do MANY things, just sometimes have to be careful. Can still ride motorcycles, swim, and I am as active as I can be etc. Can you laugh at yourself? What about Values, Morally speaking...I have a wicked sense of humor and I'll give it right back to you if you dish it out..lol!! I do the best I can and I was raised right--meaning I don't cheat, I don't lie, I don't date fifteen people at once and I am respectful. I'm a good woman and take care of my family.If you made it this far.. you must be interested..lol.I know there are a LOT of words in this profile. You're probably sick as hell of reading by now huh? I'm just trying to do my best to be as honest as I can because I am serious about this. There are too many people on here just looking for a one night stand or a little something extra here and there outside of their current relationship. I'm not that person. I have so much to give the right man. Such a big heart that is just looking forward to showing a good strong and decent man I care. If you send me a message and would sincerely like to get to know me, please include the word Denise so that I know you took the time to completely read this profile. I'll know you're as serious as I am. I will answer whatever questions you may have as long as they are within reason and respectful. If you ask me a generic what I am looking for, or "tell me more about you" I probably won't answer you because I believe I have spelled it out pretty clear..lol.If you think you can catch me.. let's see what you can do.. Its going to take someone genuine this round. ;***Christyl Somewhere to have fun and get to know each other. How cliche is that huh?? Hell I don't know.. I'm tired of typing.. haha!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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