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Shakira, 33

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About Me

"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and life to everything-;Hmm..I really hate this part so I will try to keep it short and sweet. I am not racist at all, but I do not date outside my race. Just a personal preference. I am not here for sex or a booty call, so if that's what your looking for move on to the next page. Not looking for someone with a GF cause I will eventually find out so lets skip the drama up front! So if you think you are gonna talk to me just to get in my pants, you are sadly mistaken. Just looking for somebody to get to know. Maybe chat or talk, meet for a drink. Nothing major. I want that chick flick kinda love :) I'm a 33 yr old BBW. Tired of all these guys that are after stick thin women with no personality. Yes I have some meat on my bones, maybe more than you like but I have a heart of gold and would do anything for anybody. I've been told I'm a sweet, caring and an all around nice girl. I'm a really big Romantic type too. I do like to take thing slow at first because I'm pretty shy. Honestly I really just wanna be friends at first. and hopefully it would grow into a relationship. I want a serious relationship. Nothing casual or shallow. I've been led on a lot in the past and had my heart broken several times. I'm a nice girl, and Nice girls finish last. Prove that wrong for me. I'm pretty laid back and easy going. I love trying new things. I'm always up for an adventure, (I've had a few spur of the moment road trips also). Whatever sounds good at the moment, I'm up for it! I definitely enjoy the outdoors (ocean and mountains)and I'm looking forward to the beach season lol! I am 5'6ish and prefer a man who is taller than me. Tattoos and piercings are a plus, but not a necessity. What I want is someone who is honest, respectful, loyal, intelligent,trustworthy and humorous. Someone who can carry an intellectual conversation and who can laugh at himself at times. Someone who accepts me for who I am regardless of my flaws. I am stubborn, selfish at times and I enjoy getting attention. I prefer men between the ages of ***, no offense to men outside of this range it is just my personal preference. I am looking for a long term relationship but want it to start out as friends first and see where it goes from there, no head games, completely monogamous and faithful. No booty calls, Friends with benefits or one nighters wanted. Anything else you want to know just ask..I won't bite. I do have quite a few tattoos, 6 to be exact (if you want to know where, please ask). I have my ears pierced 4 times on each side along with my tongue and nose pierced. I love music and I listen to all kinds! I definitely have times where different music fits my moods. I like Things I Can Shake My Bum To!!! I am one that can play in the dirt but also one that can get dressed up to go out. I can go out to a bar or stay home and hang out and watch a movie. I absolutely love comedies especially toilet humor!!! KARAOKE!! I Love Photography and taking photos also love baking and decorating cakes!!! If we go out, you must have your own car and have a job!! I am very passionate about my family and friends. My family is very important to me and means the world to me as well as my friends. Looking for someone to share my adventures with, someone who is easy going and laid back like me, thinks family is one of the most important things in life and has no problem being able to laugh at themselves. Life is too short to always take everything so serious! I am truly one of a kind when you get to know me. I consider myself to be funny, witty, and kind of a smart ass. I am looking for someone that just enjoys life in general. Someone that can have fun doing anything.…but I also need a little spark, a little silliness. I’m not ready to sit on the porch in the rocking chair just yet…. I’m far from perfect,and don’t expect you to be either. I need to have a man who is fun, curious, and flirty, has a good sense of humor, serious when needed and is confident in himself. I’d like to find someone taller than me. Over all I’m fairly normal with hopes and dreams like the rest of the world, I don’t want to be alone the rest of my life. I’m not sure exactly what I want, but know what I don’t want. So if you drink, do so with moderation no sloppy drunks, I smoke so if you don't like that go somewhere else. Please no tobacco chewers, yuck – think about that on the other end of a kiss. I need a man who has a purpose for himself and his life, its okay to enjoy TV, just not all day everyday, a man who is ready to change gears sometimes at the drop of a hat, life is short and some things may not present themselves again. Trust, the biggest issue that people seem to have problems with, I’ve been on both sides of this coin and don’t care for either. What I mean by that is I’ve been the one who was not trusted and I’ve also been the one who didn’t trust my partner. Trust is given unconditionally, until cause for distrust enters the picture, in my case I’m out of the picture at that point, I won’t drive on that road again. I will be honest and open with you, tell you what I’m thinking most of the time, but there are some things that will take time to flow from my lips, so if you’re waiting for me to say some thing and you haven’t heard it yet, just hang tight for a bit, I’m not one to rush into things without looking at all the angles. If I am honest, truthful, and faithful to a partner is it too much to ask for the same in return? Trust is a VERY important thing with me. Without trust, what kind of relationship can be had? I’m a big believer that things happen for a reason and will make the best of it. My mind is always racing. There is a man out there looking for me and me for him. I know that when he finds me, I’ll be the lucky one. He’ll be the one that completes the story. I really want to be a part of an "us" again. I've been separated 6 years, with no chance of getting back together. Just haven't finished the paperwork. It’s only a matter of a few signatures. So please do not let that worry you, as I expect it should. I have many interests and am open to suggestions. My pictures are all recent within the last year, so what you see is what you get. Please do not post a picture of yourself from 8 years ago, that is deception from the beginning. I hope you took the time to read to this point, because if you did you know what the possibilities are and will have a good idea of what you’re getting into. I look forward to hearing from you. Anything that would include an intellectual conversation to get to know one another

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Ok where do I start, first and foremost I'm a devoted Christian. I'm a loving mother to two amazing children (girl,14 and boy, 8 months). My kids are my world and i would do anything for them. We are a packaged deal. I may be a plus size girl but I am confident. I'm spontaneous and I'm borderline OCD. I hate drama!!! I can't swim which is why I won't get into a body of water pass my waist that I can't see the bottom of (crazy I know). No destination intended. Right now I work part time but I'm hoping to start school the beginning of the year. I want to be a phelbotomist. But in the last few months I've been thinking real hard about going to be an LC (lactation consult). I listen to all kinds of music except heavy metal. I find myself listening to country and contemporary Christian the most. Depending on my mood my taste changes.Last, your gonna get total honesty from me and I expect the same thing from you. I'm not here to play games and be involved in a bunch of drama. I hate a liar and a cheater!!! I'm totally comfortable with my size and I don't want someone who is threatened or intimitated by bigger women. Thanks for taking the time to look at my profile. Look forward to hearing from you. XOXOPs. If you don't have a profile picture don't message me cause I won't respond. Also if you are not Caucasian please don't message me. Thanks ;-) This part is hard. It's difficult to stay how a first date will go when you don't know who you'll he going with. Lol. I'm game for just about anything as long as its fun and drama free.

  • Cameron

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Love gardening, antique stores, football, soccer, and a wide variety of music. Love traveling, cooking, nature, and animals except snakes. Looking to make friends and see if something more develops. Like to people watch, go fishing, and love a good book. What about you? What makes you tick? P.S. if you are a liar, cheater, or thief, please do not message me.

  • Alvena

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I never thought I would be back in the world of dating. Life gives us lemons at times and we have to decide whether to be sour about it or to add a little sweetener and make lemonade! So cheers to all of you out here searching. I'm a laid- I enjoy the outdoors as well as sports with my kids. I am a huge animal lover of all types...except snakes...YUCK! I grew up in a ranching family and know the value of good work ethic. I also roped calves and steers through college. I enjoy my job as an accountant. I wear heels during the week but love to throw on a pair of jeans/boots and go hunting/fishing on the weekends. I love to dance to good ole Country music. Nothing beats a night on the dance floor. I have two wonderful kids that are the light of my life! We hit most of the major stockshows each year. I am always proud of their accomplishments.I am looking for someone to be my friend first and see where things go from there. I am looking for a true gentleman. My dad still opens the door for my mom and takes his hat off when meeting a lady. I still say yes sir/ma'am no matter your age.If you have any questions, feel free to drop me a line. I'm an open book. Ideally....horseback ride followed by a nice dinner and conversation. That "dinner" could be a picnic under a big oak tree.

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