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Deedra
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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
I'm a Christian before anything else. I love my family and have a wonderful job where I have the pleasure of taking care of some of the most amazing people you will ever meet. I love traveling and being outdoors. My family is important to me and I spend time with them as much as I can. I love to laugh and make others laugh, especially my patients and coworkers. My music tastes are wide and varied, and live music is always a joy. My goals in life are to keep fighting the fight against cancer and advancing in my career. I don't like sitting still too much, so I need someone pretty active to keep up with me. There are many places in the world I want to visit, so finding a traveling companion would be perfect. Otherwise, ask me anything you want to know! Something laid-back. There shouldn't be a lot of expectations on the first date...just getting to know one another. The best relationships are built from friendships. Can't have one without the other!No, I will not come to your place for our first meeting. Any girl that does needs her head checked.Movies are a bad first date idea unless there's some getting-to-know-you time beforehand. Who wants to sit silently next to a stranger for two hours? :)
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Katelynn
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Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
Ok so here we go again. I am a single mom of a 5-year-old boy who is with me full time. I love sports, music (symphonic metal, hard rock, Celtic rock, and Irish, among many other genres), reading, history (World War II in particular), and anything competitive (pool, horseshoes, shuffleboard, beer pong, whatever). From spring to fall I play a lot of softball. I enjoy most sports and am a big fan of the Razorbacks, Braves, Saints, Thunder, and Bruins (hockey). I like going out for karaoke, and yes, I'm relatively decent at it! I'm not always a happy person, but I like to laugh and smile, even if it's just sarcastically. I have a very smart-ass sense of humor that can come across as abrasive. I'm not beautiful or perfect, but I always try my best to be as close to both as possible. I tend to be defensive, but I suppose 32 years of rejection and disappointment has built up my wall. I've almost gotten to the point where I'm afraid to like anyone because I don't want to go through any of those feelings again. But the right person can/would/should help me break through that.I'm a little old fashioned and shy. I can come across as rather intense, but I believe anything worth having is worth working for and anything worth doing is worth doing right, so I try to give my best and my all in everything I do. I prefer for the man to make the first move (i.e., initiate conversation, ask me out first, etc.), and I expect him to be a gentleman (i.e., opening doors, using manners, etc.) The main reason for that is, as a single mom, I try really hard to teach my son to be a gentleman, and I would like him to have someone he can look up to for examples and proof of how a man should truly treat a woman.Everyone always asks what I'm looking for, so I'll just lay it out there. I am looking for happiness. Someone who adores me as much as I adore him. Someone who makes me smile because he loves to see me smile, and calls or texts or whatever because he wants to, not out of a sense of obligation. Someone who loves my child as he would his own and appreciates/respects my parenting. (By the way, I want to physically have more kids. That's non-negotiable. I expect your kids to treat me with respect and behave as I expect my own child to.) Someone I can talk to and not run out of things to say. Someone who can be apart from me but doesn't necessarily like it. Someone who can take care of me and protect me, not because I need it, but because he enjoys it. Because everything I get, I give in return. Someone I can trust, respect, and be proud of. And basically, that's it. I just want to be happy. Thanks for reading all this (probably all none of you!). And just for the record, I don't like dating. It's expensive and stressful, and honestly, I think it's just a shallow excuse people use when they don't want to commit. They say, oh I'm just dating around. Well, not me. I'm not saying one date and I jump into marriage. If I think I'll like someone, I'll go on a date with him. If I don't like him, I won't see him again. If I do like him, I will see only him. I like to devote my time and attention to one person, and I appreciate the same in return. Must be able to communicate often and effectively. And at least give me a chance. But please don't tell me you're a nice guy and not like other men. Every guy tries to tell me that, then he turns out to be just like every other jerk I've ever met. Prove it to me *** what you mean, and do what you say. A nice dinner and drinks. Unless you can think of something more interesting, in which case I am happy to consider.
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Linnette
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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
I've noticed that most people don't read all of these all the way through. I'm on here looking for friends.. if something happens, good, if nothing, no worries. :) I'm just going with the flow of things. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask. A first date, to me, would be one that we would just enjoy each other's company. No expectations from either party. Dinner and a movie seems to be the way to go. Hanging out at your place or mine is not an option. We all know what "you should come over and hang out" means. If that is asked before getting to know me, the answer will always be "No". If you don't want to get to know me, I don't want to "hang out" with you. :) Just saying. ;)