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Joel, 31

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About Me

I'm gonna get to the point here. I don't drink, I don't party, I don't do drugs of any kind, and I don't want to have sex before marriage anymore. You can move on if that is what you are looking for. For the few of you still interested and reading, hello. I am a 31 year old christian woman who has never been married and never really truly been close to getting married. I have 3 kids, who do not live with me full time. I am currently in the middle of a few major life changing processes . I have started working out as much as I can with a busted up knee. I am so close to being debt free that I can feel the weight off of my shoulders. I am in the middle of hunting for my next place to live. I recently lost my very best friend and the person that I lived for, my dad. I am so honest that it is almost a fault. I'm down to earth. I work a ton of hours and I am on call about half the month. I'm not perfect and my house is in organized casos right now. I am a bit clumsy, a bit random, and I am very unique. I am one of a kind. I'm not looking for a perfect man, god knows I am no where close to perfection. I do want a man who is honest with himself and the people in his life. I want a man who has his life together, knows what he wants and knows where he is going. A man that studies the bible and has a relationship with Christ. You don't have to go to church 2 days a week to have a relationship with Christ. Looking for a man who is willing and able to love open and honestly. Hang out, go to a club, just sit and talk. Maybe watch a movie or go for a walk. Whatever sounds like fun at the time. We can discuss this if it ever comes down to meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Jose

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    If you are normal continue reading! This may be long for a profile, but I'd rather you have it in black & white. Men like that right......no grey area? What am I looking for? I'm looking for a dating relationship first with the possibility of a long term relationship. If all works out maybe we are meant for each other. The end result I hope will begin in marriage our slice of "happy ever after". (Kids, pets, house, grow old) I have never been married. Why? Quite frankly I just haven't met the guy I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I am not willing to settle for less than "meant to be". Secretly I am a romantic. I would like a man who is a Christian, successful, intelligent, and family oriented family man. Sad I am going to have to say this on a profile, but I am NOT looking for intimate encounters. If that is what your looking for don't bother even saying hello please. I guess this is the price we "pay" for a free dating service.Here goes nothing- Highlights about me-In a nutshell. I am a republican... If you voted for Obama we have a serious problem. I'm a church going, God loving, 2nd amendment supporting die hard, 2- In other words I love to dance, I love to go to church, I believe in strong morals/values/standards, I love all music, I love men who know how to treat a woman, Ill drink a beer/glass of wine/throw back a shot, I don't mind getting my hands dirty, or dressing the sassy arm candy with a clutch and some pumps. I am sweet, affectionate, loving, drama free, and I am sure of who I am. If I offended you in anyway with this paragraph.... Please pass by me, I'm tired of the men telling me how I offended them or how I should be more "open minded". This is called plenty of fish for a reason keep your comments to yourself.Below are things I hope to have in common with someone.FAMILY-I am passionate about family. I am proud to say my mom and dad are still married and just as in love as they were in the beginning. Also one of my favorite roles is being an aunt! I just love my nieces and nephews to pieces. They make me so excited to eventually have my own children one day.-military father. So you would need to have your life together to not only date/marry me but to have the approval of my family. PHYSICALLY- I am very active. In college, I played D-1 volleyball so needless to say I love playing court and sand volleyball. As I stated I am active, I'll play any sport with or without a ball. My favorite workouts are biking long distances, tap out, Zumba, and p90x. My wii as a source of exercise as well.... personal favorite "Just Dance 2 & 4 and Zumba" games lol. I believe everyone should dance like no one is watching. HOBBIES- include traveling and vacations. Its expensive but I like two trips a year. My goal is to get to a new country once a year. I'm always up for a trip even if it is not very far away. Many friends would describe me as spontaneous in this department. I have been known to just jump in my car and drive. Outdoors, beaches, cruises I'm in! Music and movies are always a joy! I love all music and dancing is a part of life. Movie quoting is a plus.***: I am not high maintenance or drama driven, I promise. I never got along with those girls. I am pretty easy to please, but here are some attributes that are deal breakers for me.TOPIC OF AGE: 6 years older/younger than me. Older/younger than that, I'm not comfortable withTOPIC OF CHILDREN: I want to bare children of my own with a future husband. I don't want just one. If you are undecided/don't want children, we won't work out. Previous children/child doesn't scare me, but like I said I want a few in addition to that. When I do eventually have children I would love to be a stay at home mom while they grow up. I just believe daycare isn't good for children.TOPIC OF WEIGHT: I am of average weight and build. I am working on it daily to be more fit. My goal is to get to ultimate athletic shape in 6 months. I am currently running & doing Tap Out/P90x videos. Am I there yet? No. Will I? Yes. I am not asking for a guy with a killer bod, but someone who cares about they way they look physically and is health conscious. I prefer you to be alive for our lives together ;). Besides I will be frequently intimate with my hubby and well...... I want to be turned on not off. Not having intimacy would be the downfall of a marriage for me. TOPIC OF PICTURES: Have one or two quality pics available. I don't really care what car you drive, how big your muscles are, or latest tattoos. I just want to see a quality pic of your face.TOPIC OF FINANCES: A man who offers stability and can provide for a future family. It is what any woman wants. We just don't say it verbally. We think it and hope you figure it out.LASTLY....YOUR PROFILE IT MATTERS: If you don't think women read your profile you are mistaken. I'll move on quickly or won't respond if I find your profile less than par. I am not and English teacher but proper English and spelling is important to me. Sarcasm is great as long as you know when enough is enough. I love reading a witty profile. Just quit with the one line *** (Who are you Joey from "Friends" or Chris Catan and Will Ferrel from the ";? How you doing? What's up? Hey! Hello! Ill be a booger and probably give you one liners back or not respond at all.I am not attracted to:Bald men, Large men, Hispanics/Black- I'm not racist. I don't know why... It's like the book "she's just not that into you" I just don't get butterflies in my stomach.REALLY SHORT GUYS- I like a man to be several inches taller than me...why? I don't know I just like it. I guess if I was wearing pumps I still want you taller than me. When it comes to online dating I would say a coffee date for a first date. The way I see it we can be humans long enough for a cup of joe. If the date is looking promising we can get a caffeine high together with another cup of joe. If it is a disaster we can finish one cup and part ways and say it was nice to meet such a great person and wish each other luck. Second date we can commit to a longer time frame it goes well from there we can continue to upgrade. :)

  • Katherin

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I love music, I can talk about it all day. I like simple things like, watching TV, going out to eat, going to movies or just hanging in the house. I look for someone to accompany me in my simple joys.

  • Vanda

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I would say I'm a typical women, like to give most thing a try at least once. I love animals, I don't currently have any of my own. I have a wonderful niece who I spoil rotten and enjoy spending time with her when I can. I do work a full time job at a local car dealership, I also put in some extra hours at a local retail shop at the mall to keep me busy. I enjoy fishing, swimming, hanging out with friends enjoying the outdoors. Music there is always something new out there to listen to. I enjoy cooking and baking always trying new receipes. I support a local charity called DVIS, always looking for ways to help them out. I was born in Germany. My friends say I live with my heart on my sleave. I am tired of being the 3rd wheel when out and about with friends, I tend to find myself working to keep busy. I enjoy the outdoors, don't mind getting the hands dirty or getting messy, my pedicure can always get redone :) I work in a mans world, so I know how to hang with the boys and can talk the talk, but I can also be the lady you are proud to show off to your friends and your mom. I don't have any children of my own, I have many adopted nieces & newphews I treat as my own. I am ready to find someone who loves me for me and isn't afraid to tell the world. Someone who wants to go out and do things, yet has no problems with lazy days, sleeping in till noon and snuggling on the couch with movies & popcorn.I don't need a booty call, so if that is what you want, don't bother. If you have children I respect that they will always be apart of your life and should come first, please don't get defensive if I ask about them, just trying to understand who you are.I love most animals, I grew up wanting a horse and dog farm. I enjoy fishing, just don't expect me to know how to descale them, I'm willing to learn :) I've never hunted or fired a gun, wouldn't mind learning.I don't follow politics, but I will voice my opionion if I fell strongly about it.anything else you want to know, just ask. you will not meet me at my place the first time we meet, sorry i guess thats just a girl thing....

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