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Merri, 33

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About Me

I've been on this site a few times, and each time I wonder why LOL...no offence, but it often seems like more work than it needs to be. People don't seem to read your profile and you both end up wasting your time, when you could be looking for someone you'd ACTUALLY have a connection with...BUT, I did meet some cool people and honestly, when it comes to dating, you have to pick through the bad ones to find the good ones no matter what the format (bar, online, etc.), so I figure since I'm not much of a bar person, I may as well post on here again and see what happens.Right off the bat, I'll tell you that I'm VERY outspoken, so that being said, I'll lay it all out on the table now...If you do not have a pic or are looking for a fling, don't bother messaging me. No matter how hard u try, I know what I want, & it won't happen LOL. Only those genuinely invested in getting to know me need to reply :)I'm a "big" girl. I'm not saying that to put myself down - I'm still a beautiful girl and it's something I'm working on for ME. Sadly, I hate that I need to mention that in my profile, but let's be honest, attraction is important so if you're not attracted to an overweight girl, you can move on now :). Other attributes? I'm sarcastic, fun, a BIG TIME music lover, and a girlie girl who also loves watching sports (esp football and baseball - GO TIGERS!!!). I could go on, but then what will we have to talk about?!? :)What am I looking for? Someone who loves sports and has a great sense of humour. There is no specific "appearance" that I am looking for, but I will be honest, if I read your profile and don't have an initial interest, I'm not going to waste my time, or yours, and simply move on. While I've listed that I'm looking for a relationship and ultimately want to find "the one", I also don't believe love can be found...that it just happens. So, I'd love to get to know people and see if that is the past we're destined for.Good luck in your search! Hope to hear from you soon :) You'd win me over if you took me to a sporting event and/or a concert :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Porsha

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Well let me just say I don't think I'll find a good one on here BC every last one I have ever talked to never stopped getting on here to see what else and who else they can talk to so I'll just be waiting on the one god sends me outside the internet .. please read idiots cause mf's cant read obviously... Ok geez let me save u from wasting ur time and mine, i am white yes and a big girl but not interested in black guys so sendi me messages is gonna waste ur time cause i wont be replying... sorry but that is me... Let me start out by saying if u just want to hook up move on i am here to find someone to be with and share my life with and if u lie don't bother talking to me if it's one thing I can't stand is someone to lie especially saying they gonna do something and don't.. I'll just say I'm not stupid bc I always find out one way or another... And with that said I will keep this short and sweet til I get a chance to feel this in like I want to in a couple days... I'm back ive become a hard ass so if that bothers u dont message me bc i dont believe everything u tell me i was on here til about 3 weeks ago when I deleted my account bc I was talking to what I thought a honest guy turns out I wasn't but anyway not on here to play games with u and if that's what u want them don't waste ur time messaging me or if ur married or taken then don't message me either... Thanks in advance

  • Lacresha

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    ***update please dont waste my time lifes too short..please take the time to read my entire profile!..i know its long but it will save us both time in the long run...must be age ***..i am more attracted to men younger than me im 35 but im open to someone older....must be near me..im not relocating anywhere anytime soon..i want someone i can see often if anything develops..must have tats or at least like them..must have a job i am very responsible and want the same..moderately attractive.. must honestly want a relationship!!..i dont mind chatting or making friends..i try to at least respond to everyone but sometimes my inbox gets blown upI haven't had much luck finding a man who will respect me, doesn't play games, is loyal, trustworthy, not a total douchebag, knows what he wants , and truly wants a future with someone..but I havent given up hope yet..life is short and time is ticking away.I am a hard working woman with my sh*ttogether..I have two kids..my daughter is 18 and my son is 15..my son lives at home with me..I own my own home..I pay my own bills...and I think I'm lookin pretty good for a 35 yr old woman. I am a size 10 and getting smaller. I work hard and exercise so I am in decent shape. I am not a high maintenance woman but give me an hour in the bathroom and I will make you say wow! I've been told I don't make a man feel needed. Life has thrown alot of bullsh*t my way and out of necessity I learned to take care of myself. I need a man to love and respect me who will be there for me no matter what. I need a man who will kickass for me if someone hurts me in any way. A man who makes me feel protected from the ****ed up worId we live in. I probably seem like a strong independant woman who noone could crack. On the inside I have a heart of gold and would give someone the shirt off my back but it gets me hurt over and over again.I like to workout, watch movies, spend time outdoors, camping, swimming, reading, taking care of my home..I've always been attracted to backwoods tattooed country boy types because I'm a tattooed country girl myself..Im a girl who doesnt mind gettin dirty goin muddin or fishing..but i clean up welI:).. don't like to party or hang out in bars anymore..done my share of that and grew up..I will go occassionally just for something to do and because I love to play pool..I drink on a rare occassion..again done my share of that in the past.I am looking for someone to date, get to know, and go from there..I had a bad habit of jumping into relationships too soon and not taking the time to see them for who they really are..I want something real but I am not in a hurry..I want to meet someone within a 20mile radius..I dont want to do all the driving either.A good date for me is grabbing a bite to eat, talking, bowling, play pool, and that will allow us to relax and talk. First dates are always awkward.

  • Blair

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I enjoy being outdoors. Swimming, camping, fishing, andi like to attempt water skiing. being with great friends is a plus as well. I am currently in school working on my bachelor's degree in Family & Consumer Sciences. I want to become a money management consultant. If you are looking for sex & that is all you are looking for, please don't contact me. I am very old fashioned in that regards. I have 3 children who are my world and I hope that I meet someone who would cherish them as much as I do. I want to be with someone who can allow me to be myself as well as be supportive. I will do the same for the other person as well. I am a caring, sweet, sensitive, and loving person. I hope i find someone who is the same. Go for a picnic at the river, then maybe a little frisbee and maybe go for ice cream later on. I enjoy talking and being active. Movies (scary movies are my favorite) are good for a night in, with some popcorn on the side. And of course for a night out on the town, a good steak and maybe find our way to the go cart track, or maybe some bowling!! Just as long as it is something we can do to get to know each other!!

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