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About Me

I am hoping to meet someone that is exactly who he says he is. I would like to find someone that has a positive attitude. Someone that knows how to communicate properly and doesn't run when things aren't going so great. Communicating is SO important to me. Someone that knows exactly what he wants in life, has a career, and is ready to commit to someone (me) in a relationship. Most importantly, I want to meet someone that will care about my son, as much as he cares about me. I don't rush into things, so I definitely do not want to jump right into a serious relationship. I sometimes work long hours, and I have a young child at home. My time is sacred, so I really don't want to waste it. I know what I want and the type of person that I am looking for. I'm not interested in someone that drinks excessively or smokes. I am not interested if you have shirtless pictures. I'm not interested in someone that has been married more then once. If you want to meet my child right away or cannot accept that I may not be able to see you every night of the week then I am not the person for you. I think keeping a first date simple is the best way to go. Meeting for a coffee or lunch is much more relaxing and less intense then a dinner date and night out. If there isn't any chemistry, then you are only together for a brief time. If there is chemistry on a first date I would want to plan another date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Olene

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm straight forward and honest about what I'm looking for in a relationship and would respect a man who is the same. I am looking for someone who likes some of the things I do and has something new to bring to the table. I take care of responsibility before I have fun.I enjoy watching all movies except maybe horror lol I would rather not have another reason to look behind me at the ATM or walking to my car at night :) I love music but it depends on my mood what genre I'm feeling, Soul and R&B have my heart. I love to dance to any and all music and I would like to have a partner to have fun with. I like to read non-fiction books and most have a romantic vibe to them. I'm more of an outdoor person than in. I like to be active and believe you should put an effort into being healthy. I enjoy exercise but I'm not a die hard. Love to learn and try new things, food and/or fun.Family is very important to me I have two children(bi-racial) over 11 and 14 yrs old that live with me, I really enjoy spending time with them. I am a pretty busy person working 2 jobs but I always find time for me. I would like to find someone that has the same love of family and fun as I do.I added more photos of my natural hair texture. I am feeling the naturally curly look and have for awhile now, I do switch up color tho :) I have fun with it! Somthing simple that I could take the time to get to know someone.

  • Sharyl

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm a single mom to 5 amazing kids (4 daughters and 1 son ranging in age from 11 to 2 years old). I am recently (Okay, it's been over a year but who's counting) divorced and looking to start over. I'm not looking for a man to "take care of me", I take care of me and mine just fine. So don't let the children run you off, unless you just don't like children in which case RUN far FAR away! My kids come first and foremost above anything else.I have been burnt, badly, a lot. I've been lied to, cheated on, and left alone (hey, ain't that a country song?). To be quite honest I think I have some sort of douchebag (can I say that here?) magnet attatched to me. I have a large wall up because of this and don't let people in easy, generally because it backfires in my face. I didn't think finding an honest, trustworthy, loyal country boy would be so difficult but apparently it is. This past year of my life has made me realize what I want and deserve out of a guy and I refuse to settle for anything less. No games, No lies, No secrets, No nonsense. I generally keep men at an arms length because I've realized that most of them are just looking for a piece and I'm over that. I'm honestly just tired of Mr. Right Now and ready for Mr. Right. I'm not looking for a "daddy" for the kids, I'm just looking for someone who see's how great we are and wants us to be a part of their life, thats it. I'm easy going and even easier to please. A night home watching movies together is just as appealing as going out to dinner and a movie. Horseback rides? Fine by me. Wanna go coon hunting, deer hunting, fishing? Drag me along! Chillen on a backroad and shooting the breeze, that's A-Okay. I'm just down to earth and love the simple things in life. I learned a long, LONG, time ago that money don't buy happiness and that the best things in life are indeed free. I'm loyal to a fault. I don't think you could find anyone more loyal and selfless than I am. Something even my ex husband will attest too. I go above and beyond for those I care about. I refuse to give up until the last ember has been extinguished. I have a lot of good in me to give and can't wait to find someone to show that too. I look for whats on the inside of someone far more than whats on the outside and hope to find someone who is the same.

  • Lark

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Some of the principles I live by: Don\'t worry be happy Be true to thine own self, Put yourself in their shoes, Do not do unto others what you would not want them do unto you. I choose people of word, reasonable, loyal to selves first of all.

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