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Kaitlin, 35

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If I added you to my favorites, I'm probably trying to figure out how to make that awkward first point of contact. Save me?I've been separated for over 2 years, pending divorce. I tend to come off as being rather arrogant. It's not intentional, I just really like who I am.I'm a mommy, a hair stylist, and a jewelry designer.I hope to find a partner, in every sense of the word. I'm not looking for someone to support me, nor am I looking for a new father for my daughter. I'm not here to 'fix' someone. And I have no intentions of changing to suit someone's idea of how I should be.Unapologetically chubby. Not a liberal. I collect odd things, and it's possible some of them could gross you out or make you think I'm a serial killer. I listen to punk rock, psychobilly, rockabilly, various types of metal, old country/outlaw country, horror punk, and '80s era goth music. I don't like rap music. If you listen to Nickelback or Insane Clown Posse, we aren't going to get along on like, any level. I grew up in a sort of gearhead family, and love classic cars, street rods, hot rods, and motorcycles.I'm tattooed. Heavily, according to some. Moderately, according to me. There's a lot more to me than my style or 'look'. I'm not here looking for a 'friend with benefits'.If I don't respond to your message within what you deem a reasonable amount of time, responding with an attitude and telling me how fat, or unattractive, or how much of a b*tch I am, isn't exactly gonna' win you any points. I often don't respond to messages from someone I don't feel as though I'd be interested in. I'm not trying to be a jerk I'm just saving us both from the whole discussion of why you think we'd be good together and why I disagree.Just check out my interests and you'll know whether or not you wanna' message me. I typically stick with coffee as a first date. It's pretty casual, no pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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