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Jael, 52

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About Me

I enjoy relationship!! I like to ask lots of questions. I want to know about your past, your hopes for the future, your favorite birthday memories, your least favorite birthday memories (those make for great stories, unfortunately), etc. I want to know and be known. My faith is of primary importance to me. However, I have issues with current Christian culture and am not a typical churchgoer. I am hoping to find someone who feels the same about expressing their faith in practical and non-religious ways.My kids are leaving the nest and making their own way in the world. That places me in the strange place of being independent and yet very tethered at the same time. It's a tough one to explain...so I won't even try. :)I was married for 21 years and have been separated for over two years. Getting divorced has been a long and miserable process. I'm hoping that the end is in sight!! I'm a little hesitant to plan anything too detailed for a first date. I think a quick coffee is a good choice, though not the most creative or romantic option; those can come later when it doesn't feel so weird (am I the only one who feels so awkward on that first "meet and greet"?).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abaigeal

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I would love to explore the city with someone special—maybe that's you? My idea of a good time can branch off in many directions— good conversation at a coffee shop (or anywhere, basically), listening to live music, going to wine tastings or other places where I can learn something new, bookstores, movies, and live theatre or improv comedy come to mind. (Not all in one day:) Love going for boat rides and would like to learn to sail (although I know I'd be a fair weather sailor) or just being near the water.), but haven't had a chance to yet. I like listening to a variety of live music. I'm a huge fan of The Beatles, and have watched the Anthology too many times to mention (but I guess I just did:) Love other music too. If you have an interest in fiction or film, that's a plus, but not a big deal. The main thing for me is that we have enough in common to keep the relationship interesting and where we want to spend time together. I love great design of all kinds and was a former graphic designer and had other arts/crafts businesses in the past. Now writing is my creative interest, and fortunately, takes up very little space!Cooking a nice pot of soup on a cold, damp day or reading by a fireplace can be a good time. Going out with friends and entertaining would be nice, too. Mainly, I'm looking for a partner to dance through life with. I'd like to connect with a man physically, mentally, and emotionally, but that spark is important, too--the part that can't be easily defined. Meeting for coffee/tea/wine is a nice way to get to know if there's a connection between us before setting up another longer date.

  • Elli

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm looking for that diamond in the rough, with a great smile, a sense of humor and who's easy to be around. Just an all American great guy, really. He... has morals and integrity... is kind and considerate... well balanced... with no strange hang-ups. He is a confident and positive person with varying interests like myself. He values health by staying in shape and eating right (most of the time). Let's face it, it takes more effort as we get older!What I believe- I still believe in the Golden Rule- treat others the way you would like to be treated. I've found generally, it is when we forget that rule- that we find ourselves in conflict. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, because we all deserve it most of the time. My motto is, the often used cliche', "mean people suck" They really do. Let's be kind. I think we can never have too many friends! I was raised with good old fashion southern values, and believe we can always improve ourselves. I also believe we have miracles all around us, if we open our eyes. I love all animals, babies, children and people in general, unless you're just downright evil or absolutely clueless and refuse to own up to anything. I have to admit, I've only met one person who falls into that last category. I do believe all God's creatures deserve to be treated with respect, including children.I realize how mushy and corny all that may sound, but those are my core beliefs. I'm up for almost anything at least once, sort of a girly-girl tom-boy. Like to be active or reading by a fire, entertaining or watching a great movie, it's all good, if the company you keep is, as well! A first date for me would be simple and uncomplicated. Maybe coffee or a glass of wine, or dinner with a great view, while getting to know each other. If you make me laugh, not just a haha laugh, but a roll on the floor laugh.. well, there might just be a spark! We'll both know if it's right. It should be easy.

  • Eula

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    What do you say that makes you different or stand out from the crowd??

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