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Bernice, 54

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About Me

Hi, thanks for taking a look.A little bit about me. Integrity and honesty are the most important things to me, so make sure they are important to you before you send me a message. Friends and acquaintances have told me I am kind, giving, positive, with a welcoming smile. You can choose your attitude and how you treat others everyday and I try to always make a choice to smile, be positive and greet everyone with a smile. It may be the only one they see today. I don't believe in judging others, I can only change the person I look at in the mirror every morning. I am open with my feelings and want an intimate relationship which includes reveling to my partner my inner person, feelings, fears, spirituality, and passions. Sharing our true self makes the physical passion more intense and the icing on the cake.I love to do things outdoors when I can. Picnics, walks on the beach, camping, quiet nights watching the stars and hearing the rain. I even like the rain on my face at times, although the sun on my face is nice as well. I was born and raised here so I don't melt. I enjoy socializing, entertaining, cooking, dancing and too many other things to list here. I have 2 grown children. They live in the area which is great.I work in Healthcare education and love it, most of the time. I have no idea what dating in my 50's is about, or how to do it, but I try. It is a new journey so I have to look at it like a new learning experience. LOL I do know that if we meet, and especially if we go out a couple times, please be honest and tell me how you feel. Sorry, but I have met several men that we have gone out a couple times, he says let's get together again, and then I never hear from them again. I am a big girl, and only want someone who is really excited to be with me. At our age there is no reason to play games. I don't! What you see is what you get.Send me a message and perhaps we can chat.Sorry, I only respond if I see a mutual interest, and only expect a response if you have an interest.Enjoy the ride!!!! something where we can talk and get to know one another.a walk on the beach, a glass of wine in a quiet setting.sitting at a park, watching people and chatting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    MISE À JOUR : Je suis maintenant de retour de la République Dominicaine où j'ai travaillé les 5 derniers mois...Je viens pour voir ce qu'il en est du site et si j'apprécie, je complèterai le tout avec plaisir. Je n'en dis pas beaucoup pour le moment mais éventuellement, vous pourrez en connaître un peu plus si vous êtes curieux.***UPDATE : I am now back from Dominican Republic as I was working for the 5 past months... I am here only to see what the site is all about and if I like it, I will complet my profile with pleasure.I don't say much at the moment but eventually, you could learn a bit more about me if you are curious...Y tambien, hablo espanol ;-))

  • Kyoko

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I was raised in a family where faith, manners, responsibility, and doing the right thing were drilled into my head, so these things are important to me. I have good common sense, love to garden and re-purpose old things and would rather learn how to do something myself (if possible) than ask someone else to do it for me. I am fiercely loyal, more liberal than conservative, and I'm not afraid to speak my mind, (I have an opinion on just about everything) and respect others opinions as long as they are based on facts, not speculation or theory. I am an animal lover and have 2 cats and a dog. (cats were rescues) I'm not a bit spoiled and I'm generally very happy and content with my life. I can't see myself dating anyone entitled, arrogant, rude or insensitive. If you think you are more important than others, like to complain, or are looking for someone to cook and clean then please stay away from me! I enjoy "old classic" rock-n-roll and new country music. I've traveled to just about every state and like the mountains but love the beach. I have not dated for several years, and I'm not looking to spend all my free time with someone although would enjoy being in a relationship again. My schedule varies from week to week and I tend to be a very early riser. I will need to go slowly, spend time talking and getting to know you, so if you're not okay with that, then please do not contact me. I am also not looking for a professional dater, or someone who needs to be constantly going and doing to be happy.Added ***This may sound harsh, but if have trust or commitment issues or are just looking for the initial excitement of a new relationship then please pass me by. We all have been hurt by past relationships that have made us who we are today, but if you bring that baggage into every new encounter you will never be able to have a meaningful lasting relationship. I am a person who has a small group of long-time lasting friends not hundreds of people in my life that I barely know and I'm looking for the same in a partner. Added ***I will not answer *** say "HI", tell me why you are contacting me and what, if anything, attracts you to me and I will do the same. I am a reasonably intelligent woman and the daughter of an English and Communications teacher. I find spelling and grammar important and if you can't put together a cohesive sentence, we probably won't be a good match. The only thing I can tell you is money does not impress me ... Just be yourself, be honest about who you are and what you want and I'll do the same.

  • Danelle

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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