Total users: 62,513,414 Online users: 225,044
Elli, 55
United States, Alabama, Oxford

Offline, last seen Mon, 27 Apr 2026 06:18:06

About Me

I'm looking for that diamond in the rough, with a great smile, a sense of humor and who's easy to be around. Just an all American great guy, really. He... has morals and integrity... is kind and considerate... well balanced... with no strange hang-ups. He is a confident and positive person with varying interests like myself. He values health by staying in shape and eating right (most of the time). Let's face it, it takes more effort as we get older!What I believe- I still believe in the Golden Rule- treat others the way you would like to be treated. I've found generally, it is when we forget that rule- that we find ourselves in conflict. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, because we all deserve it most of the time. My motto is, the often used cliche', "mean people suck" They really do. Let's be kind. I think we can never have too many friends! I was raised with good old fashion southern values, and believe we can always improve ourselves. I also believe we have miracles all around us, if we open our eyes. I love all animals, babies, children and people in general, unless you're just downright evil or absolutely clueless and refuse to own up to anything. I have to admit, I've only met one person who falls into that last category. I do believe all God's creatures deserve to be treated with respect, including children.I realize how mushy and corny all that may sound, but those are my core beliefs. I'm up for almost anything at least once, sort of a girly-girl tom-boy. Like to be active or reading by a fire, entertaining or watching a great movie, it's all good, if the company you keep is, as well! A first date for me would be simple and uncomplicated. Maybe coffee or a glass of wine, or dinner with a great view, while getting to know each other. If you make me laugh, not just a haha laugh, but a roll on the floor laugh.. well, there might just be a spark! We'll both know if it's right. It should be easy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Greek Italian Mexican Middle Eastern Documentary Fantasy Baseball Sailing
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Laurissa from Oxford | Woman | 54 years old | Sagittarius
    Laurissa

    Offline

    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Well...here I am.....again. I deleted my profile for a while because I thought if I was meant to find someone, I would. Herding 7th graders all day doesn't really afford the opportunity for discovery, however. So...I thought....maybe another try. I'm not going to write a lengthy anything. My past experience has proven that these things aren't often read by you guys, anyway. What I will say.....I am not looking for a "buddy". Buddies are easy. I'm looking for someone real....and, someone who is wanting a long term....hopefully, forever....relationship. I'm looking for someone who appreciates my heart....and....recognizes my worth. I am looking for that man who takes my breath away....so, attraction is huge. Chemistry is a must. I want to laugh.....and, I want to share my life. I want to miss him...and, he miss me. So, that when we come together........we can't keep our hands off of each other. I'm not complex....about as genuine as they come. It doesn't take a great deal to make me happy. But, I do expect loyalty.....communication....and, honesty. I have learned....love is a choice. I want to find the man that chooses me over all the others.....because he knows he has found someone he could truly love. No games....I'm an all or nothing gal. So......if this was too much.....lol......there are plenty of fish........I wish you the best and hope your journey is exactly what you have longed for in this life. God Bless!!!!

    Chat
  • Roselyn from Oxford | Woman | 53 years old | Cancer
    Roselyn

    Offline

    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Over the years, I have learned a lot about relationships; what works and what doesn’t, which battles to pick, and which to surrender. I have understood the difference between need, infatuation and true love - and I am at a point in my life where I know I will hold out for the latter.I enjoy lots of activities and am always willing to try new things. The short list of what I most enjoy is being with friends and family, animals, the outdoors, being around water, cooking, yoga, hiking, dining out, movies, theatre, live music, gardening, home repair, fishing, festivals, weekend trips, horseback riding, . I work hard and am not afraid to get dirty. I am feminine but far from a diva! I do not look (or act) my age, most people think I am much younger than I am.My work keeps me busy (but I love my job!) and when I have free time I try to get together with all my children. But I also stay busy volunteering with my son’s football team as well as other school activities. I like to watch movies and will usually choose a good comedy or science fiction. I enjoy listening to all genres of music. My son plays guitar too. At the end of the day I love to have someone to love and to care for. There is nothing better.My ideal mate is steady and responsible, but has a wonderful sense of humor and can find the funny side of almost every situation. He has a love for children, animals - and life! He is able to communicate and compromise when needed - a good relationship requires the willingness to go through the good and the bad with a partner. I am looking for someone that has those same beliefs and is ready for a lasting partnership with a loyal friend. I am looking for a monogamous relationship, I am one man woman would like to find someone honest and loving that feels the same way. I have a lot of love to give and I know there is someone that will appreciate it and give the same in return. I am not looking for money or someone to take care of me. I can take care of myself, my life is good but there is something missing. I am looking for the love of my life and my soul mate. What I am looking for is my last and forever relationship with my best friend. For a first date I would like to just to something causal, where we can talk and get to know each other and find out if we want to have a second date! First date should not be complicated or stressful, just finding out about the other person and if there is a mutual interest.

    Chat
  • Aiko from Oxford | Woman | 52 years old | Sagittarius
    Aiko

    Offline

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a family oriented person that loves to be around fun, energetic people. I work hard and play hard. I love football (watching it), driving my Jeep Wrangler with the top off, the beach, traveling, working out but not obsessive, anything fun.I don't trust easily - but I love to meet warm, loving, honest people.Why waste time and not post pictures...just being honest!!! And.....really don't message if we don't match please????? First Date The first date is the best everything is new and exciting. You are trying to pick your words and flow with the moment and you are hoping it does not take much effort to flow and the other person is more than what you pictured he would be in your mind before the date. And, when its over you should hope and wish it could go on and on. Now that's a great first date!

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: