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Elli, 55
United States, Alabama, Oxford

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About Me

I'm looking for that diamond in the rough, with a great smile, a sense of humor and who's easy to be around. Just an all American great guy, really. He... has morals and integrity... is kind and considerate... well balanced... with no strange hang-ups. He is a confident and positive person with varying interests like myself. He values health by staying in shape and eating right (most of the time). Let's face it, it takes more effort as we get older!What I believe- I still believe in the Golden Rule- treat others the way you would like to be treated. I've found generally, it is when we forget that rule- that we find ourselves in conflict. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, because we all deserve it most of the time. My motto is, the often used cliche', "mean people suck" They really do. Let's be kind. I think we can never have too many friends! I was raised with good old fashion southern values, and believe we can always improve ourselves. I also believe we have miracles all around us, if we open our eyes. I love all animals, babies, children and people in general, unless you're just downright evil or absolutely clueless and refuse to own up to anything. I have to admit, I've only met one person who falls into that last category. I do believe all God's creatures deserve to be treated with respect, including children.I realize how mushy and corny all that may sound, but those are my core beliefs. I'm up for almost anything at least once, sort of a girly-girl tom-boy. Like to be active or reading by a fire, entertaining or watching a great movie, it's all good, if the company you keep is, as well! A first date for me would be simple and uncomplicated. Maybe coffee or a glass of wine, or dinner with a great view, while getting to know each other. If you make me laugh, not just a haha laugh, but a roll on the floor laugh.. well, there might just be a spark! We'll both know if it's right. It should be easy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Greek Italian Mexican Middle Eastern Documentary Fantasy Baseball Sailing
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