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Lisandra, 55
United States, Alabama, Oxford

Offline, last seen Tue, 03 Feb 2026 21:53:05

About Me

Adventurer? Creative? Risk taker? Willing to get past the awkward 1st meet up? We might really learn something about each other.My motto: "life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage." a quote from Anais NinI am creative and artistic with a passion for learning all things old and new. And that passion spills over to a more sensual side with the right person.Down to earth, I have a big personality and am open-minded. Words turn me on and I enjoy verbal banter and quick Wit!Not too serious, but I am very spiritual with deep faith.Independent minded and move to the beat of my own drum, I like adventures and exploring ( anything from a farmer's market, flea market, winery or path not yet taken.)I like to be Feminine; dress up, polish my toes...but equally comfortable in jeans/tee to sustain a pretty tough hike or plant a good garden,then cook up a 'mean' stew.; though I love the blues, jazz and zydeco) and dancing. Prefer moving and doing, I consider myself active and fit (that is NOT Skinny or Fat). Looking to spend more time outside hiking, finding out of the way swimming holes, or biking. I swim several times a week or fast walking for exercise. Slow walks for romanceMy spirit is young, age is a number.Self employed as a clothing and accessory designer ; I also have also been a teacher for many years. I teach all ages anything from general ed to sewing and how to use the creative process. I have a full schedule, but with flexibility. Seeking a man with Confidence and intelligence and who cares how he presents himself; a Respectful mature man that has space and time to value a wonderful woman by his side for some of life's highlights.I hope you like your work ( maybe passionate about a cause?) and have your life mostly together. Please be someone that can handle a smart, sassy (not mean or rude) personality.Looking for a Friend to build some shared experiences like:Travel, history, wine tours... your ideas *** me something; golf, fly fishing?)Dating is Less about 'the thing we are doing" and more about who I am with; comfy companionship matters.WANT to meet in person if a few *** indicate interest. PLEASE: NOT interested in *** and forth for weeks! Early dates can have possible pressures. The setting can make one more relaxed. Unpredictability in the first few dates keeps things fun.Maybe a drink while listening to great jazz or, tea/coffee or happy hour.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Skiing Watching TV Canadian English Japanese History
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    A new adventure- on line dating! Life is full of changes- so true! I am new to the area and now post divorce and a new job and very happy to be near the beach- my favorite place to be. So- lots of change and it's all good! I am looking forward to the new chapter ahead.I enjoy many outdoor and indoor activities- and as a curious, adventurous and spontaneous person- I would like to share mutual interests (or not so mutual interests- cuz you gotta be open to something different!) with someone that makes me smile every time I think about him- and makes me beam when I see him- and someone that I make smile everyday! It's important to have an interest in the life that surrounds us and to be fully engaged in it- and not wait for it to happen. I find joy in the everyday -it's the day to day pleasures -the simple things we do for one another that give us our true quality of life. Spending enjoyable time together - whatever the activity- is the foundation of a good friendship and gives us both something to build on - if we feel the key element of chemistry. I enjoy holding hands, kissing, affection... it's so important to have chemistry and it is not found on-line. ***, texts and phone chats are an understood part of meeting in "cyber-space" but it goes nowhere with out the face-to-face- so take a deep breath... and recognize that this is only the starting point- gotta take the leap and offer to meet. Let's see if we have chemistry... Something simple....

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi! Looking for a long term relationship?.A little about me.. I am 57 divorced, pretty,happy,adventurous,nice,young looking,long red hair,***lbs thin to athletic build, with a fun outgoing personality and a good sense of humor.I am a good listener and loyal friend.I have a big heart.I have a mountain bike collecting dust.My favorite foods are pizza and ice cream.I'll even watch some sports with you and I would enjoy going to a game.Sorry not into motorcycles or rock climbing or not into hanging out in bars drinking & singing karaoke. I am willing to try some of your hobbies and do more traveling.Comfortable in jeans or all dressed up.See many more hobbies/interests in section below.Does any of this sound like fun? I am an independent homeowner with my act together...no bad credit, no dwi,no addictions,no drama and not high maintenance.Looking to meet the same to be my best friend,companion, and soul mate to grow old with.I'm not looking for a casual relationship.Believe in taking it slow...Just looking to fall in love with one dependable great guy within driving distance but I am possible willing to relocate for the right guy. PLEASE no more responses from married guys,cheaters or serial daters.I'm not interested in you.Are you a reliable divorced/widowed Romantic man in your fifties/early sixties who lives a healthy lifestyle and has a positive attitude,tall (at least 5' 9 ") pretty healthy,who works at trying to keep fit,happy with your life and have a good sense of humor?Are you here on meetville looking to meet one special lady to share your life with? Please have a few recent photos, closeup and standing up on your profile.I've been told that guys have a hard time talking about themselves but please tell me a little about your profession,mechanically inclined or handy around the house?Any kids still at home? Please talk about enjoying your favorite hobby or foods,mutual interests and priorities in your life.Maybe talk about your political views,comments on the economy or your thoughts on solar power.What's on your bucket list?So if you like my profile say hi! Ask me out for coffee.I'm not looking for new friends to *** usually check this meetville *** am and 7:30 pm. Exchanging phone numbers with strangers is unwise so that is why I'm not talking on the phone till after we meet for coffee.I don't spend alot of time on the phone and I had a bad experience giving out my number.Please don't ask me to send photos to your phone or *** a different/work address or message you at yahoo because you don't want to be seen here online at meetville.Who are you hiding from?I don't text so please don't use acronyms.There is no chemistry in *** face to face so why spend this time online.Thanks for reading my long profile.I hope you meet someone here to make you happy.Good luck fishing! After a few *** there is mutual interest then let's meet.First impressions are important.So do you drink Starbucks or Dunkin?Do you drink beer or wine?Let's talk. I want to hear about what a fun unique person you are so I will want to know more about you.I want to hear about your/our common interests.Let's talk and laugh about ourselves,favorite restaurants,music,beaches,trails for hiking,brag about the kids,grand kids,bucket list etc.If we hit it off maybe coffee turns into lunch/dinner .. Please no conversations about the past, divorce, ex wives of ex girlfriends, and no venting of baggage etc..If you aren't over the past I don't want to meet you. This is not a high pressure job interview just a coffee and taking the first step to finding someone.

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