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Lisandra, 55
United States, Alabama, Oxford

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About Me

Adventurer? Creative? Risk taker? Willing to get past the awkward 1st meet up? We might really learn something about each other.My motto: "life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage." a quote from Anais NinI am creative and artistic with a passion for learning all things old and new. And that passion spills over to a more sensual side with the right person.Down to earth, I have a big personality and am open-minded. Words turn me on and I enjoy verbal banter and quick Wit!Not too serious, but I am very spiritual with deep faith.Independent minded and move to the beat of my own drum, I like adventures and exploring ( anything from a farmer's market, flea market, winery or path not yet taken.)I like to be Feminine; dress up, polish my toes...but equally comfortable in jeans/tee to sustain a pretty tough hike or plant a good garden,then cook up a 'mean' stew.; though I love the blues, jazz and zydeco) and dancing. Prefer moving and doing, I consider myself active and fit (that is NOT Skinny or Fat). Looking to spend more time outside hiking, finding out of the way swimming holes, or biking. I swim several times a week or fast walking for exercise. Slow walks for romanceMy spirit is young, age is a number.Self employed as a clothing and accessory designer ; I also have also been a teacher for many years. I teach all ages anything from general ed to sewing and how to use the creative process. I have a full schedule, but with flexibility. Seeking a man with Confidence and intelligence and who cares how he presents himself; a Respectful mature man that has space and time to value a wonderful woman by his side for some of life's highlights.I hope you like your work ( maybe passionate about a cause?) and have your life mostly together. Please be someone that can handle a smart, sassy (not mean or rude) personality.Looking for a Friend to build some shared experiences like:Travel, history, wine tours... your ideas *** me something; golf, fly fishing?)Dating is Less about 'the thing we are doing" and more about who I am with; comfy companionship matters.WANT to meet in person if a few *** indicate interest. PLEASE: NOT interested in *** and forth for weeks! Early dates can have possible pressures. The setting can make one more relaxed. Unpredictability in the first few dates keeps things fun.Maybe a drink while listening to great jazz or, tea/coffee or happy hour.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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